Unabashed You

Right after the recorded part of this conversation, we continued to talk about confidence and why we think it is invaluable for each person to have.  Our guest Lindsay Gumm, said there is a deficit of confidence out there, and I couldn’t agree more.  Her definition for confidence is being in a state of flow, which I thought was a cool way to describe it.

And why are we so much harder on ourselves than we are on anyone else?  Lindsay walked us through how she challenges the negative self-talk that is all too easy for us to listen to.  If we do it only erodes our belief in ourself.  She takes quiet time, becomes aware of the voice, and then examines what it is saying.  In this way she can compare it to what is actually true, to what is.  A worthwhile practice and one we can all do.  It can only help us with our own confidence.

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Who is someone we would all know that is the picture of confidence?  Our guest this week, Shaun Conde, answered Brad Pitt.  His reasons?  For being effortlessly confident but not braggadocios, for being down to earth, comfortable with himself, and for being someone who doesn’t need to prove anything, to anyone.  Of course we don’t actually know Mr. Pitt yet he does exude these qualities.

And is there a difference between being confident and feeling confident?  There are opposing thoughts that say one comes first, and the other follows.  For our purposes Shaun felt if you summoned up courage, you could rise to the occasion and do a a hard thing scared.  Why not?  You don’t know how it will go.  No one does.  Most people want you to succeed.  The ones that don’t don’t matter in the big picture of your life anyway.

Thank you for being a part of the UY conversation.

The Unabashed You website has a page for each guest of photos, quotes and a blog with embedded audio at unabashedyou.com. You can find the show on other podcast platforms.  Want to lend your support and encouragement? We invite you to follow, rate, review and share.

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You start with the word joyful, and you add icity, to make Joyfulicity.  It’s not an official word but really who cares?  You can tell what Laura Wakefield had in mind when she coined it.  Laura asked me to come on her Joyfulicity podcast and I was happy to oblige.  So what did we talk about?  Turns out Laura did some homework by visiting the UY website and we had a great conversation about some things she found there.  Like the three core values I value most: authenticity, transparency and vulnerability, and how I claimed them.

We also chatted about the importance of knowing yourself because then you can understand who you are, build your confidence, and reduce your fears.  We also pondered some questions posted on the UY website like, Who would you be if you weren’t afraid?  Why are you here?  What are you doing about it?  Looking at passion, adding intention, can equal your purpose if you let it.  You are probably the only thing holding you back.   

Laura has been on UY episode 154, Learn to Dance in the Rain.

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The Unabashed You website has a page for each guest of photos, quotes and a blog with embedded audio at unabashedyou.com. You can find the show on other podcast platforms.  Want to lend your support and encouragement? We invite you to follow, rate, review and share.

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Emily Bruning is singing because she is filled with joy.  Happiness is great but joy is better.  It’s deeper and it’s lasting.  She has made the best out of a pivot and changed course from the inside out.  She had a restaurant job she was good at and worked with people she enjoyed BUT there was that returning feeling that something was missing.  I miss theater was what she realized.  Emily could have settled instead she listened to the nudge and did something about it.

First she started by asking herself some hard questions.  Then she wrote about them to get clearer on the answers.  Emily took a leap of faith, she didn’t have all the answers, that is where trust comes in.  Once again she chose theater because this was the missing piece, where her heart always was.  She set that goal and kept after it until she made it happen.  All along the way she created routines that helped get her there, one for the morning and one at night.  These habits helped build and provide direction for her, they have brought her the joy that results in singing all the time.

Emily has been on the podcast before in Daisies Help Me Breathe episodes 13, and Takeaways and Looks Ahead episode 40.

Thank you for being a part of the UY conversation.

The Unabashed You website has a page for each guest of photos, quotes and a blog with embedded audio at unabashedyou.com. You can find the show on other podcast platforms.  Want to lend your support and encouragement? We invite you to follow, rate, review and share.

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Your own life experiences really color your perspective.  They are a custom made kaleidoscope to how you see things, the choices you make.  During our conversation, Sara Marsh shared that we view others through our own lens.  Everyone has a story.   We may assign a particular storyline to them to fill in the gaps based on us, not necessarily them - human nature and all that.  Sara’s point is maybe it’s better not to, but to see things from their perspective, not our own.

This is especially true when it comes to her son.  She calls parenting the best and worst experience of her life, and anyone who has children gets the truth of the high highs and the low lows.  Throughout their lives together, Sara’s son inspires her to be in the present moment because that’s where he is.  Through being a brave, kind and funny kid from the system she sees he is a survivor, and she is all too happy to give him the best start to life possible.

Thank you for being a part of the UY conversation.

The Unabashed You website has a page for each guest of photos, quotes and a blog with embedded audio at unabashedyou.com. You can find the show on other podcast platforms.  Want to lend your support and encouragement? We invite you to follow, rate, review and share.

