Finding Connection Through the Stories of Others with Nicole Louie
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Nicole Louie is a writer, translator, and content curator based in Ireland. She has dedicated a great amount of time to finding and sharing the stories of amazing women without children through her social media accounts (@bynicolelouie). In our conversation, Nicole shares her personal journey of feeling isolated as a childfree woman which lead her to books, and in turn, she has written one of her own.
Here are the resources she shared in our conversation, sorted by topic.
Ambivalence
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Book: Beyond Motherhood by Jeanne Safer (1996).
Childfree path
Laura Carrol:
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Book: Families of Two: Interviews with Happily Married Couples Without Children by Choice (2000).
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Book: The Baby Matrix (2012).
Marcia Drut Davis:
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Book. Confession of a Childfree Woman (2013).
Childless not by choice path
Jody Day, Founder of the Gateway community
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In-person workshops
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A list of childless therapists, counselors and coaches on their website https://gateway-women.com
Being single
Bella DePaulo
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Has written quite a few books about this topic
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Book: Singled Out: How Singles Are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After
Connect with Nicole: Instagram and Twitter with the handle @bynicolelouie
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