Pacific Capital's Podcast Playlist
by Pacific Capital / Listen NotesWith over 120+ episodes, dive in and listen to Chad Willardson as he talks about his newest book "Beyond The Money", 2nd book "Smart, Not Spoiled" and his first book "Stress Free Money".
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Episodes
Mirror the Environment that Your Children Will Mature Into
17m · PublishedEpisode : Mirror the Environment that Your Children Will Mature Into
Pub date : 2023-06-09
How can you prepare your kids for the real world after leaving the nest? In today's episode, hosts Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss why you must create a home environment similar to what your kids will find in the real world.
- Scott starts the conversation by describing when and how parents should start preparing their kids for the real world.
- Chad reveals the most important lesson he learned growing up.
- As a parent, your kids need to know that play never comes before work. We work first, and the rewards come later.
- For Scott, the worst thing you could ever do as a parent is to raise your kids in a bubble.
- Scott and Chad explore ways parents can create a home economy that mirrors the real world.
- Give your kids love and show them that you care, but don't protect them from struggle and sacrifice.
- Scott and Chad agree that we need to raise kids two years older than they are. Teach them the future and give them responsibility earlier than what society says their age deserves.
- Scott describes how mimicking the environment of the real world at home will do your kids a lot of good in the future.
- According to Scott, you're not loving your kids more by cuddling and pampering them. You're just preparing them for shock and failure once they leave the nest.
- For Scott, your kids will become entitled when they get whatever they want without working for it.
- Shockingly, 80 to 90% of parents never make their kids pay for anything. According to Scott, kids need to start covering some of their expenses from age six to eight.
Mentioned in This Episode:
gravystack.com.smart
smartmoneyparenting.com
What's in It for Them?: 9 Genius Networking Principles to Get What You Want by Helping Others Get What They Want by Joe Polish
Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson
Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson
Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott
Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson
Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell
Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson
Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell
The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Chad Willardson and Scott Donnell, which is the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Listen Notes, Inc.Why Coachability is Critical for Success, for Both Kids and Parents
22m · PublishedEpisode : Why Coachability is Critical for Success, for Both Kids and Parents
Pub date : 2023-06-06
What is the key to developing coachability in your kids? In today's episode, hosts Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss why coachability is crucial for success for both kids and parents.
- Chad and Scott break down the concept of coachability and why it’s important for a family’s success.
- The most successful people have coaches. According to Chad, high performers have coaches and view them as a crucial cog in their path to success.
- Parents should never match their kid’s emotions. If your kid is going wild or getting angry and frustrated, the worst thing you can do is sink to their level.
- For Chad, the biggest compliment you can ever receive as a parent is that your kids are coachable.
- According to Chad, coachability sets apart the winners from those who don’t want to learn how to win.
- Scott explains the benefits of your kids being part of a competitive team.
- If you want your kids to be financially competent and ready to succeed in the real world, they need to be coachable, and so do you.
- For Scott, how kids react to coaches says a lot about how you raised them and their view of life and personal improvement.
- Solve problems together. It’s not you versus your kid; it’s you and your kid versus the problem or the challenge at hand.
- Scott explains why you need to teach your kids that not all situations are win or lose - sometimes you learn.
- Scott breaks down the First Time Follow Rule and how it can help you raise coachable kids.
- Does good cop/bad cop work with children? Chad and Scott go through the pros and cons of this type of parenting strategy.
- Scott and Chad reveal what parents can do to become more coachable and learn to cultivate coachability in the home.
Mentioned in This Episode:
gravystack.com.smart
smartmoneyparenting.com
Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson
Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson
Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott
Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson
Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell
Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson
Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell
The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Chad Willardson and Scott Donnell, which is the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Listen Notes, Inc.Firm Plus Kind Equals Success
19m · PublishedEpisode : Firm Plus Kind Equals Success
Pub date : 2023-06-02
Should you be firm with your kids? In today's episode, hosts Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss how being firm and kind to your kids creates mentally strong and successful kids. They cover the best way to say no to your children and how letting your kids solve their own problems turns them into confident, resilient, and well-rounded individuals.
