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“Sis, it’s just not God’s best for you!” Self- actualize and shine

by Synquette Wilks

Learn how to use every situation that comes your way that was meant to break you down as fuel to build yourself back up into a stronger, better version of YOU. Everything happens for a reason, so if it’s a heartbreak, disappointment, some sort of let down, use it as motivation to level up. If you are looking for motivation to push through the pain and move towards your purpose this podcast is for you. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/synquette/support

Copyright: Synquette Wilks

Episodes

When a guy doesn't claim you- Mariahlynn and Rich Dollaz

9m · Published 02 Jun 18:29

What are yall thoughts on Rich Dollaz not claiming Mariahlynn on Marriage boot camp?


I hope she moves on officially after this show


Why Rich Dollaz won't claim Mariahlynn on marriage boot camp hip hop edition new season

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The Honey pot controversy: Did Beatrice Dixon sell her company and no longer black owned?

8m · Published 26 May 18:28

#honeypot #beatricedixon #blackowned


I think that people should extend grace to Beatrice Dixon of the Honey Pot Company and create their own table for people to eat from- why critic someone that's actually creating a space in the market place, she's being a producer instead of a consumer and I appreciate that. 


Check out these links to the books shown in this Video written by me :)


He is not the prize you are!: How to flip the script, regain your power and live life on your terms Kindle Edition: https://www.amazon.com/He-not-prize-you-are-ebook/dp/B093X2DFD5/ref=sr_1_2?keywords=synquette+wilks&qid=1647358069&sr=8-2


The Master Reset: Lessons and Confessions of a part- time Christian Kindle Edition: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07FXX5555/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i1


Articles shown in this video:


https://afrotech.com/did-beatrice-dixon-sell-the-honey-pot-company-co-founder-responds-after-social-media-goes-into-a-frenzy

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Dating red flags that every woman should look out for from the show: I dated "I dated a psycho"

22m · Published 20 May 14:32

Red flags every woman needs to look out for from the show: i dated a psycho

Timestamps below

4:00 “This guy likes me I should go out with him” but you’re so head in the clouds that you haven’t stopped to think do I like him-

7:23 Love bombing- your not that special don’t be open off of trinkets oh & instead of being swept off your feet keep your feet on the ground & ask questions why did his last relationship end

10:40 Stop living in a fantasy world-using phrases like magical, head over hills you are trying to live out a Disney fantasy- I feel like love can take you up but you should still have both feet planted on the ground so you can be out after you see red flags

12:19 Listen to your friends or family members they ain’t always hating- I noticed that it was usually a family member or a friend that didn’t like the guy off the back

14:01 I noticed that these women don’t date often so any nice gesture the man gives them in the beginning is seen as so grand even if it doesn’t happen often act like it does

16:20 Speaking up for yourself is okay and necessary don’t be afraid to say no or think you’ll hurt his feelings if he’s violating a boundary - his needs are getting met but what about hers she needs to study but she’s trying to accommodate him

19:00 I want someone to love something outside of me obsession is not cute like you don’t have a life ?

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My Testimony Part 2: When ignorance was no longer bliss my relationship with Christ began

11m · Published 25 Feb 23:00

This is the continuation of my testimony, how I started reading The Word of God and how it changed my life and transformed my relationship with God!


Follow me on Instagram, Twitter & Youtube @Synquette


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My testimony- When ignorance was no longer bliss my relationship with Christ began

16m · Published 24 Feb 22:08

My testimony:

"I thought just going to church was enough"


This is part 1 of my journey to receiving Christ as Lord over my life!

I hope you enjoy!


Follow me on Instagram @Synquette and on YouTube


Also email me at [email protected]

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3 things I would tell my younger self about dating and relationships-"The 1 that got away"

21m · Published 19 Feb 01:23

Hey ya'll!

So here's the skinny. I would tell my younger self these 3 things.

1. Stop being short sighted-

2. Know God for yourself- 

3. Take your time-

BOUNUS!!!!! 4. Base attraction on core beliefs-

Don't forget to keep in touch with me on social media "@Synquette"

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Red Flags Women need to be aware of from Netflix's Tinder Swindler

5m · Published 09 Feb 20:29

Ladies I know we can relate to being foolishly in love, like or lust, but watching this documentary helped me spot some ways we go wrong when dating and when we decide to live out the fantasy instead of the reality. 


Author and certified Life Coach, Synquette K. Wilks welcomes new opportunities to help women from all walks of life build self-esteem and live life to the fullest regardless of relationship status. Her empathic approach holds space for clients to embrace their strengths, push through roadblocks and learn to love themselves for their inherent value—independent of outside forces, opinions and expectations. Her books The Master Reset: A Girl’s Ultimate Guide to Clearing Off Space from Her Spiritual Hard Drive and He is Not the Prize You Are: How to Flip the Script, Regain Your Power and Live a Life You Love speak Synquette’s unique messages and provide a blueprint for women beginning their own journeys towards greater happiness and self-discovery.

Want to write your book: https://mymentor.life/synquettewilks

Blessed Be- Scripture Meditation: https://coachsynquette.gumroad.com/l/LQwKR

The Lord is- Scripture Meditation: https://coachsynquette.gumroad.com/l/WdDrP

Get Over Him in 10 days or less challenge: https://coachsynquette.gumroad.com/l/OiOse

The Break-Up Bundle: https://coachsynquette.gumroad.com/l/jbNva

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Stop seeking validation from men and look within

7m · Published 02 Feb 09:00

Ladies stop allowing men to rate you. Know your worth and value, you are not cattle so why are you acting like a sheep heading to the slaughter?


