Touchy Topics with Megan Lambert

We’re backkk! The first episode with Londin Angel Winters was so powerful (listen to it here), that we immediately recorded a follow-up episode - this time centered on motherhood. 

If you don’t yet know Londin, she is an expert on the path of sacred devotional intimacy, having taught about sexuality, masculine / feminine dynamics, and the art of surrender for over 12 years. She is a true role model in this field and my former relationship mentor. 

In this episode, she shares about the pain of multiple miscarriages and how she (unexpectedly!) conceived at 47 years old, and had a successful home birth at 48 years old. 

We explore the profoundly spiritual aspects of giving birth, and what pregnancy and birth taught us about surrender, the power of the female body, and trusting the divine. We explore the intricate connections between birth, death, and sexuality. 

She shares about breaking the chains of old ways of parenting, and letting your child be your greatest spiritual teacher. 

We dive into intimacy and sex after baby - why so many moms lose interest in sex - and how postpartum actually represents a profound initiation into sacred sexuality and intimate depth, if both people are willing to uplevel together. 

Lastly, we end by talking about the purpose of motherhood - to give love in a way you never received - and how anchoring into that purpose can provide meaning, even in challenging motherhood moments. 

Key Topics:

• Finding acceptance through the pain of multiple miscarriages [01:33]
• Becoming pregnant with a miracle baby at 47 years old [3:41]
• Surrendering to the uncertainty of past pregnancies and [7:38]
• Going to the gates of life and death to receive her daughter [14:53]
• The annihilation of self and total surrender [16:55] 
• Positive discipline as a blueprint for your child to discover themselves [24:21]
• Making room for the messiest parts of ourselves when we’re feeling fragmented[32:05]
• Breaking the chains of the old ways of parenting [38:45]
• Parenthood can be the initiation for deeper intimacy if you make space for it [47:20]
• What kind of love would you love your child to experience that you never received? [1:04:55]

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If you’re curious about my offerings, visit me at www.megandlambert.com. If this episode moves you, please let me know by reaching out by email, Instagram DM (@megandlambert), or leaving a review!

Meet Michelle Etchison - queen of naughty content, self-expression guide, breathwork facilitator and overall badass entrepreneur. She became a friend of mine through a mastermind, where I learned about her journey of healing her autoimmune disease through pleasure and self-expression.

At only 23 years old, she found herself struggling with an autoimmune disease that left her frail and weak. Through reconnecting with her inner voice, expressing herself boldly, and exploring her pleasure, she has completely healed. These days, you’ll find her doing sensual dance, EFT, or breathwork, posting about her happy hoe life on Instagram, and being vibrantly, radiantly healthy. 

In this episode, we explore the wisdom of our bodies - how autoimmune disease is a wake-up call for parts of our souls to come alive. We look at pleasure, and the ways pleasure helps our body become a safe place to be. Lastly, we explore Michelle’s roots as a child of immigrants, and how her cultural heritage informs her work today. 

I hope you enjoy this episode! 

Key Topics:

• Michelle’s origin story of healing autoimmune disease through pleasure and self-expression [01:58]
• The spark of realization that ignited her voice [5:30]
• The deep inner wisdom that stems from illness [9:45]
• Finally feeling safe to surrender [13:00]
• The profoundness of pleasure [14:30] 
• Feeling into the nourishment of breathwork and self-pleasure [20:14]
• Gifting yourself pockets of pleasure and play throughout the day [26:21]
• Michelle’s upbringing as the child of immigrants & breaking traditions [28:23]
• Knocking on the doors of your heart and soul - awakening new parts of you [34:51]

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Connect with Michelle Etchison: 

On Instagram: @michelle.etchison
https://michelleetchison.com/

If you’re curious about my offerings, visit me at www.megandlambert.com. If this episode moves you, please let me know by reaching out by email, Instagram DM (@megandlambert), or leaving a review!