- Chad starts the conversation by describing how being firm but kind creates mentally strong and successful kids.
- Scott describes the foundation of being a firm but kind parent.
- Scott and Chad agree that relationships without rules equals rebellion. However, relationships with rules equals bonds that last a lifetime.
- Having rules is not about turning your kids into little robots. Allow room for creativity but have guidelines that keep them in check.
- Scott outlines the benefits of allowing your kids to solve their own problems.
- For Scott, when a leader is too firm, they become like a tyrannical dictator. Everyone’s scared of them, and that rarely creates the best results.
- Will your kids hate you if you have rules that they must follow? Of course not. Kids need structure to develop into secure, happy adults.
- If you have a consequence laid out for your kids, you better follow through with it.
- Understand that there is no substance to kindness without firmness to back it up.
- Chad explains why sticking to what you say is crucial for successful parenting.
- Scott describes how parents can learn to say no with kindness.
- Scott believes the best relationships are built when your kids understand and agree with the why behind your decisions.
Mentioned in This Episode:
gravystack.com.smart
smartmoneyparenting.com
Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson
Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson
Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott
Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson
Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell
Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson
Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell
The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Chad Willardson and Scott Donnell, which is the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Listen Notes, Inc.Let Your Kids Scrape Their Knees
17m · PublishedEpisode : Let Your Kids Scrape Their Knees
Pub date : 2023-05-30
Scott and Chad sit down and discuss how letting your kids scrape their knees is key to their long-term success and overall resiliency in life. Find out why small struggles and overcoming difficult challenges is important to building confidence and how parents that coddle their children prevent them from growing into all they are meant to be.
- Kids need to run into small obstacles and challenges like scraping their knees.
- Scott tells the story of making mistakes as a new and exhausted father. Babies and children have no concept of their mortality and often attempt things that result in them getting hurt. The trick is in providing an environment where they can make mistakes, get some bumps and bruises, but while not risking anything really dangerous.
- The more you coddle your children, the harder it is going to be for them to learn on their own.
- Children will look to their parents in some situations to figure out how to respond to a situation. We have to be careful with our reactions.
- No parent wants their kid to get hurt, but if the kid can learn and succeed through the struggle, there is incredible capability and confidence on the other side.
- We tend to jump in as parents and fix our kid’s problems, but that doesn’t help them grow at the end of the day.
- The greater joy is seeing your children overcome and get back up.
- There is no losing as a kid, there is winning or learning.
- The resiliency that a kid builds by trying over and over again, and breaking through barriers, is the resiliency that creates success long-term.
- A great question at the dinner table is, "What have you learned today by trying something new?" Reward your kids for trying new things instead of just succeeding at something they’ve already done before.
- It’s better to make small mistakes when you’re young than big mistakes when you’re much older.
- Let your children go through the struggle and celebrate them when they get to the other side.
- Little mindset shifts as a parent make a big difference.
- Let’s let our kids fail, make mistakes, learn, get up, get better, and keep going. Praise the effort and their persistence.
Mentioned in This Episode:
gravystack.com.smart
smartmoneyparenting.com
Grit by Angela Duckworth
Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson
Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson
Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott
Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson
Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell
Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson
Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell
The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Chad Willardson and Scott Donnell, which is the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Listen Notes, Inc.Ambiguity Creates Anxiety, but Clarity Creates Confidence
21m · PublishedEpisode : Ambiguity Creates Anxiety, but Clarity Creates Confidence
Pub date : 2023-05-26
How do you set and communicate expectations to your kids? In today's episode, hosts Scott Donnell and Chad Willardson discuss the importance of clarity and setting expectations for kids. They also reveal how ambiguity around expectations creates anxiety and chaos for your kids.
- Ambiguity creates anxiety, but clarity creates confidence in kids.
