WHEN DATING HURTS

This is part one of a two-part story. 

This is a cautionary tale for parents and children. There is much to be learned as Cherice Bloom takes us through years of abusive behavior while dating and living with Cody (not his real name).

While growing up, home life offered her little comfort. Cherice’s father’s job took him away from home most of the time. Her mother was schizophrenic, which created shocking difficulties for young Cherice.

Still in her teens, she felt forced to flee home. During that time, she met a slightly older guy who swept her off her feet. She admits she was somewhat naïve and innocent, but he was not. Even in the earliest stages of dating, you will hear how his unhealthy behavior crept in.

She was not aware that the warning signs she experienced would later lead to all kinds of trouble. So, she stayed with him far too long.

Cherice Bloom overcame many hurdles placed in her path. You will learn how her journey made her stronger. You will benefit greatly from hearing her tell it all.

NOTE:
If you want to share your story of abuse on the
WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, email me: [email protected]

Thank you for listening to our podcast,
Bill Mitchell
Website: WhenDatingHurts.com

Content/Trigger Warnings: domestic abuse, domestic violence, alcoholism, and graphic violence.

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We are most fortunate to have this two-part conversation with Lt. Mark Wynn. This is part two.

Part quest for justice. Part journey towards healing. Decorated Nashville cop Mark Wynn wrestles with his own violent childhood while working to reform decades of domestic violence mishandling, cover-ups, and abuse from deep within law enforcement.

The film, “This Is Where I Learned Not to Sleep”, follows the story of Lt. Mark Wynn. Mark is a retired Nashville police officer with 20 years on the force.

After surviving and escaping a violent childhood home, Mark has gone on to be one of the foremost advocates for supporting families facing domestic violence in this country. Mark has trained police departments in all 50 states and 16 countries. His work is not only vital but imperative as family violence continues to increase.

Domestic Violence cases have increased by 25 to 33 percent globally since the Covid pandemic began. This shadow epidemic hides behind closed doors, but we have an opportunity with this film to bring the issue to the fore and help Mark on his mission to save families.

“As Mark Wynn’s story tells us, domestic abuse is a deeper root and normalizer of violence than all the wars combined. Ending it is a path to peace.”—Gloria Steinem  

NOTE:      
If you want to share your story of abuse on the      
WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, email me: [email protected]

Thank you for listening to our podcast,       
Bill Mitchell       
Website: WhenDatingHurts.com

Content/Trigger Warnings: domestic abuse, domestic violence, alcoholism, and graphic violence.

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Thanks to my wonderful sponsors.  
If you purchase one of these products, a portion of the
sale helps to keep this podcast running.   

BlendJet      
• Use my special link: zen.ai/WhenDatingHurts12 to SAVE 12%   at blendjet.com. The discount will be applied at checkout!

Cure Hydration      
Try Cure today and feel the difference for yourself!      
• Use my link: https://zen.ai/WhenDatingHurts1  for
20% OFF your order, coupon activated at check out!

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We are most fortunate to have this two-part conversation with Lt. Mark Wynn. This is part one. 

Part quest for justice. Part journey towards healing. Decorated Nashville cop Mark Wynn wrestles with his own violent childhood while working to reform decades of domestic violence mishandling, cover-ups, and abuse from deep within law enforcement.

The film, “This Is Where I Learned Not to Sleep”, follows the story of Lt. Mark Wynn. Mark is a retired Nashville police officer with 20 years on the force.

After surviving and escaping a violent childhood home, Mark has gone on to be one of the foremost advocates for supporting families facing domestic violence in this country. Mark has trained police departments in all 50 states and 16 countries. His work is not only vital but imperative as family violence continues to increase.

Domestic Violence cases have increased by 25 to 33 percent globally since the Covid pandemic began. This shadow epidemic hides behind closed doors, but we have an opportunity with this film to bring the issue to the fore and help Mark on his mission to save families.

“As Mark Wynn’s story tells us, domestic abuse is a deeper root and normalizer of violence than all the wars combined. Ending it is a path to peace.”—Gloria Steinem

NOTE:      
If you want to share your story of abuse on the     
WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, email me: [email protected]

Thank you for listening to our podcast,      
Bill Mitchell      
Website: WhenDatingHurts.com

Content/Trigger Warnings: domestic abuse, domestic violence, alcoholism, and graphic violence.

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Thanks to my wonderful sponsors.
If you purchase one of these products, a portion of the sale helps to keep this podcast running.

BlendJet     
• Use my special link: zen.ai/WhenDatingHurts12 to SAVE 12%   at blendjet.com. The discount will be applied at checkout!

Cure Hydration     
Try Cure today and feel the difference for yourself!     
• Use my link: https://zen.ai/WhenDatingHurts1  for 20% OFF your order, coupon activated at check out!

Nom Nom     
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This is part two of a two-part narrative.  

