Tribe Sober - inspiring an alcohol free life!

Today’s podcast comes with a bit of a health warning.

Moderation is not something we recommend here at Tribe Sober – mainly because so many us were trapped in what I call the moderation swamp.

We tried (and failed) over and over again to moderate our alcohol intake – all because we counldn’t imagine life without out gass of wine!

Personally the whole of my 50’s was spent in that battle to moderate… a battle that I never won and it’s only now I’m well and truly out the other side that I can see the reality which is that once we’ve crossed a line into dependence we can never moderate – we can never go back…

We just need to put all that effort we put into moderation into creating a beautiful alcohol free life – a life we don’t want to escape from..

Having said all that I do know that we have some “sober curious” people listening to this podcast, people who’ve not yet crossed that line into dependence.. so this episode will be of particular interest to them..

But if you were worried about your drinking and you have managed to clock up a period of sobriety then I would urge you to hang in there… it will get better and better and trying to moderate could take you back to Day One again!

So let’s get to my guest who is Pamela Power, who is an author, a television script writer and has published a book called “My Year of Not Getting Shitfaced”..

In this episode:-

• Pamela’s mother was dependent on alcohol
• As a result Pamela become a people pleaser - anxiously watching for her mothers behaviour to change as she drank
• As a teenager Pamela sampled homemade wines on her grandmother's farm in Ireland
• There was occasional drinking during teenage years and university but nothing excessive
• Her drinking Increased as she enjoyed socialising with her friends during weekends and social events
• This period was pre-parenthood so the responsibilities of motherhood put the brakes on her drinking
• In spite of this she found herself drinking more during social gatherings and stressful periods, especially during COVID-19 pandemic
• She recognised that there could be a potential problem even though she certainly didn’t fit the traditional addiction narrative
• Pamela experienced an embarrassing blackout during Mothers Day and decided she needed to take a break and reassess her drinking habits
• Her intention was to experiment with moderation and take periodic breaks as a means of self-awareness and health maintenance
• Pamela acknowledges that she had no idea of the low risk limits or alcohol
• She is not alone in this – many people are unaware of those limits.
• To be clear the World Health Organisation says that to be healthy we shouldn’t drink alcohol at all.
• The evidence is stacking up and it's now proven that alcohol is linked to 7 types of cancer and more than 60 diseases.
• Moderation means drinking no more than a bottle and a half of wine A WEEK.
• Knowing I had to drink within those limits is actually one of the things that helped me to quit. Drinking a small glass of wine in the evening was not going to give me a buzz so I might as well quit!
• We discussed the societal differences in drinking culture, highlighting the sober curious movement and the way the younger generation seems to be falling out of love with alcohol
• The latest stats from UK tell us that a massive 40% of 18-24 year olds don’t drink at all!
• Pamela enjoys fine wines but does recognize their addictive nature.
• We reflected on the challenges of sober socializing and the benefits of leaving social events early.
• We agreed on the importance of finding new sources of entertainment and occupation without alcohol.
• I mentioned my concern about the possibility that her book could tempt people to try (or retry) moderation when they really needed to quit as they were already dependent.
• Pamela explained that she had read a lot of quitlit and could not identify with any of the authors as their stories were too extreme
• So she has written this book recognising that there are different drinking patterns and that her story will resonate with those people who are simply sober curious
• The book is called, "My Year of Not Getting Shit Faced," available online and in bookstores.

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Today’s guest is going to give us a peek into Hollywood and the fascinating world of movies about recovery

Ted Perkins worked in the film industry for 30 years and has a book out called:-

"Addicted in Film, Movies We Love About the Habits We Hate"

I’ve just finished reading it and it’s fascinating – I had no idea there were so many films about recovery!

The book forms the basis of his Recovery Movie Meetup program

In this episode:-

• Ted grew up in a diplomatic family, where cocktail parties were the norm..
• Worked as a movie producer for Universal Studios for 30 years, then pursued independent screenwriting
• The Movie industry (like so many other industries) is “awash in alcohol” as Ted put it
• His drinking was mainly recreational until he began to work independently as a scriptwriter when it became more about managing his anxiety
• His scriptwriting career involved a lot of waiting around for responses regarding scripts he had submitted
• Ted shared his personal struggle with moderation and his attempts to control his drinking
• He talks us through his unique approach to sobriety – rather than 90 meetings in 90 days he watched 100 recovery movies in 100 days!
• In fact I’ve recently interviewed a guy for the podcast who listened to 100 Tribe Sober podcasts in 100 days… and it worked! He’s sober now and I ‘ll be releasing that interview soon
• I’m even thinking of creating a 100 episode playlist to go with it!
• Apart from his movie watching Ted also worked with Smart Recovery
• His recoveryled to him writing his book and developing Recovery Movie Meetups
• His book is called: "Addicted in Film, Movies We Love About the Habits We Hate" – available on Amazon – and on kindle – do check it out, its brilliant
• Recovery Movie Meetups enables communities to host support meetings using addiction-themed movies… and Tribe Sober will be hosting their first Recovery Movie Meetup with Ted on 11th May
• We’ll be watching an addiction themed movie and following it with a discussion – using guided questions
• I asked him for his Favorite Recovery Movie: which is the "Lost Weekend" which came out way back in (1945)
• I asked him to Recommended a Movie: He suggested "Thanks for Sharing" for its portrayal of various addictions and recovery aspects
• We discussed Society's stigma towards alcoholism: that misconception of alcoholics as homeless, contrasting with the majority of people affected who are in fact functional alcoholics
• Of course the danger of seeing the alcoholic as a homeless man in the park is that we look at him and think – I’m not that bad so I can carry on drinking!
• This suits the alcohol industry very well of course.
• AA's branding of the "alcoholic" can be likened to the religious branding of sinners – it’s a way to keep the flock together – to keep them coming to church… or meetings.
• We agreed that we had to take the Initiative in our recovery: we can’t just sit around waiting for life to become perfect – we have to rebuild our life, embrace opportunities and create an alcohol free life that we love
• Recovery is about reclaiming life’s possibilities
• We talked about the Hollywood celebrities who are modelling sobriety and making it cool: Ben Affleck, Bradley Cooper, Anthony Hopkins, Demi Lovato, and plenty of others
• I really loved Teds feedback loop – I’m going to read a quote from the transcript of the interview

Over time it'll work itself out and you'll see, …. all of the things that you thought were not going to be possible will become possible and you'll do things that you never thought possible Then your life in sobriety will then start an automatic feedback loop. Showing you how great life is and will continue to get as you pursue sobriety.

I love that idea of an automatic feedback loop – as the benefits of sobriety start to come in we realise we want to hold on to them….

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Today’s guest is Ken Middleton

If you’re a regular listener then you’ll already know Ken and many of you have read his fabulous book which is called Bamboozled – How Alcohol Makes Fools of us all!"

Kenis an interesting case because he didn’t embark on this journey because he was worried about his alcohol dependence… he did it because he realised that alcohol was preventing him from reaching his potential

As he says “even if alcohol doesn’t destroy you it will prevent you from reaching your potential”

How true!

This is my actually my third podcast episode with Ken – You can listen to the other podcast episodes here and here

