Was That Good For You?

Today my friend and Playmate Shauna Sexton comes to the studio to discuss the art of sexting. We offer the woman's perspective in receiving dick pics as well as the amount of work that goes into making a good sexy video. Do you have the right lighting and angle? Is Netflix blaring too loudly in the background? All important factors to consider. Later we offer a few tips on the proper sexting etiquette and how men can stand to try a little harder before hitting "send." Word of the day: Soft Limit For more on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today I'm joined by my good friend Kelley Fox to discuss the meaning of emotional unavailability in relationships. We also talk about how differences in love languages can be perceived as disinterest. Listen to find out if you might be falling for the traps of being strung along by someone who’s emotionally unavailable (or just not that into you). Word of the day: Brat For more on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On this week's episode, I'm joined by Adrienne Williams to discuss the many pros and cons of using dating apps. We talk matching with A-list celebs on the Raya app, how apps might actually be making dating worse, and how Adrienne’s boyfriend might want to upgrade from a “kept man” to a “houseboy.” Word of the day: Houseboy For more on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On this week's episode, one of my best friends, actress Imani Hakim is on the show! She and her friend, director Daniel Weaver, talk through the nuance of interracial relationships. We get deep about the challenges that come with dating outside your race or even your ethnicity, and what we've all learned along the way. For more on IG: @rayacarmona  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On this weeks episode, my good friend Rachel Eck chats with me on all things porn. We get into our personal preferences, discuss the most popular porn searches and the possible negative effects of consuming too much porn. For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On this week's episode, travel photographer Beth Saravo and State Champ’s Ryan Scott Graham join me to talk long distance dating. From communicating when you’re in different countries to hooking up on the tour bus, they cover it all. For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On this week's episode, I'm joined by my best friend and recurring guest Gabriela Sibaja to talk about the good, the bad and the ugly when it comes to creeping on social media. Whether it’s snooping on your ex or digging through a new partner’s past, we both agree that it’s time to cut the habit. For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Kristi Beck from Playboy HQ joins me in the studio for a frank discussion on the always fascinating topic of sex on the first date! Kristi explains how sex BEFORE the first date led to her healthy, long-term relationship (she's now engaged to him)! and why we should shed old stereotypes. For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Was That Good For You? is a guide to all things sex and relationships. Every week, sex educator Raya Carmona talks openly and honestly with guests on topics ranging from navigating interracial dating to normalizing kinks in the bedroom to the trajectory of becoming a sugar baby. Through candid conversations with friends as well as interviews with leaders in the sexual health field, this show works to destigmatize the sexual journey we are all on. Recurring guests include Raya’s partner Kelen Capener and her best friend Gabby, who help answer listener-submitted sex and relationship questions. For more, follow the show on Instagram at @wasthatgoodforyou.  Follow Raya: Instagram: @rayacarmona Twitter: @rayacarmona TikTok: @rayacarmona To watch the podcast on YouTube: Raya's Channel Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/WTGFYPod If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be amazing! You can text, email, Tweet, or send this link to a friend: http://bit.ly/WTGFYPod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices