Money Magic Podcast

This podcast episode Dr Miranda Moloto interviews Vangile Makwakwa, the host of the #MoneyMagic Podcast at the launch of Vangile’s book, “What’s your Money Personality? Helping Black Families Manage their Finances” at the Book Circle Capital in Johannesburg, South Africa.

In this podcast, Vangile shares her journey of writing about healing ancestral money trauma, discussing the impact of trauma on financial behavior and the concept of money archetypes.

The conversation explores the interplay between Western individualistic approaches to wealth and African communal traditions, emphasizing the need to integrate modern financial concepts with traditional African practices for balanced wealth creation and healing.

The discussion also delves into the influence of genetics and upbringing on one's archetype, the impact of historical trauma, and the struggles faced by black women in navigating the dual impact of racism and patriarchy.

Practical solutions, legal support in business dealings, and the need for healing and acknowledgment of trauma within families are advocated throughout the conversation. This is another interesting discussion.

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During this episode, you will learn about:

02:15: Welcome to the book launch

03:22: Introduction to Vangile and the book

06:14: Meeting Vangile for the first time

08:03: Why am I not clever enough with money?

13:10: The nervous system and money

16:16: The shadow money acrhetypes

19:51: The role of Fixer

23:21: The RunAway archetype

30:56: The Sweet One archetype

36:26: How to set boundaries as the Sweet One

42:04: Connecting with your bank account

48:47: Black women and trauma

53:48: Audience question about the bringing along of the family on the wealth creation journey

59:29: Audience question: How much of your archetype is a function of how you are born and your genetic makeup versus how you are raised?

01:03:11: Audience question: Can you shed light on how to deal with mistrust in business?

01:08:12: Audience question: Explain your focus on women of color and can you make this work available to everyone?

01:11:57: The Eternal Child Archetype

Additional money resources:

Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount Wealthy Money Mastermind: https://www.wealthy-money.com/mastermind

7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

Next Level You Journal: wealthy-money.com/journal

Let’s connect on Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this video, I read the introduction chapter to my new book, "What's your money personality? Changing the way Black families manage their finances."

I'm beyond excited to share this journey with you all. Your support means the world to me, and I can't wait for you to have my book in your hands.

The book is available nationwide in South Africa at all major bookstores and on all major eBook platforms such as Amazon Kindle. It will be available internationally November 6th.

To get more information on the book and how to purchase it, check out this link: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneypersonality

In this week’s podcast episode, Vangile talks about the importance of creating multiple streams of income and shares her experience of launching an AirBnB to cover legal fees in one of her companies.

She explores the concept of scarcity of attention and emphasizes the need for focus and undivided attention in growing a successful stream of income.

She shares her experiences with creating multiple streams of income in different industries and the challenges she experienced because of limitations of attention and resources that come with managing multiple streams of income.

She also emphasizes the importance of deep work and mastery when building multiple streams of income. She shares her own experience of gradually adding new income streams once they had mastered the initial one.

This is another eye-opening podcast episode.

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During this episode, you will learn about:

00:00: Introduction

03:56: Talking about being in Koh Phangan, Thailand and launching an Airbnb

08:43: Challenges and anxieties of launching the Airbnb

11:45: Re-evaluating multiple streams of income and lessons learned

14:41: Discussing the failure of having multiple companies simultaneously

17:51: The misconception that more is always better and the importance of focus

19:44: Lessons learned from managing multiple streams of income

24:24: Evaluating different potential streams

27:27: Scarcity of attention, decision-making fatigue, and resource allocation

31:03: Maximizing profitability and quality in each income stream

35:25: The importance of mastering one stream of income

39:58: Hiring assistants and expanding the team as the business grows

45:26: Trade-offs and considerations when pursuing multiple streams of income

48:11: Invitation to the Next Level You Mastermind program: wealthy-money.com/mastermind

Notable Quotes

• "Reevaluating multiple streams of income is crucial to ensure their effectiveness and to adapt to changing circumstances."
• "Sometimes less is more... it's so counter-intuitive that actually when I started wealthy money one of the first things I did was I cut back on all my streams of income."
• “Focusing on one stream of income allows for better customer service, improved team management, and the development of a strong company culture”
• "Once I mastered that first stream of income, boy did everything just start to become easier."
• “If you are running five different companies in five different Industries then chances are you cannot give all of those companies your undivided attention and that focus is key in growing a stream of income."

