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Episode 8- Please Yourself!- How to be happy by saying NO more often

21m · That NLP Bloke- Stuff & Uncommon Sense · 06 May 13:27

Do you ever find yourself running around doing loads for other people?

Feel guilty if you say no? 

Then stop it- and listen to this podcast to understand that being a rescuer is not a very good idea for your own well-being.

How to put yourself first more often, say no without justification and please you...

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Episode 8- Please Yourself!- How to be happy by saying NO more often

Do you ever find yourself running around doing loads for other people?

Feel guilty if you say no? 

Then stop it- and listen to this podcast to understand that being a rescuer is not a very good idea for your own well-being.

How to put yourself first more often, say no without justification and please you...

--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thatnlpbloke/message

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