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Queer Virginity, Talking Boundaries and Desires

55m · Wonderfully Done: Wholesome Sex and Dating Advice · 22 Jun 11:59

Hey there, sweet little biscuits! 

 

Lauren and Vix are back with listener questions today as we approach the season finale. Woah! These are some spicy meatballs, full of challenging conversations that we’re sure many Wonderfully Done listeners can relate to.

 

Topics we explore in this episode:

  • Navigating partners hang ups when you’re a young queer ‘virgin’
  • Communicating seeking support re: painful penetration
  • Negotiating rough sex while inexperienced
  • Voicing what you want ‘in the moment’ with partners
  • Questioning boundaries in mixed sexuality relationships 
  • Navigating internalised biphobia

 

Content and Creators mentioned in this episode:

  • Game: Later Daters
  • Book: Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself by Kristen Neff
  • Book: Emotional Agility by Susan David
  • Ms. Elle X - Domination tips on YouTube

 

Connect with us! Our Website: www.wonderfullydone.show Facebook: Wonderfully Done Twitter: @donewonderfully Listen on Spotify! Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen Join our newsletter here Ask an anonymous question here

Lots of love, Lauren and Vix 💋

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