In this episode:-

• Ken started his sobriety journey by educating himself on the scientific effects of alcohol. There is such power in knowledge – the more we understand about the damage alcohol does the less we feel like drinking it!
• His drinking career was pretty typical – starting at college where he used it to fit in and socialize. His drinking then intensified during his sales career
• It was when he decided to become an entrepreneur that Ken realized the detrimental impact of alcohol on his productivity.
• He decided to take a 90-day break from drinking with his wife, to his surprise this period of sobriety led to a significant increase in his productivity and income.
• Two weeks into his sobriety, Ken read Annie Grace's "This Naked Mind" which changed his perspective on alcohol.
• This book helped him to recognize the spectrum of alcohol's effects,
• We agreed that society stigmatises the alcoholic to such an extent that we imagine an alcoholic to be a homeless man in the park – this gives us a reason to decide we are not “that bad” so we can carry on drinking!
• This suits the alcohol industry very well of course!
• Inspired by his journey, Ken wrote "Bamboozled" to share his experiences and educate others on the hidden dangers of alcohol.
• One of the things I love about his book is the stories he includes - alcohol parables like "Scott and Mitchell," illustrating how drinking choices in college can impact future success.
• Ken emphasizes the cognitive and emotional impairment caused by alcohol, affecting decision-making, learning, and long-term success – of course its especially harmful for young brains which are still developing
• Ken encourages his readers to consider the long-term effects on their lives and potential.
• He believes in running towards personal growth rather than away from alcohol, recognizing the multitude of benefits gained through sobriety. I love this approach and see our members getting more and more motivated as the benefits of sobriety keep coming!
• Societal views on drinking are changing, with more and more young people abstaining - For example the latest stats from the UK tell us that 39% of 18-24 people just don’t drink
• Another of Kens alcohol parables focuses on Sarah and Susan
• Susan's excessive drinking hinders her career growth, while Sarah's more moderate approach leads to promotion.
• Hollywood's portrayal of alcohol influences societal perceptions and behaviors – Ken has a whole chapter on this and its fascinating If you haven't yet read Bamboozled then you’re missing out – it’s a really great read, you can buy it from Amazon or you can get it directly from Ken on TheBamboozledBook.com Do check out his 90 day challenge that he mentioned – he’s set up a website for that which is called https://www.dry90.com/ - I’ll put the links in the shownotes
• You can also follow Ken on Instagram @kenmmiddleton and of course his regular newsletter is called Alcohol is Not Your Friend.
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My guest Sarah Rusbatch is a Brit living in Oz – she struggled with alcohol dependence for years but finally nailed sobriety and trained as a Sober Coach. She's also written a book called "Beyond Booze" which enables people to build an alcohol free life that we love!

In this episode:-

• Sarah began drinking in her early teens
• It became a way to fit in and make friends at school and at university
• We reflected on the drinking culture in the UK during the 90s, influenced by tv series like Sex and the City and the Ladette culture.
• After moving to Australia and becoming a mother, Sarah felt a bit lost – she struggled to find a new friendship group and turned to alcohol as a coping mechanism.
• Despite not drinking every day, Sarah realized she had a problem with alcohol when it started affecting her physical and mental health.
• She shared a painful experience at a party where she lost her balance and fell over, cutting her face
• A visit to the pharmacy the next day resulted in the shop assistant slipping her the number for a domestic abuse helpline
• This incident prompted her to start a 21-day detox, which she eventually extended by using various tools such as
• Annie Grace's Book: which introduced the novel concept of reconsidering alcohol as something other than wonderful!
• She began to realize the negative impacts of alcohol on anxiety, sleep, weight, and productivity.
• We discussed Workplace performance and how quitting alcohol can lead to a 30% increase in effectiveness, highlighting how alcohol not only damages our physical and mental health but it prevents us from reaching our potential.
• Sarah explained how drinking damages the Pillars of Good Health: Alcohol affects various aspects of health beyond direct consumption, such as sleep, exercise, and nutrition, impacting overall well-being.
• She talked about the Relationship with her Husband: Both were heavy drinkers, enabling each other's habits and avoiding confrontation about their drinking.
• Her husband Initially stopped drinking for three years, then restarted… he eventually decided to quit again due to realizing the negative impact on his life.
• This ties in with one of the great tips Sarah shared with us – go alcohol free for a while, collect the data – then make a comparison with how you feel when you drink… do it as an experiment, be a scientist in your own life!
• Sarahs 3 Benefits of Sobriety: Rediscovery of authentic self, better role modeling for children, and a renewed zest for life which enables her to fulfil her potential.
• Her tips to get your Sobriety started: Have a clear why and do a 30-day experiment, immersing yourself in the resources, and embrace community support.
• Sarah's Book and Community: "Beyond Booze" focuses on building a fulfilling alcohol-free life. Its not about how to quit as much as how to build an alcohol free life that you love
• Find out more about Sarah via her website which is:- www.sarahrusbatch.com
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Mike Waite is working to improve brain health awareness via behavior, nature, and immersive technologies.

He teaches about brain health through his podcast which is called the Brain Shaman

Mike is American but lives in Japan – he has a pretty wild drinking story about how he ended up in Japan so you won’t want to miss this one!

