Life, Leather, and Lilith

Public dungeons can be an overwhelming experience for those who have never been or haven't been in a while.  Today I talk about good practices I've learned through past experiences. This one covers just the basics of how to approach people in the scene without making a fool of yourself of crossing any immediate hardline barriers. I'll be touching on scene spaces and the like in later episodes. Hope you enjoy!

In this episode, I talk about the concept of being "dominant enough" for a dynamic and how compatibility of style is often more important that the image to be projected. I also talk about what, to me, are the core values of being a Dominant in the first place.

In this episode, I discuss my feelings about the sexual connection to BDSM and answer some questions posed to me by a friend about my asexuality. I dive into what gives me the feelings of intimacy out of the BDSM lifestyle and what constitutes a good time for me.  The shameless plug I mentioned is to @deviantsdelight on Instagram. Please give this wonderful guy a look, I've rarely had a more pleasant experience with a toymaker.

In today's episode of Life, Leather, and Lilith, I discuss some of the things to think about for newer people in the scene when considering starting a new D/s dynamic.

In the inaugural episode of Life, Leather, and Lilith, I talk about the experience of being new to the BDSM community, what to expect during your first scene, and the importance of communication.