Lila with Lalita Ballesteros

If I had a dollar for every single time someone spouted "victim mentality" in the self-help community, there would be absolutely 0 requirement for me to ask folks to pay me. I'd make millions off that alone. And shall! 

In today's episode, however, that's part of what I'm addressing. Nobody told me what it meant to be a victim after true victimhood. Meaning, at one point some really crappy things probably happened to you (or for you, which takes time to learn and there's no rush). 

You were a victim. And now what? Years later,  we often complain about the stench of what has now become our own sh*t, often citing everyone else as the reason for the smell. And that's what this episode is about. The worthiness within you to heal. 

Because real talk: ain't nobody comin' to clean up your mess. How do you know it's your mess? Because you're the one that sees it! So get to it! 

Key points:

• You more than anyone if can you hear me somewhere in your heart, you’re worth your own healing. Know it’s a journey.
• Mija. No one is going to clean your mess up for you except you. 
• You are worth your own healing. You are worth your own peace. \How much have you invested in your healing, darling? 
• I know what it’s like to be high without being high. And that’s the truth. 
• I care less about the past brags because the state of my soul and spirit were in such a traumatized state.. would I ever encourage someone to go create that if they were under such tremendous pain? Probably not. 

As always, thank you for listening. You could be anywhere and you're here listening to me sing in a closet.  

Thank you, 

Lalita

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