Ep 87: Relearn Love with Eri
1h 19m
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Wine, Dine, and 69
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Rachel talks about reaping rewards in her own life before continuing the conversation we began last episode about the advantages and dangers of social media therapy/pop therapy and therapy-speak. She then sits down with a VERY exciting guest, Eri Kardos. Eri is a speaker, relationship coach, and author of “Relationship Agreements”. She and Rachel dive into talking about how to relearn love, emotional potty training, relationship agreements, and more!
Episode Notes:
Conversation with Eri begins at 00:19:59.
Follow Eri:
Website: https://www.relearnlove.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coacherikardos/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Eri.Kardos
Relearn Love Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/loveandrelationshipscommunity
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@relearnlovewitherikardos
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erikardos/
FREE Masterclass - “Teammates: The 5 Transformational Shifts For Getting On The Same Team As Your Partner”: https://www.relearnlove.com/teammates
Discussed in the episode:
Relationship Agreements: A Simple and Effective Guide for Strengthening Communication, Reducing Conflict, and Increasing Intimacy to Design Your Ideal Relationship (2016), by Eri Kardos: https://www.amazon.com/Relationship-Agreements-Strengthening-Communication-Increasing/dp/1540338487
Tristan Taormino: http://tristantaormino.com/
The School of Life: https://www.theschooloflife.com/
The School of Life children’s books on emotional intelligence: https://www.theschooloflife.com/shop/?_product_type=for-children
Attachment theory: https://psychcentral.com/health/4-attachment-styles-in-relationships
Discussed in the intro:
Glamour, “Jonah Hill’s Alleged Texts to Ex-Girlfriend Sarah Brady Have Enraged the Internet”, by Emma Tannenbaum: https://www.glamour.com/story/jonah-hill-sarah-brady-controversy
Evie Magazine, “Jonah Hill's Ex-Girlfriend Revenge Leaks Private Information About Another Ex-Boyfriend, Labeling Him A ‘MAGA Communist’”, by Gina Florio: https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/jonah-hills-ex-girlfriend-revenge-leaks-private-information-ex-boyfriend-maga-communist
The Guardian, “Are Jonah Hill’s texts really ‘therapy speak’? I asked a therapist” by Daisy Jones: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/jul/13/jonah-hill-texts-therapy-speak-therapist-boundaries
TED Ideas, “Creating a contract — yes, a contract! — could help you get what you want from your relationship” by Mandy Len Catron: https://ideas.ted.com/creating-a-relationship-contract/
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