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Episode 27: When to Parentectomy

1h 2m · Tell Me About Your Mother · 11 Oct 22:00

Evan, Meliisa, and Eli explore the a case that Melissa is processing.

  • A great resource from Dr. Nicole LePera helps us get started
  • Parentified child case study
  • How are crises adaptive systemically?
  • Reenactment between parent, peers, and therapist
  • Caretaking to avoid self care
  • Emphasizing choice with client archetypes that exhibit signs of learned helplessness
  • "Mom anchors"-- a client's unintentional confession

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