Ethical Seduction

This episode tackles the question of what should come first, Sex or Romance? Many people have opinions on how chemistry, or sexual attraction, should fit in with compatibility, but is there a real answer to how you should do this? We think so but it also depends on what exactly you are after and it’s going to differ from person to person. Eva leads our discussion to help you figure out what is best for your in your person situation: Chemistry (sexual attraction) or Compatibility (romantic attraction).

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Everyone wants to please their partners sexually and knowing how to give good head is a must! Blow jobs, cunnilingus, and rimming (yes rimming!) all have some things you need to learn if you are going to do these well to arouse your partner! Plus many people have questions about what is sanitary or what one may be expected to do when giving head. (“Do you spit or swallow?”)

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References:

• Article from The Advocate “24 Tips for Giving Amazing Head” by Alexander Cheves https://www.advocate.com/sexy-beast/2018/7/10/24-tips-giving-amazing-head#media-gallery-media-8
• Article from MindBodyGreen.com: Oral Sex Techniques by Sarah Regan https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/oral-sex-techniques
• Article from Healthline.com called “Everything you need to know about oral sex” https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/oral-sex#if-your-partner-has-a-penis

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We review the book called “The Five Flirting Styles: Use the Science of Flirting to Attract the Love You Really Want” by Author Jeffrey Hall. The author has created labels and a framework for better understanding flirting styles, which is bound to help listeners better understand themselves and those they interact with. However the podcasters also question the accuracy and hetronormitized assumptions presented in the book. While the five flirting styles presented are worth learning, so is the discussion based around the book's findings.

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References:

Book: The Five Flirting Styles: Use the Science of Flirting to Attract the Love You Really Want

Author: Jeffrey A. Hall

Amazon Link: https://www.amazon.com/Five-Flirting-Styles-Science-Attract/dp/037389273X

Article: 5 Flirting Styles: What Type of Flirt are You?

Author: WebMD, Katrina Woznicki

Link: https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/news/20101101/5-flirting-styles-what-type-of-flirt-are-you

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Those in the sex work business see and learn things about sex, seduction, human nature, and intimacy that many of us outside the adult business are not privy to see. So we asked our friend Ivy Minxxx, who is thriving in the adult industry and does wide variety of “sex work”, to share her thoughts and sexy experience to help us with our own flirting, seduction, relationships, and sex lives.

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Ivy Minxxx Links:

Linktr.ee: https://linktr.ee/ivyminxxx

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ivy.minx/

Discord: https://discord.com/invite/MGnUuCGYsT

Twitter: https://twitter.com/ivyminxxx

Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ivyminxxx2001

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA3f28v2OCpvAZZOuolpSeQ

Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/10253664?sp=2

Only Fans: https://twitter.com/ivyminxxx

Chaturbate: www.Chaturbate.com/ivyminxxx

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Everyone has certain needs and so there is definitely a positive and healthy place for getting our needs met. The flip side can be when someone comes along and asks you to give more of yourself than you really want - which doesn’t feel good at all. So where is the balance and how can we get our own needs met without accidentally dumping too much on those around us? In this episode we will discuss neediness, what’s okay and what is not, but we will also take a deep dive into things you do right now to take some pressure off yourself, to not come across as being needy or clingy, and at the same time become attractive to where people are coming to you!

Beside listening to the show, you can learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com

References: WikiHow: How to stop being Needy: 14 Steps https://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Being-Needy

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Everyone has certain needs and so there is definitely a positive and healthy place for getting our needs met. The flip side can be when someone comes along and asks you to give more of yourself than you really want - which doesn’t feel good at all. So where is the balance and how can we get our own needs met without accidentally dumping too much on those around us? In this episode we will discuss neediness, what’s okay and what is not, but we will also take a deep dive into things you do right now to take some pressure off yourself, to not come across as being needy or clingy, and at the same time become attractive to where people are coming to you!

Beside listening to the show, you can learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com

References: WikiHow: How to stop being Needy: 14 Steps https://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Being-Needy

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We explore some best practices for Masturbation and Self Love. We talk about the health benefits, ways to become more comfortable with masturbating, and we suggest new things for you to try! Set time aside, experiment with touch and sensation, practice new techniques and try one of the toys we suggest. Fantasize, edge, tease, and get yourself off! Masturbation is good for your body, your mind, your health, and it feels great too!

Beside listening to the show, you can learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com

References: Lindsay Tigar’s article in Ask Men titled “How Women Feel About Male Masturbation” https://www.askmen.com/dating/vanessa_60/89_love_secrets.html

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When is the right time to tell someone that you love them? Some people say it early on and it feels easy for them to say. Others, like Brandie and Steven, hold on to it for dear life because they don’t want to say it until they are really, really, really sure! Also, how do you respond when someone says it to you before you may be ready? Of all the bombs to drop on someone, saying “I love you” can be one of the biggest. Luckily Brandie, Eva, and Kimberly have all the answers.

Beside listening to the show, you can learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com

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Not everyone likes walking up and directly approaching someone who they are interested in. Many of us prefer a more subtle and potentially safer “indirect” approach to flirting. One where we don’t come across as potentially pushy, but that feels more natural, comfortable, and flows easily. Indirect flirting methods can be easy to start and let you both find out if this is something you want to pursue further.

Beside listening to the show, you can learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com

References: Psychology Today article by Jen Mlk https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/valley-girl-brain/201203/how-flirt-without-it-seeming-youre-flirting

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Why do some people act super affectionate at first and then suddenly ghost on us? Why do we develop a crush on someone only to later find it evaporates overnight? Sexual and romantic desire is rather fickle and always changing, but we can learn to go with the flow in a way that both protects ourselves and is kind to others.

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