Additional money resources:

Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic

Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount

Wealthy Money Mastermind: https://www.wealthy-money.com/mastermind

7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

Next Level You Journal: wealthy-money.com/joournal

Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this podcast episode, Vangile discusses the concept of being the black sheep in the family and looks at scapegoating within families and its impact on individuals' financial behavior. She explains that scapegoating occurs when family members project their own shortcomings onto one person, blaming them for everything that goes wrong. This can lead to feelings of not being good enough and constantly doubting oneself.

She delves into the complex dynamics of scapegoating within families, highlighting its origins in emotional dysregulation, power struggles, intergenerational trauma, and societal influences. She also explores the link between scapegoating and the "not good enough" wound, emphasizing the need for healing and self-improvement to break free from the cycle of scapegoating.

Vangile shares her personal journey of healing and offers suggestions for coping mechanisms, such as therapy and coaching, to navigate the triggers and challenges that may arise from family interactions. They emphasize the need for self-compassion, self-care, and personal growth to counteract the negative messages received from being scapegoated. 

This is another eye-opening podcast episode.

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During this episode, you will learn about:

00:00: Introduction to the podcast and its purpose

03:25: Explaining scapegoating and its effects on individuals

14:29: The progression of scapegoating and the psychological roots behind it

19:21: The impact of trauma and emotional dysregulation on the scapegoat role

26:43: Examining the broader societal context of scapegoating, including racial dynamics

31:34: The intergenerational cycle of scapegoating within families

37:38: How being scapegoated can affect confidence and finances

44:11: The link between fear of failure and scapegoating

49:29: Healing and the importance of vulnerability and making choices

53:36: The impact of scapegoating on financial behavior

59:04: lack of grit that can result from being scapegoated

01:07:48: The link between scapegoating and the "not good enough" wound

01:10:38: Setting unrealistic expectations and internalizing blame

01:13:23: Dysfunctional communication patterns and parental favoritism

01:18:48: Setting boundaries with family

01:24:14: The importance of getting help and support

01:32:39: Invitation to join the Wealthy Money Mastermind, a group coaching program focused on increasing income at this link: wealthy-money.com/mastermind

Notable Quotes 

• "Perfectionism is just the symptom of an underlying cause, which is the not good enough wound."
• "The majority of the family members do not know how to emotionally regulate; the only way for them to regulate their emotions and to cope with life is by projecting them onto the scapegoat."
• "Making someone else feel small and blaming them for everything may actually be a way that family members that feel out of control and feel powerless start to regain their power and start to regain a sense of control." 
• "When we don't have the tools, we just reach to the behavioral patterns that we know from our past" 
• “You have to be willing to take some kind of risk, especially if you're going to be an entrepreneur.”
• "It's about how can I hold the duality of both the love and the dislike or the indifference in my body as I become more visible and as I step into my power."
• "Set boundaries with your family. Remember, most people tend to treat us, even as adults, the way that they treated us as children."
• "Self-care is doing the uncomfortable inner work so that I don't continue the cycle of scapegoating." 

Additional money resources:

Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 

Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount 

Wealthy Money Mastermind: https://www.wealthy-money.com/mastermind

7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

Next Level You Journal: wealthy-money.com/joournal

Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/ 

 

In this week’s podcast episode, Vangile talks to Whitney Walker, who runs the 'Women Awakening' podcast. 

Whitney is a mental health therapist specializing in addiction, substance abuse, eating disorders, and trauma, she combines spirituality and the Divine feminine to guide individuals towards self-acceptance and wholeness.

Whitney shares her profound perspective, defining herself as a Divine being experiencing life on Earth. Her purpose revolves around love, communication, relationships, and helping others reconnect with the totality of their being. 

The conversation takes an introspective turn, exploring the illusion of wealth and the pursuit of external validations. They highlight the significance of understanding one's true essence and finding fulfillment within, rather than in material gains or recognition.

The podcast delves into the power of tapping into the Divine feminine, emphasizing the impact of giving and the transformative nature of generosity.

