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Why dating yourself matters...especially after a difficult break-up

16m · 90% · 02 Jun 18:21

An off the cuff episodes comes to you again…from the forest. Here we’re sharing about the importance of how we handle ourselves, and our sexual energy, after an important, romantic relationship comes to an end. Is there something we can do to better learn from the experience? Maybe there’s a way to clean up one’s own energy in such a fashion that the next, new relationship is going to feel even more fresh and exciting? Chime in with us here as we share about some of our own experiences and reflections post break-ups. There's lots here to explore when it comes to managing self + managing sexual energy. Do you have your own strategies that have worked well for you to recover and reconnect with yourself after a tough break-up? What have you seen work (or not work so well) for you and for those close to you? Comments are more than welcome and can be sent to: [email protected]

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