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How to Reduce Stress to Empower Your Finances with Allison Pilling

51m · Empress of Empowerment · 14 Jul 11:00

Do you have your finances and wishes in place to lessen the stress of your loved ones in case of death? If your answer is no, then you need to start thinking of doing so for both their sake and your peace of mind.

The conversation of having a will and legally managing your finances seems boring and not the one any of us like to have, but it is necessary. You have let go of your fears and think of your wishes and how much of a smooth sailing your loved ones will have regarding your finances when you’re no longer here.

On the show today, we have Allison Pilling, a mindset coach, wellness advocate, and former environmental engineer. Allison experienced the loss of her husband, which led to disorientation in her life before she rediscovered herself. She now helps people who’ve experienced loss release fears and build confidence to embrace an empowered life.

Listen in to learn the importance of giving yourself permission to move forward and be happy in life after losing a loved one.

“There’s a lot more inner peace when you trust what you’re doing and you just feel good.”- Allison [49:02]

What You Will Learn:

[2:32] Allison describes her experience with the loss and grief of her husband.

[8:27] The importance of having a will to make it easy for your loved ones in case of death.

[12:40] The simple things she changed in her work and life to nurture herself and show up.

[20:57] How to set healthy boundaries and let go of the fears to set your finances in place.

[29:12] How she transitioned from an environmental engineer to a life coach.

[34:37] Stop focusing on what others can or can’t do, and focus on what you can do.

[40:29] How Allison coaches people, how to find her services, plus her current challenge.

[43:20] Allison’s book RIP (restoring inner peace), which is about permitting yourself to move forward after the loss of a loved one.

[46:34] She advises her future and younger self to live her life without a formula.

Relevant Links:

Website: https://www.allisoncoaches.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisonCoaches/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allisoncoaches/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/allison-pilling-aab74834/

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