Ever wonder if there is a more empowering and holistic way to view health challenges? Ever feel like modern medicine is missing a big piece of the puzzle, especially for women?  

In this episode with integrative health practitioner, Bindi Stables, we look at the root cause of chronic illness, disease, and body dysfunction, particularly when it comes to women’s bodies. 

Bindi shares her inspiring story of healing from daily seizures to thriving health, and how she found medical answers in unexpected places (ex: emotions, intuition, and ayuveda). 

We look at the most common health problem she helps women with - their menstrual cycles - and how this seemingly simple aspect of being a woman reveals much deeper patterns in our lives, as well as an invitation to an entirely new way of living. 

We also look at how our relationship to our menstrual cycle reflects our relationship to the feminine, and nature as a whole. Powerful stuff! I got chills many times during this episode because I believe this is such an important conversation. I hope you enjoy it! 

Key Topics:

• Bindi’s year-long struggle with daily seizures and finding no answers [01:00]
• Tapping into intuition to find a new path to healing [6:25]
• The manifestation of stagnation through building identity prisons [8:30]
• Stagnation is the birth of challenges conflicts [11:06]
• The two sides of examining health issues [13:05] 
• The long-term impacts of hormonal birth control on women [19:17]
• Finding healthier alternatives [28:00]
• Harnessing the gifts of our cycles [34:10]
• Honoring the wisdom of nature through herbalism [46:26]

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If you’re curious about my offerings, visit me at www.megandlambert.com. If this episode moves you, please let me know by reaching out by email, Instagram DM (@megandlambert), or leaving a review!

Connect with Bindi: 

On Instagram: @bindistables
https://www.bindistables.com/

Do you struggle to receive? Do you wish your partner did more thoughtful things for you?

In this joint episode with my husband, James Mattingley, I share about the biggest gift I’ve ever received - and what it’s taught me about the art of giving & receiving in romantic relationships. 

James recently spent several months renovating my office! And in that process, I learned so much about the voices in my head that block my receiving  (“Do I deserve this? I don’t need anything so beautiful…”), as well as the magic I saw in my relationship when I opened to receive this gift graciously. 

By sharing this story of learning to receive more fully, I hope you get a golden nugget for yourself around what it means to receive, what stands in the way, and how to open more fully to the love that is, always, all around. 

Key Topics:

• The biggest gift I’ve ever received [00:36]
• Desiring the space to share my gifts with the world [2:20]
• Pouring attention into your partner’s desires [3:38]
• The best questions to ask your partner around gift-giving [5:52]
• Receiving graciously and letting go of the outcome [6:44] 
• How gifting reinforces your love bubble [10:50]
• The juicy ideas that can bubble up while journaling around gift-giving [12:55]

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If you’re curious about my offerings, visit me at www.megandlambert.com. If this episode moves you, please let me know by reaching out by email, Instagram DM (@megandlambert), or leaving a review!

Grab a cup of tea and settle in for this is an intimate solo episode together, where I share my personal updates, and a shift I’ve noticed in my work lately towards more softness and just being - rather than pushing and doing. 

I open up about identity challenges this change has brought up for me - as well as how I knew it was time to let go of online coaching for now. I share about listening to my body for deeper wisdom, and trusting those messages even when they don’t “make sense”. 

Sacrifice is a big theme in the episode too - consciously deciding what I do NOT do is as important as what I will do. 

Lastly I share a tangible practice you can take with you to identify your own values and priorities - and align your life behind them. I hope you find this episode useful for your own journey!

Key Topics:

• A move towards a new way of being [00:55]
• Transformation happens when we dissolve identity prisons [2:09]
• My sacrifices reveal the life I’m choosing for myself [4:31]
• Desire can make you feel as though you’re being split in two [8:38]
• Reevaluating where I’m being called and drawn to now [9:29] 
• What is the North Star of your life? [10:48]
• How does your schedule align with your mission and values? [12:15]

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If you’re curious about my offerings, visit me at www.megandlambert.com. If this episode moves you, please let me know by reaching out by email, Instagram DM (@megandlambert), or leaving a review!

