From Addiction to Conscious Fatherhood with JIM DEFALCO | Building Men Podcast Ep208

How to Teach Like a Man with JD Fleming | Building Men Podcast Ep.212

Welcome to another insightful episode of our podcast where we delve into the intricacies of modern masculinity, teaching, and the enduring quest for authenticity in both education and manhood. I'm your host, Dennie Morolda, and joining me today is JD Fleming, a high school computer science teacher and the author of "Teach Like a Man." Together, we're going to unravel the complexities of being a male educator in today's fast-paced digital world and the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on the education system.

Episode Highlights:

• Navigating Modern Masculinity: JD Fleming shares his perspective on the challenges young men face today, emphasizing the need for positive male role models amidst the overwhelming influence of social media. We discuss fostering deeper connections among students and the importance of face-to-face communication.

• Pandemic and Education: We peel back the layers of the COVID-19 pandemic's impact on education, particularly its effects on high school seniors. Our discussion includes the innovative strides made in digital learning and the call for an educational system overhaul, starting with our youngest learners.

• Role of Male Educators: Reflecting on our personal paths to teaching, we explore the influence of male role models and the societal perceptions that may deter men from the profession. We consider the financial implications and the transformative power of mentorship.

• Journey to Manhood: Delving into the personal narratives of transitioning to adulthood, we examine the challenges faced by men without strong paternal figures, highlighting the impact of these experiences on career choices and the importance of finding one's purpose.

• Authenticity in Education: Our conversation turns to the power of vulnerability and authenticity as we share our personal growth journeys and the lessons learned along the way. We emphasize the strength in sharing one's own vulnerabilities and the aspiration to build a supportive network of men.

• Building Connections: We underscore the importance of connections within the teaching profession and encourage aspiring educators to embrace their individual strengths and authenticity.

Key Moments You Don't Want to Miss:

• [0:00:02] The crucial role of real-life connections in an increasingly digital age
• [0:07:47] How COVID-19 reshaped the educational landscape and the path forward
• [0:15:07] The importance of male mentorship in education and personal development
• [0:23:24] The personal journeys to teaching and overcoming life's challenges
• [0:34:50] Embracing authenticity and vulnerability in educational roles
• [0:48:19] The call to action for listeners to support and join the conversation

Connect with JD Fleming:

JD's work and his book "Teach Like a Man" are a testament to the transformative power of positive influence in the classroom. To learn more about JD Fleming, his teachings, and his community of men striving to be their best selves, visit teachlikeaman.com and connect with him on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

Final Thoughts:

As we wrap up this episode, we invite you to reflect on the value of authenticity, the need for empathy, and the critical role of connections in shaping the future of education and the growth of our young men. Join us in this heartfelt exploration and be part of the movement towards a more understanding and resilient society. Thank you for tuning in, and remember to keep building those connections.

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Breaking the Cycle of Generational Suffering with Rob Pengelly | Building Men Podcast Ep.211

In this episode, we delve deep into the landscape of men's mental health, highlighting the unique challenges men face in expressing vulnerability and compassion. Rob's journey is not only one of personal growth but also sheds light on the strength that comes from honest self-reflection.

We then pivot to the complexities of parenting, especially the nuanced dance of guiding and understanding our children. Dennis reflects on the importance of introspection and meaningful questioning as tools for breaking free from negative patterns. We also discuss how these practices can help foster open communication with our children and aid in navigating the turbulent waters of teenage parenting.

The conversation takes a heartfelt turn as we explore the emotional odyssey of reconnecting with estranged family members and the courage it takes to confront difficult dynamics. We celebrate milestones in sobriety and share strategies that have helped us remain grounded. Dennis and Rob also highlight the profound personal revelations that have marked their transformative journeys.

As we wrap up, we emphasize the significance of laying a strong foundation in life, the resilience required to rise above life's challenges, and the legacy of change we hope to leave behind. Dennis shares his emotional experience of reconnecting with his estranged father and how such actions can empower and heal.

Join us as we discuss:

• The transformative power of vulnerability and gratitude in men's mental health
• The role of parenting and self-reflection in personal growth
• The importance of presence and open dialogue in relationships, especially with teenagers
• The courage to confront and heal from past traumas and the impact on identity
• Strategies for maintaining sobriety and overcoming alcohol addiction
• The value of breaking generational cycles of suffering and creating a narrative of empowerment

This episode is not just a story of individual healing but an invitation to ignite a flame of inspiration for others to embark on their own paths to empowerment. Whether you are a man struggling with mental health issues, a parent seeking deeper connections with your children, or someone looking to build a resilient foundation in life, this episode is for you.

