The Healing Trauma Podcast
by Monique KovenBecome a friend of the podcast! Your support goes directly towards keeping the healing conversation going. Get access to extended and or bonus episodes. https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/monique34/subscribe The Healing Trauma Podcast brings you conversations around trauma healing. This season features a new "Faith" edition where conversations around trauma healing and emotionally healthy spirituality meet. Disclaimer: The information is not intended as a replacement for medical and mental health advice. Follow the advice of your licensed mental health professional.
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Episodes
I Shouldn't Feel This Way With Dr. Alison Cook
30m · PublishedIn this conversation, Monique Koven and Alison Cook discuss the importance of acknowledging and embracing our emotions rather than brushing them aside or numbing them. They explore the concept of naming our emotions as a way to bring order and relief to our inner world. They emphasize the need for self-compassion and curiosity when it comes to our emotions, and the importance of pausing and reflecting before taking action. The conversation also touches on the healing journey of trauma survivors and the role of framing our emotions in a healthy way. Overall, the conversation highlights the practices of naming, awareness, framing, and braving as essential tools for emotional well-being.
Key words emotions, naming, order, relief, self-compassion, curiosity, pausing, reflecting, trauma, healing, framing, braving, emotional
Takeaways
- Acknowledging and embracing our emotions is important for our emotional well-being.
- Naming our emotions brings order and relief to our inner world.
- Self-compassion and curiosity are key in dealing with our emotions.
- Pausing and reflecting before taking action allows for wiser decision-making.
- The healing journey of trauma survivors involves learning to name and honor their emotions.
- Framing our emotions in a healthy way helps us understand and respond to them effectively.
- Braving involves taking action based on our emotional awareness and understanding.
- Embracing Our Emotions: The Key to Emotional Well-being
- Healing Trauma: Learning to Name and Honor Our Emotions
- "I shouldn't feel this way has become for me a little bit of a, oh, I feel something. I feel something I don't want to feel."
- "The truth sets us free. This is what I feel. I'm not gaslighting myself. I'm not trying to dupe myself into not feeling what I really feel."
- "Numbing is to try to keep those emotions outside of our conscious awareness. Naming is bringing them up into the surface and looking at them."
Dr. Alison Cook's Website & Resources
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Mother's Day ~ Attending To Our Sacred Wounds With Dr. Arielle Schwartz
28m · PublishedWith Mother's Day approaching I'm re-releasing a special episode with psychologist and trauma expert Dr. Arielle Schwartz. In this episode, Monique Koven and Dr. Arielle Schwartz discuss the complexities of Mother's Day and the impact it can have on individuals with trauma. They explore the range of emotions that can arise, including happiness, sadness, guilt, and shame. They emphasize the importance of self-compassion and attending to the sacred wounds of the past. They also discuss the role of attachment and how our experiences with our mothers shape our sense of self. The conversation highlights the healing potential of acknowledging and validating our feelings and offering love and compassion to ourselves.
Keywords
Mother's Day, trauma, emotions, self-compassion, attachment Mother's Day can bring up a range of complex emotions for individuals with trauma, including happiness, sadness, guilt, and shame. It is important to practice self-compassion and attend to the sacred wounds of the past. Our experiences with our mothers shape our sense of self and can lead to feelings of responsibility and confusion. Acknowledging and validating our feelings is essential for healing and creating space for self-love and compassion. Attachment plays a significant role in our relationship with our mothers and our ability to offer love and compassion to ourselves. The Range of Emotions on Mother's Day Practicing Self-Compassion and Healing Sacred Wounds "Mother's Day is approaching, we start to feel this almost as countdown of a complexity of feelings."
"We learn to push down our authentic feelings because somebody else gave us this message that they couldn't handle our feelings."
"What is true for you is welcome here now." Grateful for Dr. Arielle Schwartz enormous contribution to the work of Trauma Recovery and Healing.
