What You Can and Cannot Control In Your Divorce
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Grown Girl Divorce Podcast
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Only Janet Jackson can "control" everything even though we often try! In this episode, our host, Kimberly A. Cook, shares the things you can control in your divorce including:
(a) Who you hire;
(b) Your actions and behavior;
(c) Your relationship with your children;
(d) How you show up for yourself in the divorce; and more.
In this episode, Kimberly also shares those things that you cannot control during the divorce process including:
(a) Your Ex;
(b) The Court and legal process;
(c) Your Ex's relationship with your children; and more.
Divorce is a process like no other and it is often really hard to release control over things when everything seems so out of control. The Grown Girl Divorce podcast is a space of relatability for Black women considering and going through a divorce. These are girlfriend conversations to educate and empower you through the process. Our host, Kimberly A. Cook, Esq., is a highly acclaimed divorce attorney and mediator breaking down divorce misinformation, dismantling stereotypes on Black families, and shining the light on the importance of diverse representation in family law. Grown Girl Divorce podcast guests are primarily women of color providing expert information or personal stories as a way to give voice to and support Black women going through divorce. Be sure to check out our website, www.growngirldivorce.com, for resources, information, free downloads, and more. We believe sharing is caring so please share our resources and information with your girlfriends, colleagues, and family, because you never know who needs the support.
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