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32m · Q4Q: Queer Personals Podcast · 15 Feb 15:00

Welcome to a truly itty bitty episode with guest host, Gabriel—founder, creator, and archivist for @Itty_Bitty_Queer_History. In this episode, Haley takes a page out of Gabriel’s teeny tiny books to pursue some short & sweet personal ads. These authors are very concise yet have a diverse set of needs—from bowling buddies to sugar daddies, water sports to paranormal experiences. You should probably leave them a voicemail to learn more.

Listen to us on Spotify, Stitcher, Apple Podcast, or wherever you listen to your tunes!

Interested in being on the show? Contact us at [email protected] or find us on Twitter @Queerpersonals and Instagram @Queerpersonalspodcast.

Cover art by Bekah Rich. Music by Kaz Zabala.

Sources:

The New Works (Indianapolis, IN) - April 1987
BLK (Los Angeles, CA)- April 1990
BLK (Los Angeles, CA) - January 1994
Washington Blade (Washington, DC)- November 20, 1981
Gay Community News (Boston, MA) - February 15, 1986
Kick! (Detroit, MI)- October 1996
OUT FRONT (Denver, CO)- March 11, 1988
OUT FRONT (Denver, CO)- April 18, 1980
The San Francisco Bay times (San Francisco, CA) Sep 1989

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Itty Bitty Ads

Welcome to a truly itty bitty episode with guest host, Gabriel—founder, creator, and archivist for @Itty_Bitty_Queer_History. In this episode, Haley takes a page out of Gabriel’s teeny tiny books to pursue some short & sweet personal ads. These authors are very concise yet have a diverse set of needs—from bowling buddies to sugar daddies, water sports to paranormal experiences. You should probably leave them a voicemail to learn more.

Listen to us on Spotify, Stitcher, Apple Podcast, or wherever you listen to your tunes!

Interested in being on the show? Contact us at [email protected] or find us on Twitter @Queerpersonals and Instagram @Queerpersonalspodcast.

Cover art by Bekah Rich. Music by Kaz Zabala.

Sources:

The New Works (Indianapolis, IN) - April 1987
BLK (Los Angeles, CA)- April 1990
BLK (Los Angeles, CA) - January 1994
Washington Blade (Washington, DC)- November 20, 1981
Gay Community News (Boston, MA) - February 15, 1986
Kick! (Detroit, MI)- October 1996
OUT FRONT (Denver, CO)- March 11, 1988
OUT FRONT (Denver, CO)- April 18, 1980
The San Francisco Bay times (San Francisco, CA) Sep 1989

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Sources:

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  • The Star Tarot Card Meaning
  • Jewel Box Lounge, Kansas City

Primary Sources:

Personally, (Kansas City, MO) January 1988 Vol. 4 Issue. 1 Gale Archives of Sexuality and Gender

On Our Backs– summer and fall 1985 and 1986 (volume 1, issues 1-3, and volume 2, 1-2)- From Brown University Archives

Outweek (NYC) Jan 28 1990

Outweek Sept 19, 1990 (NYC)

The San Francisco Bay times., Dec 1989

The Lesbian Tide, 1 Nov 1979

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Sources:

Online Etymology Dictionary, accessed December 2023

The Her app slang glossary

LGBTQ fandom Wiki page

McNeil, Peter (1999-11-01). ""That Doubtful Gender": Macaroni Dress and Male Sexualities". Fashion Theory. 3 (4): 412. doi:10.2752/136270499779476081. ISSN 1362-704X.

Fisher, Harriet (2015-01-19). "The Queen of Androgyny – Marlene Dietrich". Barnebys. Archived from the original on 2016-06-16. Retrieved 2016-05-22.

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LA Weekly (Los Angeles, CA) 1995 October 10 - Accessed from @LongLostPersonals

Focus Point (Minneapolis, Minnesota), 1994 November 17

Outweek (NYC) 12 Nov 1989

Outweek (NYC) 11 July 1990

The San Francisco Bay times., Nov 1989

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Sources:

Liz Tracey, "Hung Up on the Lesbo Line," Outweek, January 14, 1990.

Out on the Town: Liz and Sydney in Outweek 1990-1991.

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Sources:

ROBINOU. “QUEER COMMUNAL KINSHIP.” In Queer Communal Kinship Now!, 79–148. Punctum Books, 2023. http://www.jstor.org/stable/jj.2353823.7. Accessed November 2023.

Mack Moore, “What is the difference between a cult and a commune?” Quora comment, ca. 2019. Accessed November 2023.

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Stephen Vider, “The Ultimate Extension of Gay Community”: Communal Living and Gay Liberation in the 1970s, Gender & History. Volume 27, Issue 3. November 2015. Accessed November 2023.

Kaliflower Commune - Wikipedia

Radical Faeries - Wikipedia

Faeriefilm by Eugene Salandra that you can watch on Queer Animation

Lavender Hill: A Love StoryProducer/Writer: Austin Bunn | Cinematographer/Editor: Bob Hazen

Gorsline, Robin Hawley. “Queering Church, Churching Queers.” CrossCurrents 49, no. 1 (1999): 111–14. http://www.jstor.org/stable/24460524.

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Outweek (NYC), 26 December 1990

Gay Community News (Boston, MA) 1974

GAY (Houston, TX) 19 July 1971

The Atlanta Barb (Atlanta, GA) April 1976

RFD Issue 73 Spring 1993

Just Out (Eugene, OR) 30 March 1984

Sentinel USA (San Fran, CA) - 11 Oct 1984

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