This might be one of my favorite episodes yet. It’s a profound interview with my mentor, Londin Angel Winters, where we explore, “How do you create a passionate partnership after decades together? What’s required to continue growing and deepening with your lover through having a child, starting a business, and navigating uncertainty?”

Londin is one of the wisest - yet playful! - women I know, and this episode is packed full of a-ha moments around intimacy, love, and relationship. In the episode, I bring her 3 typical challenges from my clients, and she responds with deep, life-changing advice for these situations. You may even get something for yourself!

We talk about what surrender *really* is, ways we unconsciously kill polarity and attraction, how to inspire masculine leadership, and how to offer yourself as a gift to your relationship. Londin asks, “How are you going to use your body and your time on earth to awaken conscious love?”

Key Topics:

• Learning the art of surrender for life-changing growth [01:46]
• Trusting in what you can’t see or understand [7:25]
• Surrendering during moments of intimacy [14:31]
• Relinquishing control to recognize and receive the gifts your partner is already giving you [23:07]
• Becoming a living gift, the beauty of life through creating polarity [31:07] 
• Serve the moment, not the ego [41:50]
• How did you love before you knew hurt? [48:34]

To deepen your surrender practice, check out Londin’s Receptive Breath guided audio practice here: https://on.soundcloud.com/ADAG8

You can find her on Instagram at @londinawinters. 

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If you’re curious about my offerings, visit me at www.megandlambert.com. If this episode moves you, please let me know by reaching out by email, Instagram DM (@megandlambert), or leaving a review!

What were you taught about food and your appetite? How is your relationship with your hunger? How do you feel about your body right now? 

This is such a hot topic for my female clients right now, so I wanted to dive into it here with you. 

In this intimate solo episode, I share with you my personal journey around food, body image, and feminine hunger. I touch on the healthiest aspects of my journey - as well as my dysfunctional habits - and the specific tools I’ve used to “rewild” my relationship with food and my body. 

When I watch my 16 month old baby naturally eat what she wants, when she wants, and intuitively follow her own hunger cues… I know that this is our natural state. 

Yet so many of us have a far-from-natural relationship with food and our bodies. We may diet, overexercise, binge & purge, obsessively count calories, or restrict ourselves. All of this comes from a “top-down” control of our bodies, rather than a deep trust of our body’s wisdom. 

This episode is an invitation back to your natural state, a chance to “rewild” your body, and rediscover what you intuitively know about eating and feminine hunger. 

Key Topics:

• The injury that led to my complicated relationship with food [01:56]
• Not an eating disorder, but disordered eating [5:09]
• Realigning with my body’s sensations through Orgasmic Meditation  [6:38]
• Giving yourself permission to connect with your emotions through food  - what are you truly hungry for? [8:40]
• Rewilding yourself by unleashing your desires [10:08] 
• Don’t underestimate the impact of cultural conditioning [12:31]

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If you’re curious about my offerings, visit me at www.megandlambert.com. If this episode moves you, please let me know by reaching out by email, Instagram DM (@megandlambert), or leaving a review!

To go deeper into feminine magnetism, take a look at my Bali women’s retreat on July 9-13th:

https://www.megandlambert.com/magnetic

Hey feminine being - do you realize how powerful you are?!

For years, I overworked, overgave, and over-hustled… because I had no idea how naturally and inherently magnetic I was. I didn’t trust the power of my feminine to attract what I wanted - in love, in friendship, in work. 

In this potent solo episode, I share about my personal feminine awakening 10 years ago, and my journey into deeper trust with my body, with my longings, and ultimately, with the universe. 

I’ll also share the 9 qualities of being magnetic, and invite you into deeper self-reflection with me on your current superpowers - as well as areas you may be curious to explore further. 

May this episode activate a deep remembering inside you of just how badass and magnetic you truly are. 

