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Out of the head and into the body

20m · Stop Drinking and Start Living · 19 Jul 07:00

The wait of alcohol lives in your head, natural sobriety lives in your body...it's your birth-rite. In this episode, I delve into the journey of natural sobriety and the profound impact of reconnecting with our bodies. I discuss how alcohol acts as a dissociative, pulling us away from our body's natural cues and sensations. By embracing natural sobriety, we can uncover the innate wisdom our bodies hold, guiding us towards what truly serves us. I share a personal experience of attuning to my dog's energy, grounding both of us, and experiencing a profound release of neuroses. Through this journey, I invite listeners to explore their body's wisdom, tap into their intuition, and make decisions aligned with their naturally sober selves.

Being in the body out of the head. (2:53)


How to overcome habits and learn behavior. (4:21)


Intentionally softening your heart. (6:38)


How to listen to your body’s messages. (9:08)


What does it feel like in your body? (14:18)


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