Life Talk | Guide to a positive life

Have you made a decision before that affected you in a negative way and you blamed yourself? Since most of teenagers have mental illness, it could affect our whole lives. It could affect the way we act, the way we do things and the way we make decisions. Most of the time, we are not on ourselves because our mindset is negative due to mental illness. By this, we make decisions based on our current emotions. In this episode, Rachel talks about the importance of self reflecting before making a decision.

Can’t feel the positive advices of your friends? In this episode, Rachel talks about why you can’t feel the light and what you must do to feel the warmth of the light in your life.

Have you ever wondered why do people that you really want to be part of your life, always leave? It’s because you are doing the repulsive force. In this episode, Rachel talks about magnetic force into our lives. We usually do the repulsive force which is of course, not good. The more you try to be with your wants, the more it will go away from you. The right one to use, is the attractive force, because you will attract what you need and not what you want.

We tend to look for the change outside of us, but not within us. In this episode, Rachel talks about the most important part of wanting change in our lives. We must work on ourselves first before we work on others and don’t wait for the change to come into your life, be the change that you want in your life, because once you did that, every single thing in your life will change.

The hard truth is, no matter what, people will see your success as a “short ride” means easy and fast or they underestimate your success. In this episode, Rachel talks about underestimating people’s success, why it is wrong and what is the connection of it to short ride, long walk.

We tend to deny our needs for ourselves, which is not a good thing. We must be true to ourselves, and in line with that, we must be true to others. Being true to other people is also being true to yourself because you are taking an action for your needs. Be direct, be honest with your needs. If you have a problem with something or someone, take an action about it and never deny your needs for yourself.

How do you usually feel when they don’t like your offer? In this episode, Rachel talks about what should be your perspective with regards to this one. The “offer” she’s talking about here is, the “influence” you are willing to give. If your friend or partner doesn’t like your offer, let them back out. Wanna know the reason why? Listen now!

In this episode, Rachel talks about the story she have wrote for academic purposes. But, it has a big lesson that we must have to realize. It talks about something we must learn in a relationship. How do you love someone? If you decided to enter a relationship, you must be ready with everything but most importantly, you must have patience. Patience for the journey of your relationship and not thinking of “something” as a hindrance for the growth of your relationship.

Drowning in pain and problems in life could really lead you to wishing. Have you ever wished to be happy? Stop doing it now because it is wrong! In this episode, Rachel talks about why it is wrong and how it should be.

How do you plan if you are just a starter? Are you taking it one step at a time? In this episode, Rachel talks about the “1 + 1 = success rule” and how it will help you not give up on things that you are doing in life.