In this episode:-

• Mike shared his mindblowing story of relocating to Japan while under the influence of alcohol!
• Sometimes it can be liberating to close down our rational brain and go where alcohol takes us but as Mike emphasised we are playing Russian Roulette and it can be disastrous
• In fact many people are in prison because alcohol took them to a dark place and they committed a crime in a blackout!
• We discussed the importance of dismantling the limiting beliefs that we hold about alcohol
• We need to educate ourselves about the effects of alcohol on the brain and body, including both short-term and long-term consequences.
• We are both fans of William Porter so if you want to understand the science behind alcohol dependence then his book Alcohol Explained is a great place to start because..
• The more we understand about the damage alcohol can do the less inclined we’ll be to drink it!
• We are “groomed” by the Liquor Industry to want alcohol from a very tender age..
• As an example Mike explained that he used to watch movies like American Pie and The Hangover at the age of 12 or 13 – these movies built a strong belief that he would need lots of alcohol to party and have fun
• Of course the influence of alcohol advertising is even stronger on the teenage brain which is still developing
• Recognising marketing for the BS that it is takes away the power – I shared my tactic for timing how long we get into a movie before the alcohol comes out
• We agreed that envisioning a group of cynical marketing executives rubbing their hands together as their sales increase will help us to recognise the manipulation that is taking place on a continual basis
• We have to use our imagination to redefine associations with alcohol so that when we see it on the shelf we realise its poison
• We have to cultivate self-awareness and mindfulness to recognize and address underlying reasons for using alcohol, such as stress, anxiety, or social pressure.
• We agreed on the value of supportive communities and networks, like Tribe Sober, where individuals can connect, share, and support each other in their journey towards sobriety and improved brain health.
• Mike is experiencing the value of a sober community himself as he goes through our 66 day sober challenge.
• Mike encourages holistic approaches to well-being that prioritize mental and physical health, emphasizing the importance of sleep, nutrition, exercise, and other lifestyle factors in maintaining brain health and overall wellness.
• He took us through some alternative coping strategies and activities for relaxation, stress relief, and socializing that don't involve alcohol and emphasized their benefits
• We have to recognize the social pressure and rebel against it – we need to learn to be a rebel not a sheep – after all its easy to drink – being alcohol free takes confidence and courage!
• We need to remember the power of fading affect bias: we mustn’t forget the dark places our drinking took us to
• Tribe Sober has 2 tools to avoid FAB
• Create a blacklist of negative drinking experiences
• Write a goodbye letter to alcohol, symbolizing the end of the relationship
• When we quit drinking we have to channel our energy into positive activities
• We need to recognize alcohol's role in wasting our time and energy
• We also need to consider long-term health consequences, including nerve damage and neurodegeneration
• We discussed the fact that more and more celebrities are sober these days
• Ironically Bradley Cooper who dazzled the 12 year old Mike with his drunken antics in the Hangover has been sober for 20 years!
• You can follow Mikes podcast which is called Brain Shaman on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.
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Today’s guest is Sober Coach Carolyn Clark who has an inspiring recovery story to share.

Not only is she thriving in her alcohol free life but she’s running sober retreats in Bali!

WE never know whats round the corner when we embark on this journeyWe really have to trust the Universe…ditch the booze, do the work… and the magic will happen

I bet Carolyn never thought she’s be running retreats in Bali when she was drinking every night!

In this episode:-

• Carolyn started drinking as a teenager to cope with childhood trauma - this escalated as she got older
• Her father's alcohol-related death prompted her interest in counselling
• Carolyn experienced some tragic losses in 2016-17 – these led to increased drinking as a coping mechanism – as it got to 6pm she just wanted to numb out the feelings
• She reached a turning point in December 2020 when she looked in the mirror and saw her brothers face looking back at her – this was her brother who had died from alcohol related causes
• So she decided to do Dry January
• She joined a supportive online community, found strength in accountability
• Carolyn hasn't had a drink since December 31, 2020
• Even though she wasn’t even trying she lost a lot of weight by ditching the booze and taking up exercise – I think she said 3 stone which is about 20 kilos or 42 pounds!
• If you’re interested in how alcohol affects your weight you must have a listen to my podcast with James Stanwick which was released on March 9th – that’s already had more than 2,000 downloads so it obviously struck a chord
• Carolyn and I agreed that we gain courage to try new things in sobriety – sobriety is a superpower – we get this feeling that if we can do this.. we can do pretty much anything!
• She decided to train as a sober coach during the second year of sobriety
• Even though she lost her mother in 2021 she remained committed to sobriety
• Her 44 year marriage has also ended recently but these days she manages to Cope with her feelings in a healthy way through journaling, beach walks, and expressing her emotions rather than numbing them away with alcohol
• She also incorporated a yoga practice into her journey of self discovery and body connection
• These days Carolyn leads retreats in Bali… retreats for sober women who want to connect, heal and thrive

