"way beyond me"

Today I will  address the academy award incident where one man physically attacked another man on national TV and why self control and self respect is so important.  It is imperative to be in control of ones emotions and not make decisions based on feelings.  Decisions based on emotional stress are usually made with wrong regrettable choices.  God wants us to turn the other cheek when someone slaps us. This is not a easy thing to do but as one man displayed, turning the check gives the victory and tells us that real power is found within.

Deception is a stronghold that can lead to disappointment, depression and despair. There are many scammers on and off line just waiting to use and abuse, so we must be careful of the plots, schemes and the hidden agendas that are sometimes found in false love, kindness and trust!  Red flags always warn us when they start waving, but we choose to ignore them while continuing to be bamboozled and preyed upon.  We must take control of our lives and call a thing a thing. Be emotionally healthy and stop letting yourself be misused out of desperation for love and affection.   

In this conversation we explore the term "loose" which is sometimes used to describe a type of woman who may not be as reserved as others, and what this same word means when God addresses it.  The term "loose" can judge or justify, depending on who speaks it and to whom it is spoken to. 

Please take a few minutes with me while I further explore the terms attachments, triggers, and detachment and how some people mistakenly think it is love.

In this conversation I want to address the dysfunction of being attached to people, places or things and the triggers that leads to bad behaviors or mindsets.  There are several types of  attachments that we need to address within our own life in order to be free from the bondage of controlling or being controlled by others.  When we Learn to detach from people, places or things, we can live a fuller happier life without the chaos, drama or dysfunction of others.  Hope you enjoy!

This is a season  to makes things new in 2022.  In this conversation we  learn that being doubleminded brings instability in All of a persons ways. Double minded people are inconsistent,  unreliable and untrustworthy. It stems from stress, fear, anger and confusion.  Medically there is no cure for being doubleminded.  In order to be delivered from this personality disorder, we have to be mindful of our double heart and we must think on the good things of GOD, see the best in situations and be true to oneself.  Say what you mean and mean what you say.  Being two faced and wishy washy is not a good look.  God is not the author of confusion, we are!

Today I am sharing from a conversation that myself and a person spoke on.  His truth was that when he has limited options, He feels he has no choices.  I do not agree with his thought pattern.  We are given various  options that are designed to help us make a choice.  From these options, decisions are made and particular consequences are the outcome of those decisions.  God gives us free will to choose when and how we want to deal with any circumstance, situation or outcome from previous decisions.  We are never stuck any any mindset, we just CHOOSE to stay there.  

In this conversation I would like  to address the social issues that so many people seem to experience. Worrying, stressing and becoming jealous of what other people have.  We all have our own purpose and promises that God has assigned to us.  It is not healthy nor wise to covet someone else's assumed valued possessions, because we do not know what sacrifices they made to obtain them or what sacrifices they are making to keep them. It is best to stay close to the life source which is God The Father, God The Son, and God The Holy Spirit, for our treasures.  All those that are Wicked and evil in power and authority  will not last. Goodness and Mercy will follow all those that are righteous  all the days of their life.  Be grateful for what you have  and  strive for the greater treasures in God who promises to bring joy, happiness, and also an abundance of PEACE!!

In this discussion I hit on a topic most people would rather not talk about: being alone vs. being lonely.  there is a big difference between the two. when a person is alone in a positive way there are so many things that can get accomplished.  A person can find peace, develop creativity, make better decisions, can hear God, and find the ability to get to know and love oneself.  When a person feels lonely, on the other hand, it is a negative mindset in thinking that they need someone or something else besides God and their own company .  Loneliness in a distrust of a persons own ability to be by them self and use their own judgement.  A lonely person thinks more highly of another person's company and feels the need to fill a negative void that they them self have created.

The Word of God teaches us that it is not good for man to be alone, but we must fill this alone time with the Presence Of God in order to combat the feelings and thoughts of loneliness so that it does not get replaced with sinful thoughts and negative projections from others.  God promised He will never leave or forsake us therefore we are never alone.

This conversation directs the attention on women who are sometimes betrayed and unprotected by the very people that God appoints over us: the men in our lives!.  There are two disturbing stories in the bible gives examples of the gross neglect of women by the ones closest to us.  It matters not the status of a person, abuse can still occur even in the most prestigious families.  We women must become aware of the dangers of allowing our vulnerabilities to fall into the hands of those not worthy or incapable of protecting us.  Proverbs 31 shows us how to be a strong woman of integrity and virtue without losing our femininity.