- For Scott, you need rules and systems to run a functioning home.
- However, when you're rigid and structured with your rules, you risk killing your child's creativity.
- Chad explains why the first time you set up expectations for your kid, you must do it with them and show them what "done" looks like.
- Scott talks about the do’s and don'ts of raising value-creation kids.
- Scott and Chad agree that delegating tasks to your kids may take extra effort upfront but will pay off in the long run.
- Chad compares an ambiguous home to a city with no stop lights and no speed limits - it's dangerous and chaotic.
- According to Chad, you'll have a much calmer and happier home when you communicate clearly with your kids.
- Be very clear with how you want things done in the home. 85% of the results come from the first 15% of the process. That is true in business and family.
- For Scott, smart money parents see their kids as an incredible asset in the home. They're not just a blessing; they are a benefit and can really help you with your life.
- Chad describes why you must set up your home where everybody is part of the team and working towards the same goal.
Mentioned in This Episode:
gravystack.com.smart
smartmoneyparenting.com
Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson
Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson
Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott
Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson
Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell
Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson
Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell
The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Chad Willardson and Scott Donnell, which is the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Listen Notes, Inc.Unleash the Power of Healthy Struggles for Your Kids, with Lee Benson (livestream)
56m · PublishedEpisode : Unleash the Power of Healthy Struggles for Your Kids, with Lee Benson (livestream)
Pub date : 2023-05-23
Want to know how to raise your kids to become value creators? In today's episode, host Scott Donnell sits down with Lee Benson and Kary Oberbrunner to break down Lee and Scott's new book Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Kid Needs to Succeed.
- Financial competency is the biggest gap in education because it's not taught in schools or at home.
- For Lee, smart money parenting is about creating an environment where kids can learn to create value in the world.
- Scott and Lee believe parents who protect their kids from pain and discomfort risk raising spoiled kids.
- Parents who remove healthy struggles from their child's life may unknowingly jeopardize their future.
- Lee explains how parents can turn healthy struggle into capability, confidence, and value creation.
- According to Scott, kids as early as kindergarten can start learning the art of value creation.
- How to shut down the Bank of Mom and Dad for good.
- Scott explains why he feels capitalism should be renamed value create-ism - because a capitalistic economy only grows when people add value to the world.
- Your kids need to learn financial skills for saving, spending, sharing, earning, and investing before age 18.
- Lee and Scott agree that it's never too late to start teaching your kids financial literacy.
- According to Scott, parents need to be comfortable with healthy struggles - Let your kids fail, but they should never forget that you love them.
- Discipline is actually a lack of training. Scott explains how, most of the time, behavior and discipline issues stem from a lack of training.
- Scott reveals that the best way to teach a kid about money is through fun and real-world experiences using real money.
- Scott talks about financial literacy and how banks make money from people who are not financially competent.
- Lee and Scott review the features that make GravyStack a unique banking platform for kids.
- Scott highlights the three main parts of their new book.
- Part 1: The Challenge. How to start the value creation journey with your kids.
- Part 2: The four categories in the GravyStack method.
- Part 3: The Reward. The benefits of cultivating a value creation mindset in your home.
Mentioned in This Episode:
gravystack.com.smart
smartmoneyparenting.com
Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson
Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson
Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott
Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson
Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell
Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson
Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell
The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Chad Willardson and Scott Donnell, which is the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Listen Notes, Inc.Should Your Kids Know How Much Money You Make? - Guest Shannon Waller
26m · PublishedEpisode : Should Your Kids Know How Much Money You Make? - Guest Shannon Waller
Pub date : 2023-05-19
Do your kids know how much money you make? In today's episode, hosts Chad Willardson and Scott Donnell sit down with Shannon Waller from Strategic Coach to discuss the do's and don'ts of talking to your kids about the amount of money you make.
- Scott and Chad reveal how they talk to their kids about money and the benefits of creating value in the world.
- What are unique abilities? According to Shannon, these are things you are good at and love to do - so you always want to improve because you care.
