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Episode 7: Part 2 It's not that it's worth it, it's rewarding"

1h 7m · Sexcess Story · 08 Feb 04:37

Meaghan and I decided to record part 2 because we felt there were so many things we weren't able to get into or discuss further. After receiving questions from people, we decided the sexuality part of Meaghan's story deserved more. We will also try to answer all the questions as best as we can. 


***Content Warning***

We will be discussing intimate partner violence, unwanted sexual experiences, and how Meaghan deals with the lasting effects now.


Heather is looking for individuals and couples to tell your story on her podcast! Here is how you can get in touch with her!

Instagram: @Sexcess_Story

Facebook: Heather DeKeyser-Smith

Email: [email protected] 

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Meaghan and I decided to record part 2 because we felt there were so many things we weren't able to get into or discuss further. After receiving questions from people, we decided the sexuality part of Meaghan's story deserved more. We will also try to answer all the questions as best as we can. 


***Content Warning***

We will be discussing intimate partner violence, unwanted sexual experiences, and how Meaghan deals with the lasting effects now.


Heather is looking for individuals and couples to tell your story on her podcast! Here is how you can get in touch with her!

Instagram: @Sexcess_Story

Facebook: Heather DeKeyser-Smith

Email: [email protected] 

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