My Favorite Mistake: Navigating Business and Career Pitfalls for Leadership Growth and Innovation

My guest for Episode #260 of theMy Favorite Mistakepodcast is Rachel Burch. She’s a lawyer turned transformational coach and stand-up comedian.

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As host of the chart-topping podcast Love Before 100, Rachel chronicles her journey to find love while making her way down a dating scavenger hunt/bucket list.

Rachel lives with her two boys in Orange County, CA, where she enjoys long walks on the beach and short commutes on PCH. She’s obsessed with personal growth, all things woo and healthy living.

In this captivating episode of "My Favorite Mistake," Mark Graban and Rachel Burch take listeners through a riveting journey from rigid law corridors to vibrant stand-up stages and intimate podcasting spaces. They unravel the interesting dynamics of creativity, touching upon the iterative nature of comedy and podcasting as platforms for exploration and growth.

They explore how bravery, resilience, and unwavering dedication play instrumental roles in one's creative journey. With an exceptional knack for intertwining insights on personal growth with humor, Rachel uses her experiences as platforms to connect on a human level, showcasing the powerful impact of storytelling. This episode serves to inspire individuals to embrace every facet of their journey, including their passions and dreams, and the importance of learning from mistakes.

• How did the law degree help you with what you’re doing now?
• Did you want to be a comedian growing up??
• From lawyer to business owner to comedian - how to make big life changes?
• Developing stand up as an iterative process and testing ideas?
• Beginning as a podcaster??
• Tell us about Podcasting — “Love Before 100”
• “Launching your podcast isn’t the hard part. Making it worth listening to is.”
• Lessons about Growing a podcast - services for podcasters “Bingeable”
• What is your best piece of advice for people who want to start on their dream but are scared?
• What’s the worst advice someone could give?

We're joined again by Ellen Patnaude, who was a guest back in Episode 141 in February 2022.

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What's new for Ellen? She's the author of TWO books that have been released since then.

I Thought You Knew...: Confessions of a Chronic Assumer (and How You Can Stop Guessing Your Way Through Important Interactions)

AND

"You're Not Doing It Right": Loving My Mother Through An Unpredictable Caregiving Journey

She's also changed the name of her company to Patnaude Coaching.

Thanks to Ellen for coming back to share with us in this quick conversation.

My guest for Episode #259 of theMy Favorite MistakepodcastisMichele DeFilippo, the Founder of1106 Design, LLC, started in 2001 to work with authors to help them take advantage of opportunities in the changing industry of book publishing – providing one-stop publishing services from manuscript to market.

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I’ve worked with Michele on my last two books,Measures of SuccessandThe Mistakes That Make Us.

In this episode, Michele shares her “favorite mistake” story. We also take a deeper look into a significant industry change, – the rise of independent publishing. They trace this journey to the late 90s and early 2000s when independent publishing emerged as a robust alternative to traditional publishing houses. Uncover the misunderstood beginnings of independent publishing and how it has been pivotal in empowering authors.

From its initially misconceived do-it-yourself approach, independent publishing has evolved into a strategic model that allows authors to bring industry professionals together to create high-quality books. In this episode, dive deep with us to explore how this professional, comprehensive approach has shifted the industry's narrative from – “self-published” towards “independent publishers.” Unearth the numerous ways professionalism and strategic collaboration can create a book product that competes favorably at the market level and meets readers’ demands.

• Starting 1106 Design?? Did you look more before you leaped?
• “Independent publishing” vs “self publishing”?
• People DO judge a book by the cover??
• Changes publishers have to make for cover design for online purchasing??
• Compare traditional publishing vs. hybrid vs. indy?
• What does an author need to ask??
• What happens if that company goes out of business and disappeared??
• Manuscript is done… but now what?
• What does it cost to produce a book to traditional publisher standards?
• Mistake to assume your book is going to be sold in physical bookstores?
• Print book vs. eBook?

My guest for Episode #258 of theMy Favorite Mistakepodcast is Michael Bloom, Chief Executive Officer & Founder of Praktio, an online learning company whose mission is “to create space for learning through mistakes.”

