Let Me Say This

Hope everyone is doing well staying safe and out the way!

If you follow me on any of my social media's you know that I speak highly about playing with the that PUSS! A lot of women thinks its strange & awkward playing with your self well 
LET ME SAY THIS it's absolutely nothing wrong with it. In fact I feel empowered every time I have an amazing orgasm lol. How do you feel about women playing with themselves enjoying their bodies in such a sexual way? Ladies I suggest going to get you a small vibrator having a little fun don't knock it until you try it!

How do you feel about open relationships?? Now LET ME SAY THIS I'm not I'm willing to down who I am by willing letting a man cheat on me what I'm saying is I don't have time to worry about what he is doing that's not my business any more. I'm focused on SELF and if he feel the need to have other women to fulfill his needs I find out I'm gonna let him be by his self that is. Waisted years on chasing behind a man who was cheating on me with other women and one thing I learned the more you chase him trying to figure shit out the more he cheats. I'm well in my 30's and time is ticking I don/t have time for that foolishness!

Hope everyone is doing well staying safe and out the way!

Being single in your 30's it isn't as bad as some may think. I was in my 20's worried about being alone in my 30's well Let Me Say This ''I LOVE IT"! I'm at peace with myself knowing I can do for myself and I will not except nothing less than I deserve! It does get lonely when you want someone to talk too or someone to give you some good loving!  One day I will meet my soulmate but until then I'm tryna get paid not laid lol!

Hey y'all I'm back with new episodes each Wednesday @10a.m

It's been a lot of talk lately about DARK SKIN LIGHT SKIN BLACK WOMEN. Unfortunately we will always have discussions like this because a lot of women feeling a certain way when it comes to this topic. Me personally I never experienced any negative talk about my skin complexion but I know certain women have. Let Me Say This we're all beautiful in our own unique way so forget the outside details what about your inside?

So how do you feel about sharing the responsibilities of the house (BILLS). Well I have definitely experienced all sides when it comes to splitting the house hold bills. Do you want your significant other to help with the BILLS in the home? Here is what I think

It's no secret how I feel about eating MEAT I'm very vocal about this topic. All meat isn't good meat so I encourage everyone to go meatless from time to time. Let's put some of the meat down for a while and yes this does include HIS MEAT too. 

Here we are again in 2020 still going through what our ancestors went through hundreds of years ago. Let Me Say This ALL Black people have had some form of racism happen to them. Being a black woman I definitely experienced it many times and it's sickening that we are still treated like we are slaves. One thing for sure we will not back down we are much more powerful now than our ancestors. As African Americans the time is now to get smarter fix your Credit, Finance, and Educate yourself. Learn more about the Rights&Laws they put up against us. Put a plan in motion become a better version of yourself NOW!

Don't know if you know this or not but I'm hear to tell you how powerful WOMEN truly are. We have something that is golden and we need to treat it as such. Power of the P is what I'm speaking of! We give it away too much I think it's time to take back our POWER. Fellas don't come for me.

FRIENDS how many of US have THEM ones we can depend on. I never had a lot of friends and it's my fault because I don't trust easy. Being in different friendships over the years has taught me the meaning of REAL friends and what I want out of a friendship. I had a few friends over the years that are no longer around. Like mother use to say 
"Denise everyone not your friend be careful who you call a friend".

We are definitely living in a time where more and more people are caring about their physical appearance before the mental. I was definitely one of those women who struggled with insecurities and was a shamed of how I looked. Then I realized it was all in my head. Your mental state of mind is what makes you unique and beautiful. Make sure you give yourself some love before you let a doctor give it to you.