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Sometimes a pivot comes from within.  You want to change something.  What about when the thing coming is external?  For Shannon Ziolkowski, the company she worked for since college was moving headquarters from Minneapolis to Miami.  She did not want to make that geographical change and uproot her life.  Shannon chose to stay.

Staying would mean leaving the company she loved.  Faced with lots of change she did three things to pivot.  First, she rewrote her resume even though it’s something she hates to do.  Looking at her accomplishments, she got some help in how to translate those in an appealing, marketable way.  Next she put herself out there creating a digital presence and applied to many openings posted.  Not easy but necessary.  Then she networked.  Connecting, talking with others she was able to lean on the people in her circle as she valued their opinions.  All the while she took the advice she would give to her 10-year old self: Believe in yourself.  Your decisions will be ok and it’s going to work out.

Shannon was on the podcast before in You Can Still Have Fun in the Sun episode 153.

Thank you for being a part of the UY conversation.

The Unabashed You website has a page for each guest of photos, quotes and a blog with embedded audio at unabashedyou.com. You can find the show on other podcast platforms.  Want to lend your support and encouragement? We invite you to follow, rate, review and share.

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You can hear it in her voice.  It’s inviting, warm and knowing.  Wilma Hollis is passionate about sharing the goodness of God.  She shares that we underestimate him.  “He is more Daddy, not so much Father.”  We are his children and as she further explains we are not to leave any crumbs on the table.  God has so much more for you than you could want for yourself.  Wilma wants to encourage you with this knowing.

Not understanding the connection between our words and our outcomes, is how Wilma frames life speaking to you.  And that’s the title of her book, Life Speaking 101: Speak Life and Win.  “You have the ability to speak God’s words and get God’s results.”  Another layer deeper than most of us tend to think.  I like Wilma’s observation that God  speaks for the solution of the light instead of speaking the problem.  Certainly something to ponder.

You can find Wilma at her website Life Speak 101 and on Instagram Wilma Hollis Life Speak.

Thank you for being a part of the UY conversation.

The Unabashed You website has a page for each guest of photos, quotes and a blog with embedded audio at unabashedyou.com. You can find the show on other podcast platforms.  Want to lend your support and encouragement? We invite you to follow, rate, review and share.

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Her dream is for more girls to have flying opportunities.  Jenn Aupke is an accomplished pilot herself and she knows how life changing aviation can be.  In addition to her military career she co-founded The Milieux Project to help this dream take shape.  The non-profit educates girls to realize they have personal power, for them to know they have potential, and to push into it.

As Jenn shares, aviation is the great equalizer because as you learn to fly the confidence gets built in regardless of your gender.  She wants this kind of an experience for everyone and is focusing on girls to help provide the possibilities.  And in this way they won’t have to compare themselves to anyone else because they will trust themselves and they will soar.

You can find Jenn at The Milieux Project, and on Instagram Jenn Aupke.

Thank you for being a part of the UY conversation.

The Unabashed You website has a page for each guest of photos, quotes and a blog with embedded audio at unabashedyou.com. You can find the show on other podcast platforms.  Want to lend your support and encouragement? We invite you to follow, rate, review and share.

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Most every episode a guest says something that hits me as a profound truth, one I have  probably heard before and forgotten, and certainly one I need to be reminded of.  Robyn Rebold-Smith spoke of making choices very intentionally.  How giving her ‘best yes’ to one thing meant saying no to other things.  No to things that she would be missing out on but would give more quality and strength to the ‘yes’ somewhere else.  I have been sitting in this wisdom, how simple and balanced it is.

Robyn is committed to being real and that means having challenging conversations when necessary. She investigates and gathers information to see things from all perspectives.  Then she looks at her part in the situation to see how to make things better.  She loves people and wants to have positive impact. And her greatest passion? Raising the two human beings that call her mom.

Thank you for being a part of the UY conversation.

The Unabashed You website has a page for each guest of photos, quotes and a blog with embedded audio at unabashedyou.com. You can find the show on other podcast platforms.  Want to lend your support and encouragement? We invite you to follow, rate, review and share.

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This 15-year old was quick to say yes to being on the podcast. Again.  Talking about the big pivot of heading into high school, Indya Hazlett had three important things to share: have a close friend to go through the experience with you, choose a mentor who has been there before, and pay attention to what you like to do.

You never know; you could turn that thing you you’ve always liked to do into a profession. Indya plans to be a stylist after after high school.  She has known it for a long time.  Her favorite thing is to get ready.  That entails a bit of make-up, a flattering hairstyle, a killer outfit and a kickass attitude.  And guess what?  Indya has all of that in spades.

Thank you for being a part of the UY conversation.

The Unabashed You website has a page for each guest of photos, quotes and a blog with embedded audio at unabashedyou.com. You can find the show on other podcast platforms.  Want to lend your support and encouragement? We invite you to follow, rate, review and share.

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We build upon on website visits, social media and word of mouth to share these episodes.  We appreciate growth knowing these conversations help you think, celebrate who you are, and move you in some way.

So be encouraged and continue to listen, read and be inspired. 🍐