Listen, reflect, and take that extra step in your journey of self-improvement.

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Connect with Rob Pengelly:
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The Warrior Ascension with John Vasquez aka Coach JV | Building Men Podcast Ep.210

Welcome to an inspiring and transformative episode of our podcast. In this special edition, we delve into the remarkable journey of John Vasquez, also known as Coach JV, a man who broke free from the shackles of corporate life to embrace his true calling. Tune in to "The Warrior Ascension with John Vasquez aka Coach JV" as we unravel the story of a man who went from a suited executive to a bearded life coach, symbolizing his personal evolution and unwavering commitment to authenticity.

Episode Highlights:

• Corporate Awakening: Coach JV shares the profound shift from a corporate executive to a man of wisdom and strength, and how his grooming brand, Refined Integrity, mirrors his transformation. (00:02:35)

• Struggles With Identity and Addiction: A raw look into Coach JV's battles with finding purpose and overcoming the demons of addiction. (00:08:10)

• Spiraling Into Opiate Addiction and Recovery: An honest recount of the descent into addiction and the pivotal moments that sparked a journey towards recovery. (00:16:20)

• Personal Transformation Through 'The Secret': Coach JV's testament to the power of affirmations, forgiveness, and self-belief in reconstructing a meaningful life. (00:26:45)

• Journey to Finding Inner Warrior: From materialism to spiritual awakening, Coach JV's path to self-discovery and the resilience needed to pursue one's truth. (00:35:00)

• Fatherhood, Masculinity, and Divine Balance: The vital role of fatherhood in shaping children's self-worth and the complex dynamics of modern masculinity. (00:44:30)

• Masculinity, Financial Literacy, and Self-Development: Redefining masculinity through emotional openness, financial acumen, and the cultivation of principled character. (00:52:15)

• Building Wealth and Financial Literacy: Strategies for achieving financial freedom and the significance of investing in assets over liabilities. (01:01:30)

• Spread the Love and Share: A heartfelt call to share Coach JV's empowering message and the importance of building a life of purpose and integrity. (01:10:20)

Key Moments in the Episode:

• Corporate Awakening: "It was almost like an FU to corporate America. I started growing a beard and then I did one YouTube video, said I want to be a warrior in a modern-day society and it just seemed... as my internal changed, my external change." (00:03:00)

• Journey to Finding Inner Warrior: "He's literally a carbon copy of me. So I believe that he came on the day I committed suicide... is the rebirth of me. It's for me to heal that in myself so I can pass it on to the next generation." (00:37:00)

Recommended Resources:

• "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill
• "Secrets of the Millionaire Mind" by T. Harv Eker

Connect with Coach JV:

• Learn more about Coach JV's mission and access resources for personal growth and financial literacy https://linktr.ee/cjv_.
• Follow Coach JV on social media for daily inspiration and tips on embracing your inner warrior.

Conclusion:

Coach JV's story is not just about personal transformation; it's a call to action for anyone yearning for a life of authenticity, purpose, and financial wisdom. It's a powerful reminder that it's never too late to become the person you were meant to be. So join us on this journey and ascend with the warrior within.

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Disordered Eating with JUSTINE ARSENAULT| Building Men Podcast Ep.209

Welcome to a profound episode of the Building Men Podcast, where we embark on a journey of self-discovery and transformative health with the insightful Justine Arsenault. Dive into an episode that navigates the depths of vulnerability, the intricacies of mental health, and the pursuit of wellness and wellbeing. Join me, Dennis Morolda, and guest Justine Arsenault as we peel back the layers of personal narratives and confront the challenges that shape us.

In This Episode:

