Episode 160: Real Talk - Parents of Foster Care
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Fostering Voices Podcast
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Summary:
At just 25 years old, Lindsey found herself pregnant and the parent of two children in the custody of the Department of Child Safety. She endured a heartbreaking struggle with homelessness, residing in motels and even living on the streets, surrounded by others in similar desperate circumstances. Desperate for change, Lindsey discovered a lifeline—a housing program for pregnant women with substance use disorders. This pivotal moment led her to the Family Involvement Center, igniting her path to healing and the reunion of her fractured family.
Now, Lindsey is an active force in her city, advocating for change through various organizations such as the Parent Advisory Board, the Prevention Advisory Collaborative, and the Family Navigation Action Team. Her passion for improving child welfare has brought her before community audiences, the governor's office, and dependency judges. Lindsey's dedication to serving her community is truly inspiring.
Join us as we delve into Lindsey's extraordinary journey, her triumphs, and her unwavering commitment to making a positive impact and becoming a beacon of hope and change in foster care.
Resource Links:
Family Involvement Center
Birth-Foster Family Connections • Bright Spots
RiseIssue_35_Parent-Advocacy.pdf
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Chapters:
00:01 - Open
00:34 - Welcome Lindsey Shine
02:09 - Lindsey's Story
03:47 - Going to the Wrong Attorney
04:21 - Leaving with Nothing
06:21 - Getting Help
07:05 - 5 Months and 3 Years
08:00 - Keeping Hope Alive
09:11 - Homelessness
10:27 - A Fork in the Road
12:19 - One More Shot
14:06 - Severance Trial
15:51 - Transition from Visitation
16:54 - A Traumatic Space
17:54 - A Glorified Babysitter?
19:11 - Being Friends with the Fosters
19:53 - A Broken System Challenge
22:13 - Choosing a Solution
23:38 - Choosing Responsibility
25:07 - Advocating in a Meaningful Way
27:18 - Normalizing Relational Support
28:28 - Deficiencies are Opportunities
30:45 - The Takeaway
32:30 - Being the Change
32:54 - Resources
34:25 - Wrap Up
34:56 - Thank You!
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