Key Topics:

• A heroine’s growth journey of the last 10 years [00:47]
• Learning about trust and safety through Orgasmic Meditation [3:16]
• Mama Gena and the School of Womanly Arts [4:39]
• Finding access to faith and trust through Codependents’ Anonymous [6:29]
• The powerful magnetism inherent in our feminine nature [7:28] 
• The 9 transformations to becoming magnetic [9:22]
• Remembering how powerfully magnetic you are [15:22]

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If you’re curious about my offerings, visit me at www.megandlambert.com. If this episode moves you, please let me know by reaching out by email, Instagram DM (@megandlambert), or leaving a review!

To go deeper into feminine magnetism, take a look at my Bali women’s retreat on July 9-13th:

https://www.megandlambert.com/magnetic

This is our most requested episode topic yet! 

Join me and my husband, James, this week as we share about keeping intimacy alive while caring for a newborn. No easy feat! But we have learned so much about how to balance both and this journey has deepened our love for each other. 

In this episode, we’ll share our perspectives on what it’s like trying to care for one another and a baby when you’re running on empty, how to still fill up each other’s cups while avoiding resentment (as much as possible), and the excitement around rediscovering your intimacy as a couple in a new phase of life. 

At the end of this episode, we leave you with two powerful questions that can transform your intimacy - for life. 

May this episode support you in the wild journey of raising babies while caring for a marriage! 

Key Topics:

• When filling up your own cup is replaced by a newborn [1:57]
• Where men need to create intimacy that’s replenishing to the mother in the newborn stage [5:03] 
• Resentment is smoke on the fire of a desire or need for more support [7:19]
• Cultivating space around baby to allow for deeper intimacy with each other [11:15]
• Rekindling intimacy and excitement in “the new you” as co-parents  [14:09]
• Most relationships die waiting for spontaneity [17:45]
• How can you love your partner differently every single day? [22:00]

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 If you’re curious about my offerings, visit us at www.integratedintimacy.co. If this episode moves you, please let me know by reaching out by email, Instagram DM (@megandlambert), or leaving a review to let us know your thoughts!

Say hello to Rebecca Ives, my current coach and online love. She says she is a “spiritual teacher masquerading as a marketing coach”. She has built her multi-six-figure brand on unapologetic self-expression, saying the rawest and realest thing, and having her own back in a big way. 

In this conversation, we’ll talk about how Rebecca began her online career and built her internet persona and community over the past decade, and how that has allowed her to work only with people she considers “soulmate clients”. 

Watching the way she holds loving - yet firm - boundaries in her business has deeply inspired me to also raise my standards and only work with people that feel amazing to my soul. She has helped me pay close attention to the energetics of my business to make sure it feels enlivening rather than draining, especially as a new mom. 

I’ve also been impressed by how Rebecca ditches the overly glossy highlight reel and shares openly about her sometimes messy, always real, personal journey. 

She oozes self love, sparkle, and glittery goddess vibes so if you’ve been waiting to unleash more of your whole self online - you don’t want to miss this episode! 

Key Topics:

The genesis of The Content Queen: creating the persona [1:37]

The quantum leap that scaled her business to multiple six-figures [4:41] 

Soulmate clients only: setting clear boundaries for ultimate feminine flow [8:23]

Using social media as the playground for the deeper parts of your soul [14:41]

Getting cancelled and earning your internet battlescars [18:34]

How to romanticize your business [24:37]

What do ADHD, emotional trauma, and smoking weed have in common? [31:27]

Reflecting love like a diamond-encrusted mirror [35:22] 

Your negative experiences are just a cloud over the sunshine of your essence [40:09]

Connect with Rebecca on Instagram:

@the_content_queen

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If you’re curious about my offerings, visit us at www.integratedintimacy.co. If this episode moves you, please let me know by reaching out by email, Instagram DM (@megandlambert), or leaving a review to let us know your thoughts!