• Reshaping Mindsets of Young Men: Justine Arsenault, a seasoned health coach and nutritionist, joins Dennis to discuss the Enlifted program's impact on their lives. They delve into the process of confronting past narratives and the importance of mental health in personal growth. Justine shares her struggles with anxiety and disordered eating, providing a raw look at the journey towards mental well-being.
• Preparing for a TEDx Talk: Dennis shares the rollercoaster of emotions leading up to his TEDx talk, from choosing a topic to the backstage nerves. Discover how memory techniques from "Moonwalking with Einstein" played a crucial role in his preparation and the support that made all the difference.
• Early Trauma and Mental Health Challenges: Dennis opens up about his experiences with anxiety, PTSD, and disordered eating, beginning in his youth. He discusses the long-term impact of trauma and the importance of understanding nutrition and mental health for athletes.
• Discussion on Disordered Eating and Therapy: Dive into the complexities of disordered eating versus eating disorders, and hear how therapy and support systems play a critical role in managing these challenges.
• Parenting and Healthy Eating Priorities: The episode examines the impact of social media influencers and the responsibility of parents in shaping their children's relationship with food. Learn about the warning signs of unhealthy habits and the significance of leading by example.
• Building Healthy Habits: Dennis emphasizes the foundational steps towards improving health, such as increasing fruit and vegetable intake, staying hydrated, and getting enough sleep. Discover sustainable practices for a healthier lifestyle.
• Improving Health Through Nutrition and Consistency: Tackling the monotony of building consistent health routines, this segment highlights the benefits of hydration, sleep, and facing mental barriers to achieve personal health goals.

Key Takeaways:

• The power of sharing and confronting personal stories in a group setting.
• Techniques to enhance public speaking and face vulnerability head-on.
• The lasting effects of childhood trauma on mental health and coping mechanisms.
• Understanding the nuances between disordered eating and clinical eating disorders.
• The influence of parents and media on young people's perceptions of food and body image.
• Practical tips for creating healthy habits and making simple yet profound lifestyle changes.

Featured Transcript Samples:

• Dennis Morolda shares his extensive experience in shaping young men's lives and introduces Justine Arsenault, a health coach dedicated to helping others through the Enlifted program.
• A candid discussion on the process of healing and growth with Justine Arsenault, exploring the challenges of overcoming anxiety and the journey towards improved mental health.

Join us on the Building Men Podcast for an episode that is as enlightening as it is empowering. It's time to face our challenges and transform them into strengths, together.

Connect with Justine Arsenault:

• Instagram @BNA.Lifestyle
• Website: www.eemotionaleatingcourse.com/minicourse

Resources Mentioned:

• "Moonwalking with Einstein" by Joshua Foer
• Building Men Mentorship and Coaching Programs

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From Addiction to Conscious Fatherhood with JIM DEFALCO | Building Men Podcast Ep208

Jim DeFalco shares his raw and riveting story, from the depths of addiction to the heights of mentoring fathers through his Awakened Father program. His unvarnished truth sheds light on the fragility of life, the importance of personal accountability, and the power of mentorship. This conversation isn't just about recovery; it's about redefining fatherhood and the legacy we leave behind.

Chapter Summaries:

• (0:00:02) Exploring Masculinity and Self-Improvement: Dive into Jim's early life influences and how societal pressures of masculinity shaped his journey towards addiction and ultimately, self-improvement.

• (0:09:06) Overcoming Addiction and Life Changes: Jim shares the pivotal moments of his life, including the financial collapse that led him to take over his father's business, his struggle with addiction, and the rocky road to redemption.

• (0:13:07) Personal Accountability and Transformation: Witness Jim's powerful testimony on personal downfall and the transformative power of owning one's choices and relentless pursuit of self-improvement.

• (0:20:33) Journey of Addiction and Recovery: Jim reflects on the impact of investing in mentorship and the importance of taking control of one's life, both inside and outside the gym.

• (0:25:53) Navigating Childhood Trauma, Becoming Conscious: Delve into the long-term effects of a father's influence, Jim's coping mechanisms for grief, and the creation of 'The Awakened Father' program to help fathers become more conscious parents.

• (0:36:29) Parental Role Models and Lessons: Discover the impact of daily affirmations, the importance of instilling core values in children, and the mixed legacy of Jim's father.

• (0:41:41) Impactful Relationships and Mindset Change: Explore the power of strong family bonds, the transformative journey of fathers and sons, and the role of the Awakened Father program in fostering positive generational change.

Transcript Highlights:

• Jim's light-hearted take on his mustache and its approval by his significant other
• The skewed perceptions of masculinity from Jim's youth and the pivotal realization that strength lies in emotional control, not aggression
• How Jim's path through addiction and the loss of his brother led to the birth of the Awakened Father program

Guest Bio:
Jim DeFalco is a recovered addict, creator of the Awakened Father program, and a dedicated mentor guiding men through the transformative process of becoming conscious parents. His commitment to breaking cycles of trauma and empowering fathers to shape a healthier, more emotionally intelligent future for their families makes him a beacon of hope and a catalyst for change.

Join us on this intimate journey of self-discovery and be inspired to look within, challenge the norms, and become a beacon of strength and wisdom for the next generation.

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