DTR- Define The Relationship

Apology Accepted: Pushing Past the Acknowledgement of Harm

Have you ever been close with someone, and an argument, event, or misunderstanding brought you farther apart than you could ever imagine? I have found myself there a time or two. I often dismiss apologies, as I think people do harm and mean it. I also try to be intentional, hoping never to cause harm or need to apologize. However, I am more self-aware that sometimes my actions harm people; sometimes their actions harm me. When harm is caused, an apology is warranted. Join me in this episode as I discuss being on either side of an apology. 

Shifting Seasons

Shifting is defined as movement from one place to the other. Or as a slight change in position, direction, or tendency. I have experienced all of the above in my "Shifting Season". In this time I have learned that in some areas of my life I was doing too much and needed to sit still, in other areas I was sitting in burning houses too long. Doing things that no longer fulfilled me. I needed to shift. Is this you? Join me as I open Season 2 by discussing knowing when to shift. 

Candid Conversation: When I knew I needed to go to Therapy

I have sprinkled in gems about going to therapy here and there; however, in this episode, I get candid about discussing the moment I knew I needed to go to see a therapist. If you are someone that has never started therapy, gave it a shot, and didn't see it through, or are still on your healing journey this episode is for you.

Where to find a therapist: 

https://providers.therapyforblackgirls.com/ 

https://therapyforblackmen.org/ 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists 

Are you Satisfied, or Still Soul Searching?

For most of us, it's been a year, well, really almost two years of adjusting, readjusting, and trying to stay afloat. If you have found that you feel burned-out, unfulfilled in this season or that your soul is searching for more, this episode is for you. Join me as I discuss feeling unfilled and how I plan to add something new to my plate to fulfill my soul and palate. 

DTR- Define The Relationship

It's cuffing season. Will you make it to the championships, or do you need to go ahead right now and DTR? Define the relationship. Let's talk about the awkward stage that happens when you are more than casually dating someone, but you aren't in a committed relationship. It's called a situation-ship! When you're dating, there is no consistency, no support, no celebrated milestones, but you are being intimate and hanging on to hope. If you have been there before, this episode is for you.

Article: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a27478820/situationship/ 

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