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119: Think You’re Not a Leader? Think again! Here’s What You Need to Know About Self-Leadership.

29m · Fearless Feminine Leadership · 23 May 11:20

It breaks our heart when women fail to see themselves as leaders, especially when they are already leading but it’s hidden under the guise of “volunteering” or “mom duties.”

 

Women are the ones who take the initiative to change communities for the better.

Women are the ones who help empower their female friends and support their businesses.

Women are the ones who rally around another woman and help her get the help and support she needs in desperate circumstances. 

Women are the ones who take the first step in healing their marriages and changing their financial future.

Women are the ones who typically manage the household and the kids and show up to volunteer for kid's activities.

Women ARE Leaders. Period.

If you’ve ever thought to yourself, “I’m not a leader, I’m just here being my best self,” then make today your line in the sand and tell yourself, “You know what, I AM a Leader!”

 

INSIDE THIS EPISODE OF THE SHE WHO OVERCOMES PODCAST YOU'LL LEARN:

  • How to start seeing yourself as a Leader.
  • Tips to embrace Self-Leadership - and WHY this is so important.
  • A coaching exercise to help you gain perspective so you can lead yourself toward life-long goals and embrace the mindset of the feminine Leader that you are.

 

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Things to consider when planning, attending, or speaking at a leadership conference:

 

Formats that do not lend well to depth:

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If you are speaking at a leadership training: Prepare ahead of time and allow spots for content to be skipped over if the opportunity arises to dive deeper into one piece of the content. Let your meeting planners know that you are willing to do that. And if the meeting planners don't want this service, let your attendees know how to reach you so they can go deeper with you one on one.

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