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Jen - OMG, Her Abused Friend is in Prison?! Pt 2 of 3

34m · WHEN DATING HURTS · 16 Dec 16:32

Jen's friend, Mary, is serving a 15-year sentence in a state prison.  How could this happen???

Q: Was Mary guilty of her crime?  
A: Yes, she was.   

Q: What was Mary's crime?
A: While intoxicated, she ran over and killed a man riding his bike.   

Q: Was Mary's abusive husband the real perpetrator of her crime.  
A: Yes, I think he is.  

In a multi-faceted interview, Jen talks about her friend, Mary, and what happened as result of decades of serious marital abuse by a predatory abuser (her husband).   

What makes Jen's interview about Mary even more poignant?  Jen is also survivor of abuse.   

In one of our most-comprehensive WHEN DATING HURTS interviews to date, Jen gives insights you will want to write down and save.

This interview adds testimony to why learning the warning signs is so important. You, and those you care about, have to get out of unhealthy relationships before they swallow you up and ruin your life. This is a cautionary tale.

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