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Before leaving to run Praktio full time, Michael was the founding director of the Transactional Lab & Clinic, an experiential program at the University of Michigan Law School.

Michael is the co-author of two books on contracts from a transactional perspective:Contracts and Commercial TransactionsandContracts: A Transactional Approach.

Michael earned his J.D. from Yale Law School and earned his B.A. with highest distinction from the University of Michigan, where he studied American history.

This episode focuses on Michael's journey from being a clinical professor to founding Praktio. By creating an environment that promotes learning through mistakes, Michael has challenged traditional paradigms and aligned his unique educational model with the evolving needs of learners in a fast-paced, information-rich world. His entrepreneurial venture, peppered with a fair share of mistakes, has yielded invaluable insights that have guided the development of a highly effective educational model that thrives on constructive feedback and the power of mistakes.

• Is it a mistake to listen to ALL feedback equally?
• Did you fear it might be a mistake to leave the law school and go full time into Praktio?
• How do law firms react to mistakes?
• Framed as learning opportunities or something shameful?
• Tell us more about the Praktio story and product…
• Make mistakes in a safe environment to avoid the real one?
• Learning from the mistakes made by others now?
• What are some common or bad mistakes that could be made with contracts?
• Preventing mistakes vs. more senior inspecting the work?
• LinkedIn Profile: “Make mistakes and learn from them”
• As CEO, how do you think about mistakes INTERNAL to Praktio?
• Cultivating a culture of learning from mistakes?
• Learning from the mistakes of other entrepreneurs?

My guest for Episode #257 of theMy Favorite MistakepodcastisChris Lewicki, an Astrofuturist, Engineer, and Entrepreneur who is interested in developing strong, thoughtful foundations for the near-future space economy.

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He’s a multi-time co-founder. He first co-founded and was CEO of Planetary Resources Inc. (PRI), which focused on the prospecting, development, and use of resources found on near-Earth asteroids. (Skip) He helped acquire over $60M in investment and revenue, built a team of 80 extremely talented engineers, scientists, and business and policy leaders, and launched 3 experimental spacecraft to advance the adoption of space resources as a crucial part of humanity’s activities in space.

Prior to entering the private sector, Chris was a key member of NASA’s Mars Exploration Rovers and the Phoenix Mars Lander, serving as Flight Director for the Mars rovers Spirit and Opportunity, and as the Surface Mission Manager for Phoenix.

Chris received both bachelor’s and master’s degrees in aerospace engineering from the University of Arizona. He’s the recipient of two NASA Exceptional Achievement Medals and has an asteroid named in his honor: 13609 Lewicki.

Chris imparts lessons learned from his early days in NASA's Mars exploration projects, where a potential disaster during a rover test thrust him into the limelight as an emerging leader in the field. His poignant recount of the incident underscores the nuanced details that contribute to the success or failure of any mission and the critical concept ofdesign for test( DFT).

Drawing parallels to the broader engineering community, this episode's riveting discussion reveals essential strategies used in this high-stakes industry. The implementation of mistake-proofing tactics, robust system performance to ensure resilience, or ‘poka-yoke', and the introduction of redundancy in spacecraft design all contribute to an airtight spacecraft system. Learn from Chris's profound insights as he unravels the multifaceted considerations that go into ensuring functionality, designing for testability, and anticipating service requirements and testing needs during the initial design phases.

• Was it a connector being reversed??
• New and innovative work… – was it a design mistake to not be “designed for test”?
• Could that have been mistake proofed in some way? It was not
• Would they have fired you? Did you ask??? Ernie or others??
• Took time to be able to tell the story? How long?
• What response did you get to sharing that story online?
• Bringing these lessons into the private sector as CEO?
• How many people have taken you up on your offer to share their failure stories??
• MY $500M MARS ROVER MISTAKE: A FAILURE STORY
• Netflix documentary on the James Webb telescope

My guest for Episode #256 of theMy Favorite MistakepodcastisAnn Swanson, the author of the internationally bestselling bookSCIENCE OF YOGA, which has been translated into over 15 languages.