You can find out more about Carolyn and her retreats by going to her website which is carolynclarkcoaching.com and she’s also on Instagram as soberhappysixties

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Today’s guest is the wonderful Ann Dowsett Johnston who many of you will have heard of – she is a pioneer of the modern recovery movement and published her book "Drink" back in 2013 – which makes it one of the very first QuitLit books

In this episode:-

• Ann's book Drink has been out for more than a decade and is still selling well – her TED talk has had 1.5m views
• I did a previous interview with Ann a couple of years ago that you can listen to here.
• The prologue to the book describes alcohol's seductive charm…and eventual harm
• I love this analogy and here at Tribe Sober we suggest that our members write a Goodbye letter to alcohol as it evolves from a handsome stranger to an abusive lover
• Ann predicted the dramatic rise in risky drinking for women, which has sadly come true over the last decade
• There is an epidemic of female drinking, especially among younger women, with serious health consequences – we are even seeing young women presenting with liver disease
• The alcohol industry has been targeting women for the last couple of decades – using the tobacco marketing playbook and they’ve been stunningly successful
• Many of us believed that we couldn’t have fun or relax or cope with stress without alcohol – and it certainly takes a few months to deprogram our thinking, to overturn those limiting belief
• Ann is from Canada so had first hand experience of the public backlash that the low drinking guidelines (two drinks a week) caused!
• The reduction in drinking guidelines came as new research was published linking alcohol to cancer and many other health conditions
• Ann and I both love the modern recovery movement and the many different recovery pathways – I often say that if you want to give up drinking you need to find your people – if you think that Tribe Sober might be your community then go to tribesober.com and hit join our tribe
• Ann mentioned the three levers for change: price, marketing reduction, and availability, but government action is slow and Big Alcohol will continue to use its lobbying power
• So as individuals we must actively seek out the knowledge – we need to educate ourselves about the harm that alcohol can do to our brains and our bodies
• Knowledge is power and the more we understand about alcohol the less we’ll feel like drinking it
• Even if we decide to drink it should be an informed decision, we need to understand the risks
• Ann talked about her "Writing Your Recovery" courses which offers support and tools for memoir writing.
• Its a powerful 8-week online memoir-writing course.
• Starts on 24th April and accommodates various timezones – go to her website annsdowsettjohnston.com for more info – I’ll put the links in the shownotes
• Ann will also be facilitating a South African writing retreat during week commencing 15th October – you can get on the waiting list for that by emailing [email protected]
• Ann now has 15 years of sobriety and spoke of the many benefits she has experienced
• She returned to school at 64 to become a psychotherapist, specializing in women's substance issues and trauma
• She has a wonderful relationship with her grandchild
• Ann strongly believes that once we walk away from alcohol remarkable things will happen – the universe has a plan for us – she is awakened to wonder as she puts it
• She’s built a rich and an alcohol free life that she loves, a life she definitely doesn’t want to escape from!
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Immerse yourself in a riveting episode of Tribe Sober as we chronicle the intriguing journey of Niamh, an Irish singer and mother of three in Spain, who valiantly overcame alcoholism and carved out a fulfilling, alcohol-free lifestyle. Learn how she dared to break free from deceiving social norms buried deep under heavy drinking. Gain profound insights on her transformational journey which entailed struggles, resilience, and understanding the real value of adopting a healthier and nutritious alternative to harmful drinking habits.

As her story unfolds, you will witness how she replaced her lethargic, anxiety-ridden persona, marred by insomnia and relentless weight gain, with a motivated and energetic woman thriving in her sobriety. Discover her magical transition as she substituted time spent at the bar with engaging outdoor activities, rekindling her relationships in the process.

