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19: Resource - exEXPERTS (Jessica & T.H.)

52m · Divorce: What I Wish My Parents Knew · 08 May 04:15

I was very honored to interview the exEXPERTS: Jessica Klingbaum and T.H. Irwin this week. Their stories are wild! They have been best friends since college and their exes were best friends; however, their individual divorces could not be more different. With Jessica having kids at ages two and four and T.H. with a four, six, and eight-year-old at the time of the divorce, they know a thing or two. Listen in as we discuss what parenting through divorce was like for them, and how their kids received the new change.

This episode covers:

  • Having the "talk" with your kids
  • The stigma around telling people you're divorced
  • Why it's important to talk to your kids about how they are doing with the divorce throughout their life
  • How to advise your older kids on how to deal with their narcissistic parent
  • and much more!


Where to find the exEXPERTS:

exEXPERTS website

The Divorce Etc... Podcast

exEXPERTS Instagram


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