Your Life After

Childhood emotional trauma deeply informed Catherine Register’s approach to parenting. As she started on her healing journey, doing so while raising children was immensely difficult. It was quite a challenge to overcome those hurdles and come out the other side. She has a passion and heart for parents struggling to care for their children while trying to do their own healing work.

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Catherine Register holds an undergraduate degree in Psychology from the University of Georgia and has completed graduate coursework in Social Work with an emphasis on Community Organization. Catherine’s experience as both an entrepreneur and a human service provider has deeply informed her work as a policy advocate. Her lifelong commitment to empowering vulnerable people is fueled by her role as the mother of three young girls. The responsibility of raising empowered and confident women has motivated her to remain committed to both personal and professional growth. She works in and out of the office to assess needs in the community and target resources to direct to those requiring support.

Rachel Alexander wanted to spend our time together talking about navigating co-parenting with a narcissist, dating as a single parent, reactions she experienced after leaving her abusive ex, the relationship of the church with abusers, and the importance of therapy. She sees healing as a continual process and believes the more we talk about domestic violence, the more we heal and help others.

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Rachel connects people with homes and the lifestyles they want. Slated to make the top 15% this year for local Realtors, she credits her success with a conscious decision to open up, live authentically, and being able to tell her story. She finds that the more she gives, the more she receives. As a survivor of domestic violence in an abusive marriage, she has the goal of being able to help just one woman leave a similar relationship each time she tells her story. She believes that there is always a reason for what we go through; to help others.

Mentioned in the show/resources

Rachel’s website: soldbyrare.kw.com

Rachel’s Instagram: www.instagram.com/rachelsellshomes850

Aisha Moore doesn’t want other women to experience what she did. She joined me to talk about how we focus on jobs and accolades and how that can lead to our soul being undernourished.

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Aisha Moore is a self-care advocate and stress management expert. Her father inspired her 20-year career in public health and service in various healthcare-related associations. She has a unique perspective because she “over-served” until she was stressed out to the point of being on short-term disability. After getting serious about self-care, she was able to heal anxiety naturally, boost her career, and revive a failing marriage. She now helps successful leaders who are overwhelmed change their thought processes, systems, and habits to serve without sacrificing their sanity.

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Aisha’s website: seriousaboutselfcare.com

Shea Atkin wants to destigmatize the word trauma and let listeners know that even though healing from trauma is messy, it’s still worth it. She says that we are only as sick as our secrets. We learn boundaries to know who is safe and has earned the right to hear our secrets and stories. Shea believes many of our current patterns (unaware or aware) are our attempts to reconcile a past that no longer exists.

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I'm a survivor of major developmental childhood trauma and addiction. Somehow I made it through without dying, and in my second half of life, I have dedicated myself to healing from it and helping others heal from theirs as well. We are all in this together, and I hope we can each learn to live comfortably in our own skin.

Mentioned in the show/resources

Schedule a consultation with Shea here: https://www.traumahealingcollective.com/shea-atkin-ttt-lmt

Information about CranioSacrel therapy and Somato-Emotional Release: https://www.craniosacralis.hu/craniosacral-therapy/what-is-ser/ 

An overview of Trauma Touch Therapy: https://www.massagetherapy.com/articles/trauma-touch-therapy

The Joyous Body: https://www.soundstrue.com/products/the-joyous-body

Shayna Acree joins us to talk about the grief journey that people experience after a significant loss in their life. Because of her own experiences, she understands how difficult it is to heal. She shares her thoughts with us about the different grief stages, how many people can get stuck in their grief following loss and trauma, and how to be okay with not being okay at times.

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Shayna Acree is a native of Tallahassee, Florida where she resides with her husband and children and she is a graduate of Florida State University.

Shayna lost her eldest child, Amyia, suddenly in December of 2012. In her first book, There is Hope on the Other Side of Grief, Shayna shares her personal story of her journey through grief and loss. Her hope is to inspire and empower others through their grief journey.

Shayna Acree is also a Certified Life Coach, specializing in assisting people’s journey through the different stages of grief and loss.

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Shayna’s website: fromamyia.com

Rebecca Kelly-Manders is a child of divorce. She survived growing up with a functioning alcoholic, joined the military where she wasn’t the greatest soldier (her words, not mine), and has had a mark left on her by the criminal justice system. She’s built a life of service through her own recovery from addiction and sharing her skills as a chef. We talk about that and more on season one’s final episode.

