Abundance Living - by Pamela DeVrou Smith

We all mess up, fall short, miss the mark…what we do with that is what really matters! Let’s learn what it means to mess up and learn! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/pameladevrousmith/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pameladevrousmith/support

We all feel at times that we are no enough!  That we don't measure up to our parents, spouses, friends, or society's expectations of who we ought to be.  It's so easy to just say "Don't care what others think", But the truth... We are created to connect deeply with others.  Theres is a way to value ourselves deeply and have our desires met.  We must first have a deep connection.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/pameladevrousmith/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pameladevrousmith/support

We get love so dang confused!  What is love?  How do we know we have it? Where do we find it?  And, how is our Purpose in life intertwined with it?  Do we even know what our purpose is?   We take a look at all these questions and more in todays Podcast!!  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/pameladevrousmith/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pameladevrousmith/support

It can be hard work looking at where we keep messing up in our lives!  It takes an honest appraisal.  Not Beating ourselves up!  Not ignoring and making excuses for our problems.  Total and unhindered honesty.  It can feel raw, and can be emotional.  However, when we go from not knowing what we don't know to becoming aware of what we are doing and how our patterns hold us back, then and only then can we do something about them.  Then, we can play full out in our own lives and becoming more abundant!  

Books:  

"Claiming Your Power" Mastin Kipp

"Anomoly Mindset" Sandi Krawdowski

Remember:  You've got this!!  YOU can have more within your life and can have it abundantly!  I believe in you!  More importantly, Your Creator Believes in you!!  

Pamela DeVrou Smith

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We are deep diving into thee hardest part of healing:  OUR EMOTIONS!  To live and play "Full-Out" and within abundance, we MUST get down and dirty with the emotions behind what's stopping us!!  Typical talk about healing or changing seems or even to be successful starts and stops with only the two top layers of healing: 1) Thoughts and 2) Behaviors.  But if we truly want lasting change, healing and success within our lives, we must have a deeper dive into the next three layers: 3) Emotions, 4) Story's we tell ourselves, and 5) the actual event that took place that caused us pain or trauma.  THIS is where it must begin SO THAT we can have the lasting change we desire.  When we "go there", we can then heal and face our fears by addressing them and reminding ourselves it's ok!  Keep moving forward!  We are no longer holding ourselves back!  

Reminder:  The book we get so much of todays info from (and that I am working through personally) is:

     "Claim Your Power" by Mastin Kipp

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Thanks again for listening, sharing and subscribing!  

Pamela DeVrou Smith

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Do you have an area or two in your life that you feel stuck?  That no matter what you seem to try, it doesn't work out?  Are you feeling like a failure in this area?  Or maybe you can't seem to decide what you really REALLY WANT within your life?  Or maybe it's in your love life that you keep missing the mark?  

No matter what area in your life it is from Love, to Finances, to Career, or raising kids to your health, we stay stuck because of what Mastin Kipp calls our "Survival Patterns". 

Todays episode dives deep into these and what they are, where they come from, and how to work through them!  Why?  So we can live our lives more abundantly and play Full-Out!  

Thanks for coming along on this journey with me to learn, to grow and to become more!  

Pamela

The two books I am reading right now are the following"

1) Sandi Krakowski - Anomoly Mindset

2) Mastin Kipp - Claiming Your Power

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We all (Did I say ALL?) have patterns within our lives that we develop to protect our hearts.  We get caught within a loop that goes around and around like running on a hamster wheel.  These patterns may have protected us in the past... but maybe they aren't really serving us now.  That's ok!  We are going to take an honest look at these patterns, what do they mean, and how can we change them so we can stop playing small in our own lives and therefore live our lives abundantly!  

Thanks for being with me today!  

Here are the books I'm reading if you want a much deeper dive into your life for change and growth!  

     1) "Anomaly Mindset" by Sandi Krakowski

     2) "Claim Your Power" by Mastin Kipp

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Too many times we can get caught at the short end of the stick! Not enough time, energy, or will to take care of ourselves! When this happens, it’s time to take a step back and give yourself (no one else!!) an honest appraisal! Are YOU loving yourself? Better question (since this one seems to be equivalent to “how are you” “oh great thanks!” Ya right!! ). Better question, are you taking good CARE of yourself? In today’s episode, we look at what that means and what are the warning signs of not loving yourself enough! (16 Signs You’re Not Loving Yourself Enough: Rebecca Beris @Lifehack.org) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/pameladevrousmith/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pameladevrousmith/support

Man! The year 2020...need I say more? It’s been crazy how the pandemic, hurricanes, fires, quarantine and in the USA the elections ...Uhg! What else can happen this crazy year? It could be easy to get caught up in the very uncertainty of it all!! It’s been very difficult! Yet, God DID give us a free will and the ability to have some control within our own lives! So let’s take a look at how we can become more certain in an uncertain world! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/pameladevrousmith/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pameladevrousmith/support

We each have been given the gift of free will within our lives. This can be a huge huge blessing, or it can feel like our lives are out of control! In today’s episode we dive into what it means to have freewill and freedom to choose in our lives and how we can get consciously aware of our thoughts and decisions. We also show a couple of steps on how to alter the negative that may be happening in our lives to change the trajectory of our circumstances. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/pameladevrousmith/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/pameladevrousmith/support