The voice you hear on this WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast episode was created by artificial intelligence. It is not a real person's voice. 

The words spoken are a composite of beliefs and concepts expressed by dating and domestic abusers found within notes and interviews. They have been collected over nearly two decades. They have been combined to form complete ideas and thoughts.

The purpose of this episode is to illustrate how abusers often portray themselves as the victims. There is not one "portrait" that fits all abusers, of course. But let it be said that many never take ownership of their words or actions, and they justify any abusive and destructive behaviors.



NOTE:       
If you want to share your story of abuse on the       
WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, email me: [email protected]

Thank you for listening to our podcast,        
Bill Mitchell        
Website: WhenDatingHurts.com

Content/Trigger Warnings: domestic abuse, domestic violence, alcoholism, and graphic violence.

This is part one of a two-part narrative.

ear on this WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast episode was created by artificial intelligence. It is not a real person's voice.

The words spoken are a composite of beliefs and concepts expressed by dating and domestic abusers found within notes and interviews. They have been collected over nearly two decades. They have been combined to form complete ideas and thoughts.   

The purpose of this episode is to illustrate how abusers often portray themselves as the victims. There is not one "portrait" that fits all abusers, of course. But let it be said that many never take ownership of their words or actions, and they justify any abusive and destructive behaviors.     

NOTE:        
If you want to share your story of abuse on the       
WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, email me: [email protected]

Thank you for listening to our podcast,         
Bill Mitchell         
Website: WhenDatingHurts.com

Content/Trigger Warnings: domestic abuse, domestic violence, alcoholism, and graphic violence.

Sebastian Soul has been a sought-after international dating coach for over a decade. He is also the host of two very different podcasts: the “Get Him Keep Him” podcast and the “Get Over Him” podcast.     

In our two-part conversation, Sebastian and I took turns interviewing each other. The expectation was our final edited interview would appear on my podcast and one of his.

I found Sebastian to be deeply knowledgeable and a font of insightful information about what’s really going on when two people are dating. He knew more about dating and domestic violence than I thought he would. I’m certain you will find listening to our interview will be useful in many practical ways.

If you want to reach Sebastian, you can contact him through his website: GetHimKeepHim.com.
His email is  [email protected].

NOTE:     
If you want to share your story of abuse on the    
WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, email me: [email protected]          

Thank you for listening to our podcast,     
Bill Mitchell     
WhenDatingHurts.com

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Support for the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast    
comes from these wonderful sponsors:          

Sun & Swell
If you're looking for a more planet-friendly pantry, shop
Sun & Swell and GET 20% OFF site wide when you go to sunandswellfoods.com using the link mentioned in this  podcast episode.  
• Use my special link to SAVE 20% on your order at sunandswellfoods.com.  

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I mention in this episode at check out.  
• That's 20% OFF ANYTHING you order when you shop better hydration today using my promo code at LiquidIV.com.

Sebastian Soul has been a sought-after international dating coach for over a decade. He is also the host of two very different podcasts: the “Get Him Keep Him” podcast and the “Get Over Him” podcast.   

In our two-part conversation, Sebastian and I took turns interviewing each other. The expectation was our final edited interview would appear on my podcast and his.

I found Sebastian to be deeply knowledgeable and a font of insightful information about what’s really going on when two people are dating. He knew more about dating and domestic violence than I thought he would. I’m certain you will find listening to our interview will be useful in many practical ways.

If you want to reach Sebastian, you can contact him through his website: GetHimKeepHim.com.
His email is  [email protected].  

NOTE:    
If you want to share your story of abuse on the   
WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, email me: [email protected]        

Thank you for listening to our podcast,    
Bill Mitchell    
WhenDatingHurts.com

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Support for the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast   
comes from these wonderful sponsors:        

Sun & Swell
If you're looking for a more planet-friendly pantry, shop  
Sun & Swell and GET 20% OFF site wide when you go to sunandswellfoods.com using the link mentioned in this  podcast episode.  
• Use my special link to SAVE 20% on your order at sunandswellfoods.com.  

Liquid I.V. and Liquid I.V. Sugar Free
Real People. Real Flavor. Real Hydrating.  
• GET 20% OFF when you go to LiquidIV.com and use the link  
I mention in this episode at check out.  
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Barbra’s story takes time to tell. For that reason, it is presented to you in three parts. This is part three.

Trigger Warnings!!!
Barbra Walker’s story of abuse comes with serious trigger warnings about its content and descriptions. There is much to be learned from listening to her telling of what happened, but it contains potentially distressing material.

Ms. Walker had never told her entire story at one time until she contacted the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast and trusted us to bring it to you from beginning to end.

Like so many dating and domestic violence narratives on this podcast, the story begins with dating someone who is quite appealing. These are some glimpses of what would later be identified as red flags, but in those early days these are overlooked, and the relationship continued.

