Accepting and Celebrating Yourself w/ Brandon Goodman
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According to Weeze
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In this episode Weeze and Brandon talk about who we could be if society’s standards didn’t have a hold on how we choose to live our lives. If we decided to tune into our hearts vs. what others say, how would we move about the world? How would we show up for ourselves and the people & things we care about? How could we create what has never existed before? This episode is full of wisdom that encourages us to really slow down and ask ourselves, “What do I actually want?”
ABOUT WEEZE
Louiza Doran, known and referred to as Weeze, is a cis-het Amazigh* female-identifying human who uses she/her/they/them pronouns. She’s known as a coach, podcast host, advocate, agent of change, strategist, and educator (to name a few) but is ultimately a compassionate provocateur that is out to help folks uncover their path of possibility.
ABOUT BRANDON
Brandon Kyle Goodman (he/they): From bringing diverse, powerful characters to life on the screen, to writing scripts for one of the most successful television series on Netflix, Actor, Writer and Advocate Brandon Kyle Goodman has emerged in the entertainment industry as a powerful force with a voice to be reckoned with. On the film front, Goodman recently starred in Netflix’s feature film “Feel the Beat,” opposite Sofia Carson. He was a scene-stealer as the outspokenly brave, queer character Deco. Additional acting credits for Goodman include starring as Andy, an eager father-to-be in Amazon’s successful rom-com anthology series “Modern Love,” opposite Andrew Scott. As a writer, Goodman is entering his third season writing on the hit Netflix animated series "Big Mouth". Goodman is proud to be a nonbinary, queer Black leader and a staunch advocate for Black lives. Goodman’s name and messages were launched into the limelight throughout the summer of 2020 as his vulnerable, informative Instagram videos regarding racism in America went viral, quickly solidifying him as a go-to resource for individuals seeking educational and inspiring content, while detailing a personal look at Goodman’s experiences growing up and living Black in America. Today, Goodman’s content has received over millions of views and counting. When not in front of the screen, Goodman loves to seek out great new eats, work out, binge “The Real Housewives,” and discover great, new vocal performances on YouTube.
IN THIS EPISODE, WE TALK ABOUT
- Exploring who we could be if society’s standards of what’s “acceptable” never got ahold of us.
- Practicing how we show up in the world by making small corrections in our language & how we approach others.
- Celebrating all of our identities and experiences, regardless of what other people think.
- Stepping into our fullness and trying not to take people leaving as an attack or as a representation of our validity.
- The truth that sometimes we have to be the one to make the blueprint of what we wish to see in the world because it doesn’t exist!
CALL TO ACTION
- Follow Brandon on social media!
- Listen to Brandon’s podcast, Black Folx.
EPISODE TRANSCRIPT
- https://drive.google.com/file/d/12laepN2B2n_Zf6gndZ40aw54aoqKnfXN/view?usp=sharing
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