Introducing: A Really Good Cry with Radhi Devlukia

Distorted Self Image: Let Go of Negative Self Talk and Create a Positive Relationship With Your Body

Breathe in positivity, exhale negativity.

Ever caught yourself looking in the mirror and just feeling, well, not great about what you see? We all have those moments, and they can lead to us being super hard on ourselves.

When we see a distorted image of ourselves, especially about our body and how we look, we tend to become self-critical and resort to negative self-talk.

Today, we are going to focus on breaking out of that kind of mindset and focusing on giving ourselves so much love. Let's talk about how to get out of this distorted mindset and focus more on self-appreciation. We start by discovering three things we truly love about ourselves and how to be in a space where societal expectations and opinions no longer hold sway over your authenticity.

There is a profound impact in changing the way we talk to ourselves. Positive self-talk isn't just about words; it's about nurturing inner dialogue that ignites joy and self-compassion.

But it doesn't end with self-love. Compliments are more than words; they're a gift of affirmation that uplifts not just the recipient, but also the giver.

Let's celebrate the magic of being unapologetically ourselves and embrace the beauty we hold within us.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Surprise energy work with a stranger
• 02:20 The 3 things you love about yourself
• 07:50 It’s so freeing to not just care
• 10:57 Change how you talk to yourself
• 12:59 Appreciate your body
• 15:09 Compliment other people
• 18:04 Negative relationship with the concept of being skinny
• 18:42 Take social media breaks
• 20:02 The truth about comparison
• 24:40 The clothes for when I…
• 26:16 You are the soul and not the body

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Tan France: Your Past Doesn't Define You - How To Find Strength to Break Barriers and Be Yourself

Remember the feeling of excitement as a child when you spotted someone who looked like you on TV? That rush of validation and connection is at the heart of why representation matters.

On this week’s episode of A Really Good Cry, I had the pleasure of speaking with Tan France, a prominent fashion designer, television personality, and author. He’s best known for his chic style and groundbreaking role as a fashion expert on the Emmy-winning series, "Queer Eye."

In this episode, Tan delves into how his unique background has shaped his perspective on fashion and identity, and he shares his journey of overcoming cultural barriers to become a voice of change in the fashion industry.

Don't miss this episode with Tan France, as he opens up about his life challenges, cultural influences, and the personal evolution that has shaped him.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:42 From pain to purpose
• 03:38 Moving out of the UK
• 09:56 Finding freedom in love
• 14:15 Relationship between race and self-acceptance
• 20:03 The burden of minority representation
• 24:55 Fame and responsibility
• 28:07 Embracing the duality and maintaining happiness
• 32:56 What determines a real friendship?
• 41:26 Is Tan a member of the Illuminati?
• 44:34 Building confidence and overcoming imposter syndrome
• 51:59 Wanting to walk away from fame
• 58:11 Maintaining positivity online
• 1:01:55 Practicing gratitude
• 1:04:37 Dealing with rudeness
• 1:06:23 Rapid fire questions with Tan
• 1:13:41 What type of crier is Tan France?

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Are You Emotionally Unavailable? How To Control Your Emotions So They Don’t Control You

When was the last time you cried?

For some, crying can be seen as a sign of weakness or vulnerability. Society often teaches us that showing our feelings, especially by crying, should be avoided or suppressed, especially in certain situations or if we want to appear strong.

But it's crucial to understand that crying is a natural and healthy way to release bottled-up emotions and stress. It's a physical response that helps us deal with different situations and emotions. Trying to hold back tears can negatively affect our mental and emotional well-being, possibly making us more stressed, anxious, or even physically unwell.

Today, let's talk about the positive effects of crying and releasing our emotions. Crying is not a sign of weakness, but rather an essential aspect of being human. It provides an avenue for emotional release, stress relief, enhanced mood, mental clarity, and deeper connections with others.

So, the next time you feel like shedding a tear, don't hold back. It's perfectly okay and can be quite beneficial for your overall well-being.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:39 Story behind ‘A Really Good Cry’
• 03:34 Crying and emotional release
• 05:32 Embracing and processing emotions
• 07:54 Emotions are signs from our body
• 10:20 Recognizing and understanding your emotions
• 14:02 Why do we suppress emotions?
• 18:01 Signs and symptoms of trapped emotions
• 22:19 Where do you carry your emotions?
• 24:56 “Learn how to see people in the gray and live in the gray…”
• 29:15 Other types of emotional release
• 34:00 Be equanimous
• 36:36 Different kinds of criers

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Tia Mowry: You’re Unhappy and You Don’t Know it - Learn to Leave the Comfort of Being Unhappy

In a world where everyone keeps telling us who we should be, finding the courage to love ourselves authentically can be a breakthrough.

Today, I had the great opportunity to speak with Tia Mowry, an actress, producer, author, and television personality, best known for her role on the sitcom "Sister, Sister," which she starred in alongside her identical twin sister, Tamera Mowry.

Discover how Tia, known for her vibrant energy and magnetic personality, sets out on a path of self-discovery and healing From the highs of fame to the challenges of personal growth, Tia shares her candid experiences with learning to prioritize self-care, embraces her inner strength, and find joy in the solitude of her own company.

Tia's story is a powerful testament to the importance of self-love in a world that often pushes us toward external validation. Whether it's through meditation, journaling, or simply taking a moment to acknowledge her accomplishments, Tia's journey is a reminder that self-love isn't just about self-care rituals; it's about creating a life where you are the source of your happiness and fulfillment.

So, tune in to be inspired by Tia's journey and learn how to cultivate a deeper sense of self-love in your own life. It's a conversation that promises to uplift, inspire, and empower you to embrace the beauty of being your own best friend.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:58 Learning to choose yourself
• 03:03 Positive affirmations and being present
• 06:12 Finding courage in the unknown
• 10:47 Being comfortable in an unhappy place
• 15:16 Going to therapy
• 20:34 Letting go of your past self
• 24:09 Breaking free from approval
• 30:45 Coming back home to yourself
• 35:09 Nurturing spiritual curiosity in children
• 40:17 Taking responsibility for your life
• 46:18 Building confidence
• 49:53 Overcoming negative self-talk
• 55:37 Going on a solo trip for the first time
• 1:01:50 Being okay with change
• 1:05:17 Tia’s go-to self-care products
• 1:07:57 Dealing with anxiety and anger
• 1:09:10 What type of crier are you?

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Introducing: A Really Good Cry with Radhi Devlukia

A Really Good Cry with Radhi won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. A space to feel it all: laugh, cry and everything in between. As you go through the seasons of life, the emotions, the uncomfortable, the good stuff and even on those days you ‘just don't want to’, these conversations will have something for you. Whether it's vulnerable moments with friends, discussions with experts, or the wisdom, research and experiences that Radhi learns herself and shares with you; this podcast will be the bridge between you and the person you’re becoming.

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