Barbra Walker’s ability to detail every facet of all that happened is remarkable. And our opinion of her as a survivor, a loving mother, and a loyal wife holds our highest admiration. It was an honor to meet her and carry her story forward to you.

Barbra’s deepest wish: that her story will inform those who are at any stage in being lowered into the nightmare of dating and domestic violence. She hopes they will soon find ways out as she did—but with much less trauma.

NOTE:
If you want to share your story of abuse on the
WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, email me:
[email protected]

Thank you for listening to our podcast,
Bill Mitchell
WhenDatingHurts.com

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Support for the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast
comes from these wonderful sponsors:

Sun & Swell
If you're looking for a more planet-friendly pantry, shop
Sun & Swell and GET 20% OFF site wide when you go to sunandswellfoods.com using the link mentioned in this
podcast episode.
• Use my special link to SAVE 20% on your order at sunandswellfoods.com.

Liquid I.V. and Liquid I.V. Sugar Free
Real People. Real Flavor. Real Hydrating.
• GET 20% OFF when you go to LiquidIV.com and use the link
I mention in this episode at check out.
• That's 20% OFF ANYTHING you order when you shop better hydration today using my promo code at LiquidIV.com.

Barbra’s story takes time to tell. For that reason, it is presented to you in three parts. This is part two.

Trigger Warnings!!!
Barbra Walker’s story of abuse comes with serious trigger warnings about its content and descriptions. There is much to be learned from listening to her telling of what happened, but it contains potentially distressing material.

Ms. Walker had never told her entire story at one time until she contacted the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast and trusted us to bring it to you from beginning to end.

Like so many dating and domestic violence narratives on this podcast, the story begins with dating someone who is quite appealing. These are some glimpses of what would later be identified as red flags, but in those early days these are overlooked, and the relationship continued.

Barbra Walker’s ability to detail every facet of all that happened is remarkable. And our opinion of her as a survivor, a loving mother, and a loyal wife holds our highest admiration. It was an honor to meet her and carry her story forward to you.

Barbra’s deepest wish: that her story will inform those who are at any stage in being lowered into the nightmare of dating and domestic violence. She hopes they will soon find ways out as she did—but with much less trauma.

NOTE:
If you want to share your story of abuse on the
WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, email me:
[email protected]

Thank you for listening to our podcast,
Bill Mitchell
WhenDatingHurts.com

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Support for the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast
comes from these wonderful sponsors:

Sun & Swell
If you're looking for a more planet-friendly pantry, shop
Sun & Swell and GET 20% OFF site wide when you go to sunandswellfoods.com using the link mentioned in this
podcast episode.
• Use my special link to SAVE 20% on your order at sunandswellfoods.com.

Liquid I.V. and Liquid I.V. Sugar Free
Real People. Real Flavor. Real Hydrating.
• GET 20% OFF when you go to LiquidIV.com and use the link
I mention in this episode at check out.
• That's 20% OFF ANYTHING you order when you shop better hydration today using my promo code at LiquidIV.com.

Barbra’s story takes time to tell. For that reason, it is presented to you in three parts. This is part one. 

Trigger Warnings!!!
Barbra Walker’s story of abuse comes with serious trigger warnings about its content and descriptions. There is much to be learned from listening to her telling of what happened, but it contains potentially distressing material.

Ms. Walker had never told her entire story at one time until she contacted the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast and trusted us to bring it to you from beginning to end.

Like so many dating and domestic violence narratives on this podcast, the story begins with dating someone who is quite appealing. These are some glimpses of what would later be identified as red flags, but in those early days these are overlooked, and the relationship continues.

Barbra Walker’s ability to detail every facet of all that happened is remarkable. And our opinion of her as a survivor, a loving mother, and a loyal wife holds our highest admiration. It was an honor to meet her and carry her story forward to you. 

Barbra’s deepest wish: that her story will inform those who are at any stage in being lowered into the nightmare of dating and domestic violence. She hopes they will soon find ways out as she did—but with much less trauma.

NOTE:
If you want to share your story of abuse on the
WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, email me: [email protected]

Thank you for listening to our podcast,
Bill Mitchell
WhenDatingHurts.com

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Support for the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast
comes from these wonderful sponsors:

Sun & Swell
If you're looking for a more planet-friendly pantry, shop
Sun & Swell and GET 20% OFF site wide when you go to sunandswellfoods.com using the link mentioned in this podcast episode.
• Use my special link to SAVE 20% on your order at sunandswellfoods.com.

Liquid I.V. and Liquid I.V. Sugar Free
Real People. Real Flavor. Real Hydrating.
• GET 20% OFF when you go to LiquidIV.com and use the link
I mention in this episode at check out.
• That's 20% OFF ANYTHING you order when you shop better hydration today using my promo code at LiquidIV.com.