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FREE- Blessed Be- Scripture Meditation

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FREE- Get Over Him in 10 days or less challenge

FREE- The Break-Up Bundle

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He is not the prize you are!: How to flip the script, regain your power and live life on your terms

The Master Reset: A girl’s ultimate guide to freeing up space on her spiritual hard drive Learn more here

Author and certified Life Coach, Synquette K. Wilks welcomes new opportunities to help women from all walks of life build self-esteem and live life to the fullest regardless of relationship status. Her empathic approach holds space for clients to embrace their strengths, push through roadblocks and learn to love themselves for their inherent value—independent of outside forces, opinions and expectations. Her books The Master Reset: A Girl’s Ultimate Guide to Clearing Off Space from Her Spiritual Hard Drive and He is Not the Prize You Are: How to Flip the Script, Regain Your Power and Live a Life You Love speak Synquette’s unique messages and provide a blueprint for women beginning their own journeys towards greater happiness and self-discovery.

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Why women experience dating burnout.

9m · Published 26 Jan 07:00

Remember the scripture "There is a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband." (1 Corinthians 7:34) if you are unmarried ACT LIKE IT, remember don't be a wife to a girlfriend. 


Want to write your book? Heal after a break-up, learn how to thrive as a single? Click here

FREE- Blessed Be- Scripture Meditation

FREE- The Lord is- Scripture Meditation

FREE- Get Over Him in 10 days or less challenge

FREE- The Break-Up Bundle

Youtube: (Synquette)

Instagram (@Synquette)

He is not the prize you are!: How to flip the script, regain your power and live life on your terms

The Master Reset: A girl’s ultimate guide to freeing up space on her spiritual hard drive Learn more here

Author and certified Life Coach, Synquette K. Wilks welcomes new opportunities to help women from all walks of life build self-esteem and live life to the fullest regardless of relationship status. Her empathic approach holds space for clients to embrace their strengths, push through roadblocks and learn to love themselves for their inherent value—independent of outside forces, opinions and expectations. Her books The Master Reset: A Girl’s Ultimate Guide to Clearing Off Space from Her Spiritual Hard Drive and He is Not the Prize You Are: How to Flip the Script, Regain Your Power and Live a Life You Love speak Synquette’s unique messages and provide a blueprint for women beginning their own journeys towards greater happiness and self-discovery.

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3 Ways to be happy with yourself

14m · Published 19 Jan 20:00

3 Ways to be happy with yourself as told by Synquette

Forget about all those new year's resolutions, this is the only list you need as we talk ways to be happy with yourself in 2022.

1. Constantly take inventory of yourself- think about the week you had a celebrate your small wins- I know for me I have a door dash problem so instead of me not door dashing just about everyday this week I only door dashed twice this week so kudos to me and I know my bank account is also happy so that’s why I say celebrate your wins big and small, oh another thing, I reached 70k views on my YouTube channel and I’m celebrating that because I know how far I came being shy faced on camera and all that jazz but I felt who I was becoming was worth the feelings of being uncomfortable

2. My number 2 way of being happy with yourself is to constantly do something that challenges you, a part of life is overcoming obstacles and situations, people places and things, even Miley Cyrus had a song called it’s the climb so creating a goal and setting out to achieve that goal is a good thing but actually achieving that goal is even better. You begin to build self reliance in yourself and realizing a strength inside of yourself that you may have not known was there and if you are a Christian it’s in those challenging times you actually develop a deeper relationship with God, when your trying to achieve something or you feel alone you really will learn that God is with you wherever you go and in everything you learn to find Him to be a faithful friend when everybody else be hating, but yes do something that challenges you and over come it, for example  now I know most of us are lazy myself included, I was thinking about a way to create a mask that you can just lay on your face and bam your make up is done, or ways that I can put on some glasses that can magically suck the contacts out your eyes because you are already comfortable in bed- but in order to be happy with yourself you have to do set a goal out for yourself so you can achieve it, and when you do you’ll be so proud of yourself and when your proud of yourself you are happy with yourself, so for example me, this year I want to work on my flexibility I want to be able to do a split and I high kick just in case there’s a zombie apocalypse I’ll be able to defend myself I can do a round house kick to the head, And the LORD said, Behold, the people is one, and they have all one language; and this they begin to do: and now nothing will be restrained from them, which they have imagined to do. Gen 11:6

3. Change your perspective, I often feel that people who aren’t happy with themselves or their life are meditating/ thinking a lot about the things that they feel are wrong with their lives instead of finding things they can be grateful for in the present or even in the past, like the job or jobs you got in the past, God’s grace, my mom had to remind me about this recently , oh and the weight you are now is somebody’s goal weight like when I watch my 600lb life after they get their surgery they are so happy to get down their weight to the weight you maybe today so you have to change your perspective – oh I have a printer and I’m like grateful for that


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“Sis, it’s just not God’s best for you!” Self- actualize and shine has 54 episodes in total of non- explicit content. Total playtime is 24:08:31. The language of the podcast is English. This podcast has been added on November 27th 2022. It might contain more episodes than the ones shown here. It was last updated on March 26th, 2024 22:46.

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