Off the Cuffs: a kink and BDSM podcast

This week we sat down with JimJam to talk about the Dallas leather community and being a 24/7 dominant with depression. We discussed what drew him to the leather community, what leather means beyond shoes/pieces of clothing, and how leather is typically much less intimidating than it might seem. Finally, we covered how he manages a 24/7 lifestyle as a dominant with depression, and how he makes the role work for him in times of low mental health. 

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Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC.

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Struggling with how to celebrate Pride Month when many “celebrations” feel rife with corporate lip service, over-sanitization, and police? After a brief intro from Dick and Gwen, enjoy this bonus conversation in which Gwen, Coco Paige, friend of the show Rhapsody in Blue, and upcoming guest Rosie grapple with remembering queer and trans history, censorship/sanitization, and finding queer joy in a time where our people’s lives are in danger. 

Listen to more of our recent conversations with queer, kinky POC:
358 with Lord Allen
326 with Molly Pocket
320 and 321 with Sal
319 with Luna Matatas

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Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC.

Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink

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This week we sat down with Auntie Vice, author, host of the Fat Chicks on Top Podcast, and creator of the Love Letters to a Unicorn BDSM blog. We talked about body positivity and disability activism in and out of kink/sexuality, body hair and grooming in D/s, and her journey to becoming a sex educator. 

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Find all of Auntie Vice’s projects at https://www.loveletterstoaunicorn.com/
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Dick and Gwen’s guest appearances on Fat Chicks on Top

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Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Para-hell-ograms Nipple Clamps here!

Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC.

Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink

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This week we sat down with Lulabelle, a bratty, subby masochist. We talked about how her D/s dynamic has helped with her mental health, such as being able to comfortably express her bratty side during times of lower mental health. We also discussed what it’s like working through therapy as a kinky person, the importance of building safe connections after trauma, and kink after CSA.

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Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find The Stinger here!

Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC.

Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink

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This week we sat down with Violet Kitten to talk about her interests in asylum fantasies, monsterfucking, petplay, and bondage. We also discussed how she’s been exploring her toppy side through sex work lately, and how she’s been dabbling in mouth/throat fetish roleplays since getting an endoscope dildo. 

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Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find The Original Snapper here!

Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC.

Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink

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This week we’re back for part two of our conversation with Billy Lore. We talked more about his porn creations, rebranding himself as a trans man in the public eye, and how that affects his relationship to the queer community. 

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Find Billy’s porn and more about his workshops on his website.
The porn Billy made in an ambulance!

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Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find  the Elephant Balls here!

Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC.

Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink

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Queers Next Door | Being There
Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast
Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST

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This week we sat down with returning guest Billy Lore: sex educator, porn maker, and co-host of The Dildorks! We caught up on what he’s been up to since the last time we talked, got the scoop on his Better Bottoming for Submissives class, and learned what it’s like to shoot porn in an ambulance. We had so much to talk about that it turned into a two-part episode—look forward to that next week.

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Find Billy’s porn and more about his workshops on his website.

All the videos from Gwen’s first porn collaboration with Dahlia Lark are out! Use the Lovely Listeners discount on our store for 25% off: OCP82028
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Check out our sponsors for this week, Lucky Kitten Collars and Terrible Toyshop. You can find The Rigger’s Delight Humbler here! 

Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC.

Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink

More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:
Queers Next Door | Being There
Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast
Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST

Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, submissive, bottoming, skills, mental, health, transgender, queer, educator, workshop, podcaster, porn, creator

This week we sat down to give some updates about the show, how Off the Cuffs almost went off the air recently, and how to support us going forward. We also talked about a solo scene Gwen did at The Gallery, her first collaboration with another sex worker, and Dick’s new relationship updates! 

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All the videos from Gwen’s first porn collaboration with Dahlia Lark are out! Use the Lovely Listeners discount on our store for 25% off: OCP82028
Spellbound Studios on ManyVids

Dick’s links
Gwen’s links
Buy our porn on ManyVids
Read our blog

Check out our sponsors for this week, Lucky Kitten Collars and Terrible Toyshop. You can find The Snapper 2.0 here! 

Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC.

Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink

More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:
Queers Next Door | Being There
Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast
Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST

Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, solo, scene, self, impact, gender, identity, queer, realizations, social, dungeon, update, moving, long, distance

This week we sat down with Lord Allen, an indigenous queer nonbinary hellhound leatherboi who co-hosts The Kinky Tavern podcast! We talked about their involvement in the leather community, neurodivergence in kink, ways they advocate for themself at events, and the class they teach called How to Talk to Your Autistic Submissive. 

Find Lord Allen on Fetlife
Check out and support The Kinky Tavern!

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Check out our sponsor for this week, Terrible Toyshop. You can find The Stinger here!

Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC.

Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink

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Queers Next Door | Being There
Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast
Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST

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This week we sat down with RhapsodyinBlue to talk about The Gallery, the community space she started in Michigan for play parties, classes, and social events. We also talked about the importance of not pouring from an empty cup as a community leader, as well as the class she teaches on relationship de-escalation.

Find Rhapsody on Fetlife
Instagram: @rhapsody_in_blue4

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Check out our sponsors for this week, Lucky Kitten Collars and Terrible Toyshop. You can find the Breast Traps here!

Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you’ll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC.

Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink

More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:
Queers Next Door | Being There
Will Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian Podcast
Drinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST

Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, dungeon, venue, switch, class, education, vetting, negotiation, leader, breakup, romance, relationships