30 minutes of my 30’s

My money 💰 wasn’t right !!


Back in 2019 when I first met Ariana Veasley she told me she wanted to go to The Garden Room, so I booked a reservation. I didn’t check the menu until later. At the time I was only making $14 an hour and living with my sister Jada.
The menu was out of my range, so I told Ari I made reservations but had to cancel them because my money is not right. She begged to go and even offered to pay!!

I finally got a chance to take her.
Go check out her Post to see what she wore and the pictures.  Click here 🔜🔜Ariana Ferrari 

Did I sound like a BBD? Bitter baby dad!

I opened up my emotions about fightng for child custody in a man's pov. I got some feedback and said I sounded like I was bitter, I think NOT! I was just speaking facts and what I go through.

But that made me think ( I love when I get reviews, it challenges me) and I said I did make some mistakes when I heard I would be a father, and I think it changed the dynamics of our relationship.  I would go back in time, and the biggest thing is not getting into a relationship and more.

So fellas, take some notes on the things I did, and hopefully you won't make the same.
As HOV said
Like I told you sell drugs; no, Hov' did that
So hopefully you won't have to go through that

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Not I said the Women.........

My homegirl Jamisa reported about an incident she encountered and stated she didn't feel safe and protected as a woman.

That hurt me and I wanted to know if a lot of women felt like this, so I did a poll and 100% of women felt like this. So this is my reply to Jamisa to let her know, We got you out here.

Us men will most definitely look out and respect you and protect you.

You can find Jamisa podcast below. ( it is so great and always get the mind going)
Jamisa's Podcast

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@UptowntroyATL
@Blexbrand

It's crazy how I don't connect with some of my black brothers like its a competition against us. It is no such thing in my eyes. 

The brotherhood and circle I have built, does not condone hate or degrading another fella that is of ours and I wish I can meet more like us. 

In my time with Blexcellence, I've noticed something that I thought was just me.
Guys don't show love to other guys when it comes to style or business. 
 And to be honest, that shit is wack and corny.

During my week in Charlotte, NC I was visiting a friend and great photographer ( details is below) me and her husband started a convo and we spoke about how other black men don't show love to each other and be stunting. 
Why is that? 
Why is my best customers, woman? They support me more and show love like no other.
Why when I present my Brand, my brothers don't BIG me up, or repost or anything. I don't care about a buy, but don't DM me about how you fuck with it but in public you quiet. 
This month I will be creating a video called "Dear Black Man" consisting of just greeting and showing love when I see a man on the street.

But overall, I had a great time in Charlotte and Andrea did such a phenomenal job. If you ever want a great photographer reach out to her, or her husband they both do great. CLICK HERE https://www.instagram.com/amathisphotos/

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A lot has happen to me in the year 2021, there biggest is my dad passing away from Covid complications. That hurt me, so this year is me adjusting to life without him and really adjusting my life and schedule for my mom to be more apart of it. 

I also lost my Uncle, 2 months before and he was my guide in life. My Uncle ran the streets and then went legit and I used to go to him for advice on what's next in my life.

This year is me putting Blexcellence first and this Podcast. 

I hate how society try to make it like when a child is fatherless, it's the man's fault. That is not always the case, and that narrative needs to be told and acknowledged.  I have been through this and have first hand knowledge of my child's mother being negative.

That drama that a child's mother brings can really bring down and hurt a man, because at the end of the day, he made a miracle with this woman and still wants her acceptance as a father.

Now this podcast is not to point all fault at her, I'm just telling my story. Im speaking facts and you pick to disagree or agree. 

Back in July of this year I made a thread of the things the world need to stop expecting from Black Men, things that we get stereotyped for and the box they set us in.
 
So I decided to do the podcast on this thread and speak on each post that I made.
You can see the post HERE ( CLICK ME).

Share the post and comment if you can add more. 

Everybody can't handle a Nympho, I've tried and that part of my life was draining. I can tell you personally sex sells.
Between working and dealing with everyday life shit, most men can't keep up with a nympho.
It sounds appealing and a lot of men dream about it, but trust me, it has its fun and great times but its draining too.

I met Bianca Moore when I was 21 and she was a seasoned and well vet in how to seduce a young  man like me (32 years of age ), and I fell for it. To be honest, Bianca sucked and fucked me to perfection.

Make sure to follow me on instagram @uptowntroyATLhttps://www.instagram.com/uptowntroyatl/ for my Live shows every Thursday at 7pm and our website for Blexcellence Brand http://www.blexbrand.com

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As you get to a point in your life, I align myself with certain values and morals. So if you don’t line up with them, I’m going to have that conversation with you and hold you accountable just as you should hold me to certain standards too.

Make sure to follow me on instagram @uptowntroyATLhttps://www.instagram.com/uptowntroyatl/ for my Live shows every Thursday at 7pm and our website for Blexcellence Brand http://www.blexbrand.com

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