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I always start these kinds of paragraphs with professional accomplishments, but really I’m just a human in the world trying to move through it as carefully as possible, helping as many people as I can and harming as few as possible. I am a devoted partner, Mets fan, and pet parent, I make a mean burger and I have two felonies. You get to decide what’s important, I already know.

Mentioned in the show/resources

REfire Culinary - http://refireculinary.org/

Florida Rights Restoration Coalition - https://floridarrc.com/

Community advocate Talethia Edwards joins us on Your Life after to talk with me about her childhood, community activism, building her parenting toolbox to battler her ghosts in the nursery, and how parenting her children is healing her and helping her in turn heal her community.

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Talethia Edwards is a wife, mother, community, and family advocate. Her work finds her strategizing ways to empower and educate her community in order to change patterns of poverty and low achievement.

Mentioned in the show/resources

Talethia’s website - https://marketingwithopule.wixsite.com/talethiaedwards

TEDx Tallahassee talk - https://www.ted.com/talks/talethia_edwards

Just Talethia - https://www.youtube.com/just-talethia

The Wondering Wonder Woman podcast - https://soundcloud.com/the-wondering-wonder-woman

The poet Reuben Jackson joins us on Your Life After to talk with me about this juncture where he is focusing on and contextualizing the impact of trauma on his life. Specifically, acknowledging and discussing the work he’s doing to work to live unmasked, no longer hiding or distancing his  "soft" (or softer) sides.

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I was born in Augusta, Georgia, grew up in Washington, DC. Currently working as an Archivist with the University of The District Of Columbia's Felix E. Grant Jazz Archives. Previously hosted Friday Night Jazz on Vermont Public Radio, and as Archivist and Curator with the Smithsonian's Duke Ellington Collection. I'm also a published poet and a full-time nerd.

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Poems from Scattered Clouds -  https://alansquirepublishing.com/book-authors/reuben-jackson/

darlene anita scott was young, active (she was a marathon runner), and seemingly healthy when she was diagnosed with heart failure. By learning to manage her chronic condition, she is learning that the residuals of both the diagnosis and the interventions create a ripple-like effect in her life. We talk about the risks of exceptionalism in intervention or treatments, somatic elegies, art, and expanding the definition of wellness (because the limited view of wellness can often be a trauma itself (and a barrier to accessing it).

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darlene is a poet, visual artist, and wellness advocate. As the so-called "quiet" girl a lot of her creative work explores the violence of silence and black girlhood. Her poetry and art has found homes in various literary journals, anthologies, and a few art galleries. Her advocacy has earned her spots on t.v., in print media, and on podiums before clinicians, politicians, influencers, and patients. darlene enjoys humid morning runs, blue nail polish, and homemade popcorn. She lives in Richmond Virginia.

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darlene’s website - DarleneAnitaScott.com

Revisiting the Elegy in the Black Lives Matter Era - RevisitingtheElegy.org

Strategy, directed autonomy, a well-stocked pantry, and a rollicking conversation about an experience in a dungeon are all on tap in my conversation with Christina Springer. Her very intentional life has allowed her to move more seamlessly than most through the COVID-19 crisis while some of us began to examine the very essence of how we live, eat, and educate our children.

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Christina Springer is an Alt.Black artist who uses text, performance, video, and other visual expressions. Cave Canem shaped her voice. Her fourth collection of poetry, The Splooge Factory, was released by Frayed Edge Press in November 2018. Currently working on Rebrand The Past: a collection of paintings, fabric, mixed media objects, videos, textiles, and texts from a museum in our Black utopian womanist future. The first iteration, Futuristic Relics & Motherboards Sacred showed in San Jose, Dayton, and Pittsburgh.

Springer is the Resident Elder for Black Dream Escape, a project of Onika Reigns and her son Windafire which is a therapeutic art practice centering Black and Indigenous rest. (BIPOC always includes Queer.) With them, she will soon open BlackSpace a radical clinic. She has worked in non-profit arts management as the Co-Founder & Managing Director of Sun Crumbs, the Envirolink Network, and as the General Manager of WYEP FM. Springer resides in Pittsburgh where she home-educates her son.

Mentioned in the show/resources

• Christina’s website -  www.christinaspringer.com
• Christina’s Linktr.ee - https://linktr.ee/christinaspringer
• Cave Canem - https://cavecanempoets.org
• Black Dream Escape - www.blackdreamescape.com