- Shannon describes what it's like raising kids who know how to create value and leave a mark in the world.
- For Scott, the number one reason for making a lot of money is to buy back your freedom.
- What's the difference between envy and jealousy? Jealousy is when you want what someone else has. Envy, on the other hand, is when you don't want them to have it.
- It's totally okay to make a lot of money and tell your kids about it. But Shannon believes you must be careful about the number; otherwise, you risk raising spoiled and entitled kids.
- According to Scott, you need to help your kids understand there's no shame in making a lot of money.
- Chad talks about the type of money and investment conversations he has with his kids.
- Chad reveals why it doesn't make sense to hide everything from your kids because everything they need to know is just one Google search away.
- You need to help your kids understand that creating value in the world often comes with a financial reward.
- Scott is convinced that rules without relationship equals rebellion, but rules with relationship equals results.
- Scott and Chad go through the pros and cons of telling your kids how much you make.
Mentioned in This Episode:
gravystack.com.smart
smartmoneyparenting.com
The Kolbe System - kolbe.com
Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson
Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson
Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott
Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson
Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell
Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson
Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell
The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Chad Willardson and Scott Donnell, which is the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Listen Notes, Inc.Your Kids' Schooling: One Size Doesn't Fit All - Guest Kary Oberbrunner
12m · PublishedEpisode : Your Kids' Schooling: One Size Doesn't Fit All - Guest Kary Oberbrunner
Pub date : 2023-05-16
Is homeschooling better for your child's development? In today's episode, hosts Chad Willardson and Scott Donnell sit down with Kary Oberbrunner to discuss the pros and cons of customized learning and its impacts on your child's future success.
- Scott and Chad start the discussion by breaking down the benefits of personalizing your child's education based on their strengths, needs, skills, and interests.
- According to Kary, there is no one-size-fits-all approach to learning. Your job as a parent is to find a curriculum that maximizes your child's potential.
- Scott and Chad settle the private versus public versus homeschooling debate.
- Kary reveals what parents should do when their child wants to switch schools.
- When looking for a school for your kid, Scott believes you should look for institutions where your child will thrive.
- Kary talks about the drawbacks of constantly moving your kid from one school to another.
- Kary explains why he feels not all kids should go to college - especially if they're interested in the trades or more technical career paths.
- According to Chad, obtaining current knowledge from the internet will be much more valuable than sitting in a classroom and memorizing facts from an old textbook.
Mentioned in This Episode:
gravystack.com.smart
smartmoneyparenting.com
Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson
Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson
Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott
Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson
Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell
Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson
Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell
The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Chad Willardson and Scott Donnell, which is the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Listen Notes, Inc.17 Ways to Compliment Your Kids
19m · PublishedEpisode : 17 Ways to Compliment Your Kids
Pub date : 2023-05-12
Scott and Chad sit down and discuss why complimenting your children is a great way to build their self-esteem and confidence, and give you a list of 17 compliments that you can use as a parent to completely make their day.
- Chad’s brother-in-law is a pediatrician and he saw that kids suffered greatly during the past two years of the pandemic. Children were lonely and scared, and were self-harming at alarming rates all over the world.
- Our kids need to be lifted up and strengthened, more so now than ever.
- Consider saying one of the following compliments every single day for the next three months.
- #1 You make me proud.
- Every child wants to know their parents are proud of them. Take 30 seconds and find something you are proud of and let them know.
- #2 I’ve noticed how hard you’ve been trying.
- This reinforces the effort and shows you appreciate the act, not just the end result.
- #3 You inspire me.
- This uplifts kids in a way that’s hard to describe and builds instant connection.
- #4 I can trust you because you’re honest.
- Children want their parents to trust them and will consider that when they have a decision to make. Valuing trust and integrity can be done with a simple compliment.
- #5 You are a great role model.
- Kids want to be a role model for others in things they care about. They want to know they are leading the people behind them.