Check out her website for details on her books and resources.https://drarielleschwartz.com/
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This Is Complex Trauma- Naming What It Is
37m · PublishedThis episode is a recent recording from psychologist Dr. Alison Cook's podcast "The Best Of You' where I was a guest. Taken from her podcast description
'Today’s episode is just so special and so deeply personal. If you’ve experienced trauma, please listen. If you love someone, please listen. Trauma touches so many lives, and it’s so often misunderstood. In today’s episode, Monique Koven, host of The Healing Trauma podcast, shares her powerful story of healing from trauma. There is absolute gold in this episode for everyone."
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You Are Safe Now: A Survivor's Guide to Listening to Your Gut, Healing from Abuse, and Living in Freedom. https://hubs.la/Q02jwKsh0
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You Are Safe Now With Tricia Lott Williford & Jana Richardson
55m · PublishedIn this trauma healing conversation, I am joined with Tricia Lott Williford & Jana Richardson, MA, LPC, authors of the book, You Are Safe Now: A Survivor's Guide to Listening to Your Gut, Healing from Abuse, and Living in Freedom. This conversation is so unique as you will hear from both sides of the Trauma healing journey. Tricia shares from her perspective of feeling stuck in overwhelm & PTSD, and how she was able to slowly move through with the gentle support and guidance of her skilled therapist. Jana shares what it was like working with Tricia and what really helped and supported her through. They talk about the process of untangling the trauma and coming to the understanding of grooming, manipulation and sexual and spiritual abuse by a person of trust.
This episode is available to watch on Spotify or on Youtube https://youtu.be/gbGys_jRHCw
About The book
You Are Safe Now offers a survivor’s first hand story of abuse in the church, including an explanation of the nature of abusers and their common tactics; a compassionate, nuanced discussion of trauma responses; research, examples, and statistics to identify abusive dynamics, predation, grooming, and psychological manipulation; and practical tools and resources to facilitate recovery. For survivors of abuse, counselors, therapists, pastors who treat survivors, and those who support survivors in their healing, You Are Safe Now is an indispensable resource. Get the book here https://a.co/d/7MhcwNm
About The Guests & Authors
Tricia Lott Williford is a writer, blogger, teacher, and co-host of the podcast Let’s Talk Soon with her brother Rob. A prolific writer and ghostwriter, Tricia is the author of many books. She lives in Colorado with her family. Connect with her and follow her writing at https://www.tricialottwilliford.com/. Jana Richardson, MA, LPC, and trained in EMDR, is a seasoned therapist with decades of expertise in counseling victims of trauma, grief, and addiction. Jana has presented internationally as a mental health educator with an emphasis in oncology. Jana lives in Colorado with her family.
Redeeming Heartache With Dr. Dan Allender & Cathy Loerzel
47m · PublishedBONUS Subscriber Episode
57s · PublishedRecovery And Healing With Dr. Mark McNear
34m · PublishedOn Today's healing conversation you are going to get compassionate validation as well as some understanding around the impact of childhood trauma on the body and the brain. I am joined once again with my friend, Dr. Mark McNear. Mark is a survivor and a therapist that shares openly about the healing journey. I loved our conversation and think you will too. Mark shares his personal journey to help others in theirs in his book, Finding My Words, A Ruthless Commitment To Healing Gently After Trauma.
Youtube: https://youtu.be/YaMyG2KR5OA To listen or watch the video episode of the extended version of this episode where Mark guides us slowly through some regulating tools that he uses in his own private practice with his clients and uses himself. You can follow along and add them to your own tool box of self care. Regulating Tools are a very important to use as work to support your nervous system to feel more present and grounded.
LINK BELOW Become a friend of the podcast! Your support goes directly towards keeping the healing conversation going. Get access to extended and or bonus episodes. podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/monique34/subscribe Mark McNear's website: https://markmcnear.com/ "Finding My Words" book: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-My-Wor...
Emotionally Healthy Faith & Healing with Dr. Alison Cook
24m · PublishedWhy A "Faith Edition?"
14m · PublishedReclaiming "YOU"
38m · PublishedThe Healing Trauma Podcast has 141 episodes in total of non- explicit content. Total playtime is 84:49:50. The language of the podcast is English. This podcast has been added on March 5th 2023. It might contain more episodes than the ones shown here. It was last updated on May 21st, 2024 09:10.