Domination, BDSM, and Sex Work with Sir James
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Wonderfully Done: Wholesome Sex and Dating Advice
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Dearest sex and love nerds, today we’re talking about the D in BDSM 🖤 with a wholesome and yummy interview with a local Pro Dom in Melbourne. Meet Sir James!
Topics we explore in this episode:
- Anecdotes and lessons learned from kink and sex work
- Legal limitations for sex worker advertising and operating
- Stigma and misconceptions around sex work
- Tackling shame and helping partners find their kinky interests
- How to be a fabulous first-time client
- Tips for adding domination into your dynamic at home
- How to be an active, supportive submissive
Who is Sir James? Sir James (He/Him) is a Pro Dom working out of Melbourne at Fetish House in Oakleigh. He’s a strong rugged man, specialising in services including Masculine Domination, Manhandling, Impact, Bondage, couples coaching, and more.
Where to find more Sir James
Twitter: https://twitter.com/SirJamesMedia
Fetish House Profile: https://fetishhouse.com.au/fetish-providers/james/
Email: [email protected]
Content and Creators mentioned in this episode:
- Resource: Sex Menu
- An awesome tool made by Dr. Stephen de Wit (Sex Therapist)
- This sex menu outlines a wide range of activities and gives you the space to rate your interest out of 5, whether to you to give or receive a certain act, if you’ve done it before and a space for notes
- Filling this in is a great opportunity to get in touch with what interests you in the world of touch, sex, pleasure, and BDSM right now
- Really fun to do alone for personal knowledge or with partners! Also makes for great sexy homework
- Fetish House
- The only custom-designed and built venue in Melbourne specialising in fetish, fantasy and BDSM
- Versatile selection of available professionals, including Dominatrixes, Masters, submissives and more!
- We love their extensive Etiquette Guide
- Tryst
- Recommended listings page for independent escorts, with photos and lots of information on services, pricing and more
- Everything Harder than Everyone Else by Jenny Valentish
- A fabulous new book focusing on ‘why some of us push our bodies to the extreme’, including a substantial interview with Sir James in the context of BDSM
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Lots of love, Lauren and Vix 💋
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