4 Ways to Know if It Is Time To End Your Relationship (When the Signs Are Not Clear and Things are Not Bad)
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On Purpose with Jay Shetty
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Do you find yourself often thinking about breaking up?
Do you and your partner have unresolved conflicts that keep resurfacing?
In this episode, Jay tackles the tough emotions and uncertainty many face when considering a breakup. He talks about why people stay in or leave relationships, touching on key factors like emotional closeness, personal investment, and the impact of family responsibilities. Jay also discusses how to ensure emotional security and the risks of staying for financial reasons or out of obligation.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How to recognize emotional investment
How to assess emotional security
How to consider financial implications
How to navigate emotional intimacy
This honest conversation provides you with the insights to evaluate your relationship more clearly, helping you decide whether to work on it or move on, based on a deeper understanding of your feelings and the relationship's dynamics.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
01:10 When to End Your Relationship
04:48 10 Reason Why People Stay in a Relationship
12:44 Top 10 Reasons to Leave Your Relationship
18:14 The Three Cancers of the Mind
24:44 Difference in Scorecard Perspective
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