ML Devitt’s "Wellbeing is Key" Podcast

In the hustle and bustle of modern life, it's easy to lose track of our growth journey. We often find ourselves caught up in the demands of work, relationships, and various responsibilities, leaving little time for self-reflection and introspection. However, one powerful tool that has stood the test of time in fostering personal growth is journaling. The simple act of putting pen to paper (or fingers to keyboard) can have profound effects on our mental, emotional, and even physical well-being. So if you have ever been curious about journaling and have been putting it on the long finger, consider the following five points. Then think about how these things could benefit you. And maybe then give yourself some time and space to lean into your journaling routine. Listen and consider these five key aspects of powerful personal growth that can be facilitated through the process of journaling.

Embrace your personal growth as a playful curious process.

What do we do in those moments and those times when we feel lost, when we feel we are still looking for that thing that will make the difference for us. How do we manage that thought or feeling. And the first realisation from my perspective was this. You find what you are looking for, get unstuck or feel less lost by getting to know yourself better! By taking time to be more present for you, taking pause and considering how you are feeling, reflecting on what you are doing, you can give yourself a really good starting point to work from

Explore and learn how you can begin to more fully tap into your inner Zen. Feel less stressed, more empowered and energised in your daily life.

Take the time to nurture your levels of selfcare. Nurturing your mental, emotional and physical wellbeing builds resilience and empowered states of wellbeing. Interested in my free Personal Growth Journal. Check out this blog post on my website: www.mldevitt.co.uk

Explore how building stronger levels of self-acceptance can help you nurture deep personal growth.

Find your empowered state of wellbeing with these 3 key principles to nurture your empowered wellbeing mindset.

In the rush of daily life, we can begin to lose sight of how important it is to slow down and allow ourselves to be still, mentally, physical and on a soul level. The outside world is full of noises and distractions that keep us in doing mode. When actually what is just as important for us as human beings is to be fully comfortable with allowing ourselves to adopt a state of “being” instead. More specifically what I mean by “being” is proactively deciding to get out of that doing state, following to-do lists, need to or should’s and instead learning to ask ourselves the important question “what do I need for myself today” What if you made a choice to let go that to-do list for a day or two and gave yourself permission to fully embrace that state of allowing yourself to be still. Allow yourself to get off the treadmill of daily life and take a pause. Press that pause button. Take a moment and start asking yourself the following question: How can I slow things down for myself, how can I take even 30 mins and allow myself to sit and absorb and reflect on how I am feeling right now, what is going well for me right now, what do I want to work on about myself right now

Why journaling you might ask? Its only writing stuff down. And yet from my own journaling experience and from supporting my clients with theirs I have grown to understand and appreciate that it is so much more than that. If you can settle into a routine of journaling it truly does lighten your mental load, enable you to gain deeper clarity of your own processes and helps you to relieve stress and find forward movement in your life like nothing else. Have a listen to this weeks episode and think how you could begin your own journaling routine. To get the list of journaling questions that I mentioned during this podcast follow the link to the blog post for this episode here.

Until next time

Marie Louise

Wellbeing Life Coach & Personal Growth Specialist

Through my own personal growth and while supporting my therapy and life coaching clients, I have become deeply aware of the concept and practice of self-acceptance. I have also become aware of the impact the level of our self-acceptance has on our journeys to being in a better place mentally, emotionally, and physically.

The quality and depth of our own degree of self-acceptance permeates into nearly everything we do. It is a low gentle whisper that plays in the background of our daily lives. We can be almost unaware of the impact it has on us. As it is subtle and exists low to the ground in our awareness. And yet with my own self-reflective practice, and through exploring the concept of self-acceptance with my clients, what I have come to understand is that the more proactively we are willing to engage in reflecting inwards and exploring more closely how fully we are able to accept ourselves, then the better and more freely we are able to grow and expand personally and professionally.

Firstly, take a breath.

Take a step back from your day, take a step back for your to-do list, and let go of any negative inner critical thoughts that might be swimming around in your head. Pause and reflect on what your current inner self-talk is? Now take a few slow deep breaths, allow yourself to breathe out that old inner self-talk (if it's not self-supporting) and try using the below mantra to start that process of embodying “full and unconditional acceptance of yourself.”

I fully and unconditionally accept all aspects of myself and who I am right now.

I acknowledge and accept my strengths and weaknesses.

I accept that I am a work in progress.

I am ready, open and willing to learn and grow.

Secondly, Journal your process.

Take even 5-10 minutes daily to journal your thoughts around how you are being actively present in your own self-acceptance process. Use some of the following journaling prompts to support your process.

- I am choosing to accept myself fully and unconditionally because...

- Aspects of myself I would like to improve are…

- Aspects of fully and unconditionally accepting myself I find hard include…

- When I give myself full and unconditional self-acceptance, I feel...

- What daily actions will I take to embody and embrace full acceptance of myself?

So, what I have experienced and grown to understand is that this active process of self-acceptance is one of the bedrocks of our personal foundations that will enable us to stretch and grow more easily into the person we are meant to be.

If you are interested in journaling, I have a range of journals and e-journals that you can explore. Including “Your Daily Self-Love Journal. If you are interested in being part of a community that helps nurture stronger personal foundations, and helps you get out of overwhelm and build resilience, why not join my email list here and get regular updates, blog posts, podcast episodes and tips and techniques that will support you in this process?