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Her new book,Meditation for the Real World, illuminates the fascinating science behind meditation with step-by-step practices.She worked alongside Harvard neuroscientist Dr. Sara Lazar and an illustrator for the New York Times to create this science-backed visual guide. It’s important to note that Ann wasn’t a naturally “chill person,” and meditation didn’t come easy to her.

Overcoming her own chronic pain and anxiety led her to India to study yoga and meditation, to China to explore tai chi, and to earn a Master of Science graduate degree in Yoga Therapy. Now, Ann blends cutting-edge research with ancient wisdom, resulting in realistic techniques you won’t just learn – you’ll love to live by!

This episode sheds light on the journey of turning mistakes into unexpected triumphs — and how Ann's favorite mistake was thankfully a “near mistake.” We discuss how the resilience to push through tribulations is often the stepping stone to success in personal well-being and spiritual practice.

We also touch upon the art of manifestation, breaking stereotypes and illustrating how envisioning one's life trajectory and being open to various possibilities can lead to astonishing opportunities. We delve into real-life case studies of individuals going from rejection to becoming acclaimed authors, demonstrating the importance of sharing one's knowledge and skills, maintaining a positive digital presence, and the role of persistence and self-belief.

• What’s your favorite mistake?
• Getting so many job rejections… over 100
• Wouldn’t have known it was a mistake??
• How did meditation help you during those tough times??
• Tell us the story of this latest book, “Meditation for the Real World,”
• Meditation mistakes? Is that possible?
• What if you feel like you are “bad” at meditating, or your mind wanders too much?
• Mind / body connection between yoga and meditation?
• How long do you need to meditate for it to work? Can one-minute meditations really make a difference?
• The science of meditation??
• Why do most people fail at developing a consistent meditation practice? How can we apply the science to finally build a sustainable practice?
• Any mistakes in the writing the book?

Bonus Episode Update with Sarah Lohse: Unearthing the Power of Storytelling

Her episode of "My Favorite Mistake"

Today's episode of "My Favorite Mistake" features Sarah Lohse, founder of Favorite Daughter Media and author of "Open This Book: The Art of Storytelling for Aspiring Thought Leaders."

Sarah illuminates storytelling's potential as a powerful leadership and communication tool, extending it beyond the realm of novelists and filmmakers to thought leaders and influencers. With her knack for drawing relevant insights from personal experiences, she demonstrates how a well-told story can engage, inspire, and teach valuable lessons.

https://favoritedaughtermedia.com/open-this-book/

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My guest for Episode #255 of theMy Favorite MistakepodcastisTerry Bartley. He is a high school journalism, literature, and English teacher and writer of the new collection of short stories,Tyranny of the Fey.

Terry is the host of the podcast “Most Writers are Fans,” about the intersection between writing and fandom. Terry has professionally written for theCoal Valley NewsandScreenrant. He has won awards for writing and broadcasting from the West Virginia Associated Press, the National Broadcasting Society, and MarCom. He has a B.A. in English from the University of Phoenix and an M.A. in English Education from Western Governor’s University.

With a candid discussion on his life's journey through countless experiences straddling education and literature, Terry charts an inspiring narrative about turning apparent career missteps into stepping stones of growth. We navigate through his career in teaching while pursuing his passion for writing amidst an uncertain freelance career.

Immerse yourself in an absorbing conversation as Terry discusses his life with ADHD, stressing its impact beyond professional barriers permeating quotidian existence. In our challenging exploration of the realm of ADHD, Bartley underscores the importance of acceptance, diagnosis, and therapy as his allies combating the condition. He promotes a holistic, individualized approach to managing ADHD, dispelling the clouds of misconception about mental health. Listen along for the fascinating exposition of how ADHD molded his unique creative expression, setting light on his inspiring journey.