Come along and join us in this deep and inspiring narrative emphasizing the strong and understanding community of Tribe Sober that stands as a beacon of support in the daunting journey towards sobriety. Be it you are already sober or simply sober-curious, let Niamh’s story inspire you to adopt and maintain an alcohol-free lifestyle. After all, the best way to predict your future is to create it.

If you’re interested in doing the Sober66 Challenge which starts on March 20th then click on this link.

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In this stirring episode of Tribe Sober, we delve into the powerful stories of those who undertook the Sober 66 Challenge. Host Janet Gourand, founder of Tribe Sober, embarks upon the exploration of the exceptional journey of transformation made by participants of the challenge. This is a tale of recovery and hope that inspires listeners to assess their relationship with alcohol.

We journey through several inspiring stories where Tribe Sober emerged as a beacon of light, helping individuals revolutionize their attitude towards alcohol. Their initial challenge was a Dry January Fundraiser back in 2016, which gradually evolved into a wider initiative tremendously impacting lives.

Laced with candid confessions of past struggles and vivid tales of a life post-challenge, this episode serves as a compelling reminder that altering habits is challenging yet achievable. Meet our guests whose breakthrough to alcohol-free lives are indeed heartwarming!

One such guest is a gentleman who undertook the 66-day sober challenge and extended it to six years of sobriety, significantly altering his social dynamics without impacting his family or friends. The other guest, Christelle, testified to the power of replacing alcoholic drinks with their non-alcoholic counterparts. These inspiring tales highlight the benefits of community, support, and readiness to change on one's journey to sobriety.

Additionally, the episode is filled with encouraging discoveries from our UK chat community, serving as a much-needed ray of hope for individuals early in their sober journey. Immerse yourself into a world where every triumph, no matter how small, is celebrated, much like how we did with Lisa and Hélène. Tune into Tribe Sober and unlock the power of sobriety!

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My guest this week is James Swanwick, an Australian-American investor and entrepreneur He is the creator of the Alcohol Free Lifestyle, which helps people change their relationship with alcohol

In this episode:-

1. James was a moderate drinker, but after 20 years of consistent drinking, he realized the negative effect on his health and stopped for what was supposed to be a 30-day experiment. That was 13 years ago and he’s been alcohol free ever since!
2. Like many of us James hesitated to quit due to societal conditioning – he associated alcohol with socializing and fun and feared being perceived as dull or boring without alcohol. And indeed…
3. There was some Social Awkwardness for a while - navigating social situations without alcohol felt awkward and he shared a story of pretending to drink alcohol when on a date – this strategy proved to be a mistake when his date discovered he had lied!
4. In spite of the tricky start James was soon embracing his alcohol-free lifestyle openly.
5. We discussed the strong influence of peer pressure and the need for a supportive tribe when quitting alcohol.
6. We are both seeing a societal shift as people acknowledge the health risks of drinking alcohol – which is heading for a cigarette moment.
7. Although drinking alcohol before bedtime may help initially with falling asleep but compromises the quality of sleep, leading to irritability, fatigue, and other negative effects on health.
8. Alcohol's Effects on Sleep and Health: Alcohol consumption can compromise sleep quality, metabolism, and overall health. It can disrupt the body's natural processes, leading to weight gain, reduced productivity, and increased cravings for unhealthy foods.
9. James shared some Benefits of his alcohol-free lifestyle which included improved physical health, mental clarity, productivity, and financial success. I
10. I asked him for his advice for anyone who is struggling to get started on this journey: He suggested starting with a commitment to at least 30 days of sobriety as an experiment, but most importantly be open to extending it to 90 days or longer.
11. We agreed on the importance of Avoiding the stop-and-start cycle and focussing on the long-term benefits of sobriety.
12. Overcoming cultural conditioning and resistance may feel challenging, but taking action building an alcohol free lifestyle will lead to transformative results and a better quality of life

You can contact James Swanwick via his website alcoholfreelifestyle.com

He’s also on Instagram and has a podcast called Alcohol Free Lifestyle

If you’re interested in doing an alcohol free Challenge as an experiment then keep an eye open for Tribe Sobers #Sober66 whih starts March 1st and September 1st

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