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This week we are diving deep into why was I a Pick Me Girl?   

According to the Urban Dictionary, a "pick me girl" is a girl who seeks male validation by indirectly or directly insinuating that she's not like the other girls. For example, she may have or present herself to have more guy friends because they're less problematic and catty than women are.  

 And I have to be honest, I definitely was that girl that convinced myself that it was okay to have more guy friends because they were less problematic and less dramatic.  In this episode, I break down why I believe I was seeking this male validation and share some of my most embarrassing "pick me" moments.    

Make sure you stay until the end where I'll be reading some of you guys most embarrassing "pick me" moments as well! 

 If you need advice on your love life, submit your letters to at this link below: sipandspills.com  

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It's Two-Cent Tuesday! Where we read your letters and give our two cents on your dating life! 

New Episodes Every Tuesday & Thursday!  If you need advice on your love life, submit your letters to at this link below: sipandspills.com  Join our FB Group "Spill the Tea with Sip & Spill" where every month we are giving away wine to our most engaged member!  https://www.facebook.com/groups/664407411172780/about   Sip & Spill is offering this 6 Mediterranean Wines package for $45, free shipping, and a free corkscrew in partnership with wine insiders! Click the link below to order yours today: https://wineinsiders.eqwh.net/c/2219295/662306/9974  Follow us: instagram.com/sipandspills facebook.com/sipandspills twitter.com/sipandspills  Contact us: [email protected]

It's Two-Cent Tuesday! Every Tuesday we are reading your messy letters and giving our two-cents! This week's guest is my beautiful Mother! Stay tuned to hear the letters we read for this week. If you would like to submit a letter to possibly read on the show go to sipandspills.com 

Sometimes we find ourselves chasing after what we can't have.  We hold on to hope that the uncertainty in our relationship with someone will eventually become clear.  NO! Run for cover ladies! If his energy isn't matching yours then its time to keep it pushing!

Now you might be wondering, Veniece..why is this called N*ggas in Memphis? Well, I'll tell you, somehow some way I manage to always meet a nigga from Memphis who wants to play me his mix tape.

And they all. They all have been shot at least three times minimum

This is part I of a story time series where I'll describe the encounters I come across when meeting these men from Memphis. In this particular story, you will hear about this guy FAKED HIS OWN DEATH and moved to Atlanta (the city of scammers) to change his life 🙃

How do I get in these situations? I will never know! 🤦🏽‍♀️

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WE'RE BACKKKKK!!!! This week's episode is all about Grown Woman Weight! 

Ladies, are you struggling to figure out where this extra weight came from? You are NOT alone! In this episode, Vee opens up about her experience with grown woman weight and possibly dealing with a minor case of body dysmorphia. 

We also asked our audience their experience with Grown Woman Weight, so tune in to hear what you guys had to say!

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Never had a girlfriend before! We are 2 Black Women giving dating advice every Tuesday for our segment #TwoCentTuesday where we give our two-cents on your dating life every Tuesday! We discuss all things dating and relationship advice during our girl talk while sipping on our favorite wines! This week we are reading more r/askreddit letters and giving out Two-Cents Let us know your opinions! If you need advice on your love life, submit your letters to at this link below: linktr.ee/sipandspills Join our FB Group "Spill the Tea with Sip & Spill" where every month we are giving away wine to our most engaged member! https://www.facebook.com/groups/664407411172780/about Sip & Spill is offering this 6 Mediterranean Wines package for $45, free shipping, and a free corkscrew in partnership with wine insiders! Click the link below to order yours today: https://wineinsiders.eqwh.net/c/2219295/662306/9974 Follow us: instagram.com/sipandspills facebook.com/sipandspills twitter.com/sipandspills

OMG! My Crush Has No Idea I Like Him! Soooo...it's time to read some letters from Reddit! Do you have a crush that has no idea you like them? How about a boyfriend that works with his ex?!?!? or going on a first date with your crush on his birthday and having no idea what to get him!!! Let us know your opinions! If you need advice on dating and relationship topics, submit your letters to at this link below: linktr.ee/sipandspills Join our FB Group "Spill the Tea with Sip & Spill" where every month we are giving away wine to our most engaged member! https://www.facebook.com/groups/664407411172780/about Sip & Spill is offering this 6 Mediterranean Wines package for $45, free shipping, and a free corkscrew in partnership with wine insiders! Click the link below to order yours today: https://wineinsiders.eqwh.net/c/2219295/662306/9974 Follow us: instagram.com/sipandspills facebook.com/sipandspills twitter.com/sipandspills

Are Bad sex and bad money management red flags? This Tuesday, we give our opinion on a couple letters you guys sent us asking for advice. Let us know your opinions! If you need advice on dating and relationship topics, submit your letters to at the link below: linktr.ee/sipandspills

How to have a date night during covid with kids in 2021? This Tuesday, we give our opinion on a couple letters you guys sent us asking for advice. Let us know your opinions! If you need advice on dating and relationship topics, submit your letters to at the link below: linktr.ee/sipandspills