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020: Why Teaching Your Kids Chores and Life Skills Is NOT Taking Advantage of Them

31m · Healthy Parenting Handbook with Katie Kimball · 07 May 10:00

In today's Healthy Parenting Handbook, I'm going to take 5 different arguments against kids doing chores and learning life skills and counter them with facts, stories, research, and a big ol' dose of common sense.

These are real arguments I hear from both well-meaning parents AND keyboard warriors on social media, plus one from a well-established expert I heard on a podcast that I simply do not agree with!

If you've ever had to listen to someone say it's cruelty to make your kids clean a bathroom or have felt yourself that maybe kids are busy enough - maybe life skills aren't important to learn now - this one's for you.

Resources I Mention for Chores and Life Skills

  • Reserve your spot in our 2024 Life Skills Now Summer Camp
  • Purchase access to Life Skills Now Season One from 2022 or Season Two from 2023
  • 3 Reasons Giving Kids Responsibility Is a Gift
  • Kitchen Stewardship
  • Kids Cook Real Food
  • Register for #LifeSkillsNow Season 3 Virtual Summer Camp!
  • follow Katie on Instagram
  • follow Kids Cook Real Food on Facebook
  • Subscribe to the newsletter to get weekly updates
  • YouTube shorts channel for HPH
  • Find the Healthy Parenting Handbook at kidscookrealfood.com/podcast

Affiliate links used here. Thanks for supporting the Healthy Parenting Handbook!

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Resources We Mention for Exploring Creativity

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  • Register for #LifeSkillsNow Season 3 Virtual Summer Camp!
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  • YouTube shorts channel for HPH
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Resources We Mention for Learning About Your Body

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  • YouTube shorts channel for HPH
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  • YouTube shorts channel for HPH
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  • Kids Cook Real Food
  • Register for #LifeSkillsNow Season 3 Virtual Summer Camp!
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  • YouTube shorts channel for HPH
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  • follow Kids Cook Real Food on Facebook
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  • YouTube shorts channel for HPH
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Affiliate links used here. Thanks for supporting the Healthy Parenting Handbook!

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