- #6 You make me want to be the best person I can be.
- This tells you kids that they matter. That they are the reason you want to be better.
- #7 You amaze me.
- Kids want to impress the people they care about. Show them that you notice how awesome they are.
- #8 Your effort hasn’t gone unnoticed and I appreciate it.
- Reward progress, not perfection. If you reward effort and progress you help them create momentum.
- #9 Thank you for teaching me something new.
- There are always new things you can learn from your kids. Tell them that when they show you something you didn’t know.
- #10 I’m lucky to have such a kind child.
- This reinforces the value of kindness that every kid can benefit from having.
- #11 You’ve got so many great ideas.
- Your kids are a font of creation. Tell them that you love that about them and encourage their creativity. Whatever you focus on you get more of.
- #12 You make people around you smile.
- Kids are a great joy if you look for it.
- #13 You’re not afraid to dream big.
- We should be encouraging our children’s dreams and ambitions.
- #14 Your willingness to try is admirable.
- If you encourage their willingness to try, they will put in the effort to try new things more often.
- #15 You bring so much joy to our family.
- Kids have a memory bank that you need to build. The fastest way to remove mental health issues like anxiety, fear, and depression is using compliments like this.
- #16 You glow when you smile.
- Smiling has a physiological effect. Reinforcing the act of smiling makes it more of a habit.
- #17 I really admire the person you have become.
- This acknowledges their growth and that they are a good person as they are.
- Children need parents that build them up and a lot of that has to do with the language we use. Compliments are free so take 21 days and turn complimenting your kids into a habit.
Mentioned in This Episode:
gravystack.com.smart
smartmoneyparenting.com
Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson
Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson
Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott
Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson
Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell
Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson
Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell
The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Chad Willardson and Scott Donnell, which is the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Listen Notes, Inc.Money Talks in Your Marriage
17m · PublishedEpisode : Money Talks in Your Marriage
Pub date : 2023-05-09
What is the best way to talk about finances in a marriage? In today's episode, hosts Chad Willardson and Scott Donnell discuss the money conversations couples should have in a marriage. They break down simple ways to talk about money with your spouse and the essential questions you must ask your partner to understand their money mindset.
- Money conversations in marriage and the topics you should discuss with your spouse.
- Share your successes and mistakes as a parent with your kids. It doesn't scare them. It helps them learn and grow.
- Scott and Chad discuss the benefits of increasing the quality and frequency of your money conversations with your spouse.
- For Scott, you don't have to know everything about money to have productive financial conversations with your kids. You can always ask a friend or a mentor to talk to them over dinner.
- Scott and Chad cover creative money and finance-related questions you can use to understand your partner's money mindsets.
- For Scott, you don't outgrow your partner in marriage; you just grow apart.
- Chad and Scott agree that couples must have frequent conversations about money, especially if the goal is to stay together long-term.
- According to Scott, the best marriages work because couples are open and honest with one another.
- It's very normal to disagree on finances as a couple. Chad believes it's almost impossible to come from different backgrounds and share the same views about money.
Mentioned in This Episode:
gravystack.com.smart
smartmoneyparenting.com
Smart, Not Spoiled: The 7 Money Skills Kids Must Master Before Leaving the Nest by Chad Willardson
Value Creation Kid: The Healthy Struggles Your Children Need to Succeed by Scott Donnell and Lee Benson
Scott Donnell on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnell-scott
Chad Willardson on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chadwillardson
Scott Donnell on Instagram - @imscottdonnell
Chad Willardson on Instagram - @chad.willardson
Scott Donnell on TikTok - @imscottdonnell
The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Chad Willardson and Scott Donnell, which is the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Listen Notes, Inc.Pacific Capital's Podcast Playlist has 154 episodes in total of non- explicit content. Total playtime is 71:24:40. The language of the podcast is English. This podcast has been added on October 28th 2022. It might contain more episodes than the ones shown here. It was last updated on May 18th, 2024 09:44.
