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The Secret Link Between Perfectionism, Boundaries, and Procrastination: Cassandra & Lisa Explain!

48m · Beliefseed · 17 Nov 05:00

Aiming for perfection creates an illusion of progress. But the reality is, it has little actual impact.

And while we may believe we want to release perfectionism, we might not feel safe enough to let go of the control that perfection pretends to bring us. 

Because if we don't feel secure in our ability to survive failing, we'll hold onto perfectionistic ideals and stop ourselves from taking necessary risks. 

As a consequence, we halt our own success. Because we're not giving ourselves a chance to really go for what we want.

So what can we do to help ourselves get out of the perfection trap and take charge of our life?

We can set boundaries.

Boundaries give us the direction and freedom to take risks, get beyond procrastination, and keep moving even in the face of failure.

In this week's episode, Lisa chats with Cassandra Powell, Creator of CoachCrate. The two dive into perfectionism, procrastination, boundaries, failure, and letting go of control.

May this episode be an invitation to release the rules, build your tenacity, set boundaries with intuitive flow, and love the process of failing your way towards your greatest successes! 

And don't forget to get Cassandra's free download that accompanies this episode so you can easily reference the key takeaways! Go to https://www.coachcrate.com/beliefseed

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