Addicted to Chaos and Feeling Excited by the Misery
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DrBev
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DrBev, Am I a crisis junkie? I keep attracting Drama Queens. I feel like a magnet for sadness and misery relationships. How can I be addicted to feeling bad? Am I crazy? Don't people normally seek out pleasure rather than emotional pain? I create drama; choose bad boi/gurl friends and associates when things are going good in my life. I try to be productive and happy, but, it takes so such effort. Maybe, I have become accustomed to the pain and think that there is no solution to overcome it. Truth is, sometimes I don't feel worthy; Don't deserve to be happy, so I do things to sabotage the people, places and things that can let me be happy. Tonight, Emotions-R-Us will focus on self-misery and depression when your negativity feeds on itself. What are the symptoms and causes of a misery addiction? How does a childhood full of drama, trauma, and chaos connect to adult relationships and MISERY ADDICTION? Join DrBev and Guest, Dahni McPhail, Author “Two and a Possible”. A true to life fiction; real and personal representation of experiencing the reality and dangers of obsession and life threatening circumstances evolving from misery addicted relationships to “love gone mad”.
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