• What's your favorite mistake?
• Feeling out of sync – shaming?
• When did you get diagnosed with ADHD?
• What prompted or led to that diagnosis?
• The impact of treatment?
• Tell us about your book
• Is it a mistake to publish the short stories before the novel? Only time will tell?
• Learning from mistakes and steps from the first release??
• Was it a struggle to finish a book then? Or are short stories easier?
• Tell us more about the podcast — not just book authors…
• What's done is done

My guest for Episode #254 of theMy Favorite Mistakepodcast is Gina Mundy, author of the book A Parent's Guide to a Safer Childbirth: Expecting the Best: Using the Power of Knowledge to Help You Deliver a Healthy Baby.

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Gina is an attorney who specializes in childbirth cases.Throughout her career, Gina has traveled nationwide, engaging with healthcare professionals such as doctors, nurses, and midwives to explore all aspects of labor and delivery. Meeting with experts from various states, she has explored and analyzed the myriad of issues that can arise during labor and delivery, impacting both mother and baby.v

Gina lives in Clarkston, Michigan, with her family (husband, kids, and dogs)… and she enjoys visiting wineries. Me too (the wineries part)!

Join us as we embark on Gina Mundy's transformative journey from a legal expert in childbirth cases to a successful author. We explore how challenging circumstances, often derived from personal experiences, inspire noble feats like authorship, turning potential mistakes into powerful preventive guidance. Gina's book serves as an incredible testament to her efforts to help expecting parents bypass potential risks and navigate childbirth with ease.

Dive into a discussion touching upon critical topics such as recognizing the signs of distress or complications early, understanding the impact of medications like Pitocin in childbirth, and the implications of labor after water breaks. Our guests underline the importance of being forewarned and forearmed, thereby uplifting childbirth experiences with informed decisions.

And we'll hear about Gina's favorite mistake from her legal career, and decisions she made as a working mother -- how much does she regret those decisions today?

• Now 10 years later… was that a mistake??
• What were the adjustments?
• What led to writing the book — and first learning about problems and mistakes that occur during childbirth??
• What's the difference between naturally occurring bad outcomes vs. mistakes? Is that always clear?
• What are the most common problems that occur during childbirth?
• Does time of day matter? 5 pm Friday??? July?
• And how can people help prevent mistakes?
• Who gets sued, the resident or the attending??
• How often does info from the legal case help drive improvement and prevention?

My guest for Episode #253 of theMy Favorite MistakepodcastisJulian Reeve, former Musical Director for the musical Hamilton and CEO ofPerfect Equilibrium, Inc., a firm that provides consulting services related to employee burnout and retention.

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Julian graduated with honors from Anglia Ruskin University in Cambridge, England, before embarking on a highly successful career as a musician, educator, and entrepreneur.

He performed for millions across six continents around the world as a Music Director, winning The Los Angeles Drama Critic Circle Award for Best Music Direction on the Broadway musical Hamilton before leading it’s first presentations at the John F. Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts (DC) and at the Centro de Bellas Artes Luis A. Ferrè in Puerto Rico (with Lin Manuel Miranda).

Julian has built four thriving companies in the creative sector, including the London-based boutique talent agency Boland & Reeve Ltd (now Collective Agents) and Perfect Equilibrium Inc. in Los Angeles.

In this episode, Julian talks about his “favorite mistake,” a turning point that occurred early on in his career that challenged his understanding of leadership. This not only shaped his communication skills but also transformed his perspective on perfectionism. With fascinating real-life experiences, he explains the crucial role of self-awareness, the power of accepting and utilizing feedback, and the impact of approach and attitude on leadership and personal development.

• What's your favorite mistake?
• Was that authority-based approach modeled to you by teachers?
• Did you learn to ask for feedback?
• Should we cut you some slack since you were young?? Learning from those mistakes — and getting other chances?
• How do perfectionists tend to respond to feedback?
• What led you to leave your work in the music industry??
• The ways perfectionism is helpful?
• Does it help to reframe standards of excellence and expectations?
• Was there ever a mistake-free performance of Hamilton?
• Why does Perfectionism lead to not just burnout and depression?
• Self-compassion —Kristen Neff Episode 183
• Tell us about your company – and how you help individuals and organizations
• Julian's TEDx talk