The Critical Voices!

55m · Abundance Living - by Pamela DeVrou Smith · 26 Oct 17:29

The critical voices seem to be everywhere at all times, don't they? I mean, turn on the TV and the show is portraying how the character doesn't measure up, the commercials are letting us know we are not complete because we don't have the item they are selling and don't get me started on the news! We shut off the TV and the social media takes its turn. Then there's the ads within our games and what about family and friends?? Uhg!

Is it all about what's coming at us? Hmmm... If so, we'd all become hermits never to talk or see anyone else ever again! Right? Much of the very deep seeded critical input isn't necessarily coming from outside sources. Our own self-talk can be the biggest culprit and the monster that holds us back!

In today's episode, we face this monster head on and gain some tools to loosen up his grip on our success and our dreams coming true! We are here to fulfill our deep desires given to us by God Himself. If we don't do it, no one else will! Let's dive in as we take a look at what holds us back and how to start stepping out regardless of those voices!

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Suggested reads:

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Perfectionism: Top 11 signs that you are a perfectionist https://personalexcellence.co/blog/perfectionism/

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