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10 Things I Learned From Being A Girl Dad

40m · SeongLife · 25 Apr 08:00

In this episode, Daniel and Christina Seong explore the nuances of raising daughters. They share personal anecdotes and insights, discussing the unique parent-child dynamics in their family, the importance of setting a good example in marriages, and the impact of a dad's presence and words on a daughter's self-esteem. Daniel reveals his top ten lessons learned as a "girl dad," emphasizing communication, the significance of showing affection to their mom as a model for healthy relationships and respecting their children's individuality. The episode also delves into practical advice, like using the Costco app for gas savings. The Seongs advocate for patience, understanding, and grace in parenting, highlighting their humorous and affectionate approach to family life. They encourage listeners to embrace their parenting journey and share the podcast with others.

3 Key Episode Takeaways


- The influence of a father's actions on his daughters is monumental.
Show them how men should treat them through your relationship with your wife. It's more than words; it's about being a daily example.

- Verbal communication matters. Choose your words carefully with your daughters, especially during those critical teenage years. Your comments have a lasting impact.

- Embrace the power of laughter and patience in your household. Not only does it strengthen bonds, but it also shows your children a positive perspective on life, which they carry into adulthood.


Show Overview


01:00 Comparison of gas prices at different locations.

03:06 Tara at Costcogassays it's cheaper.

09:56 Women discreetly communicate monthly time off request.

13:48 Teenage desire for male attention shapes adulthood.

15:50 Watching words around four teenage daughters is crucial.

21:08 Top three things: not taking self seriously.

24:43 Daughters need dads to laugh and provide.

27:20 I won't leave because kids need you.

31:19 Talking to kids isimportant, but actions matter.

.39:09 Father's role in daughters' lives summarized.

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Show Overview


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