Episode 3 - Handler David
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Welcome to the third installment of the Kink Kloset.
This time we have Handler David stepping into the Kloset. David is a Queensland kinkster who now resides in Sydney. He has been an active titleholder both domestically and internationally. David holds the following titles:
- Queensland Leather Boy 2016
- Queensland Handler 2018
- Australian Handler 2018
- International Handler 2019
In this episode Handler David and I explore the relationship kink has with our non-kink lives. David explains how being so consent minded with his risk aware kink, that it has influenced ethical policies in his workplace. We also go into sensation play and what it means to David. Hear about a special story where sensation play was used to safely play with someone and give them the confidence to play with others.
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