 

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During this episode, you will learn about:

00:00   Introduction to the podcast

02:55   Defining oneself as a soul

13:50   Why Whitney always had a healthy relationship with money

19:50   Seeking inner healing and acceptance

28:37   The power of inner work

31:31   Tapping into your divine feminine power

43:00   The transformative power of giving

46:54   Everything comes back to you

51:50   Receiving abundance from the universe and asking for it to stop

55:30   Changing the relationship with receiving

59:25   Contact Whitney

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenwaken/

Women Waken Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/women-waken-spiritual-healing-for-trauma-in-relationships/id1580972247 

Notable Quotes 

• Money is a beautiful thing, it affords us to be and do the things that we want
• We think that if I become a millionaire, maybe I will finally love and accept myself, but it doesn’t happen that way
• The feminine for me is the foundation or the root system of life
• The Divine feminine is the unseen essence of your loving true unconditional self, you can easily call it your source self
• If you want to experience something, be the cause for someone else to experience

Check out Vangile's Interview on the Women Waken Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-169-vangile-makwakwa-how-to-deal-with-money-trauma/id1347262113?i=1000536887874

Additional money resources:

Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 

Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount 

Book a discovery call: https://www.wealthy-money.com/discoverycall 

7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

Next Level You Journal: wealthy-money.com/joournal

Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/ 

In this week’s episode, Vangile engages in a conversation with Soufia Rabha, a skilled traveler from Morocco with expertise in brand marketing, transitioning into content production and digital systems. They first met in Casablanca, Morocco and have since worked together in Wealthy Money.

 

Throughout the episode, they delve into the intricate relationship between childhood experiences and financial behaviors, shedding light on the challenges that arise in asking for and receiving what one truly needs as an adult.

 

Reflecting on their own personal experiences, they share stories of guilt, pressure, and learned behaviors from their upbringing, highlighting how these experiences have influenced their current relationship with money.

 

Furthermore, they explore the impact of these past experiences on their ability to ask for and receive, both in personal and professional contexts. Their individual journeys of healing unveil the significance of self-reflection, self-care, and finding a harmonious balance between self-nourishment and avoiding extremes.

 

This episode explores money mindset and emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, healing, and prioritizing personal needs.

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During this episode, you will learn about:

[00:00] - Introduction to the podcast

[00:02:20] - Introduction of Soufia

[00:06:28] - The impact of traveling on mental health and self-discovery

[00:09:59] - Recent experience of feeling pressure and guilt in receiving

[00:14:39] - Hiding our needs and wants to avoid rejection or confrontation

[00:22:13] - Self-deprivation and overspending as a result of childhood experiences

[00:26:20] - The stress and physical discomfort of asking for things

[00:30:47] – Being careful with shame when dealing with money

[00:35:58.] – Having a significant amount of money in your account for the first time

[00:39:39] – The fear of looking at your bank account

[00:41:13] – Soufia shares about gradually relaxing around checking her bank account

[00:46:00] - The feeling of having to pay others back and how it can impact relationships

[00:51:51] – Learning to trust and relax when it comes to receiving

[00:54:39] – Receiving support and learning not to do everything on your own

[00:59:21] – How does increasing our receiving set point impact our family dynamics

[01:04:48.770] - Speaker 1 shares her Instagram handle and mentions being tagged on Facebook.

[01:05:02] – Contact Soufia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/slashyaa/ and Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Slashya

 

Notable Quotes 

• Money means security, means freedom. Freedom to move and freedom to do the things that I want for myself
• Whenever there is that resistance that, Oh, this is expensive, I try to tune into that voice that tells me, but I can't afford it now
• Abundance doesn't mean that I can squander whatever I have
• When I allowed myself to spend on myself, it then changed my perception of what I felt like I was capable of receiving
• Sometimes I'm not buying just the meal, the expensive meal, or the expensive trip. Sometimes I also find that I'm buying myself access to opportunities

Check out Vangile's Interview on the GeoMaxing Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/geomaxing/episodes/1-Vangile-Makwakwa-GeoMaxing-To-Live-with-intention-e1lgv86 

 

Additional money resources:

Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 

Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount 

Book a discovery call: https://www.wealthy-money.com/discoverycall 

7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

Next Level You Journal: wealthy-money.com/joournal

 

Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/ 

In today’s episode Vangile Makwakwa interviews Kristin Wilson, the founder of Bad Ass Digital Nomads. Kristin helps individuals transition into the world of remote work and global living, and she recently published her book, "Digital Nomads for Dummies," serving as a comprehensive guide for aspiring digital nomads.

 

In this interview Kristin shares her personal journey as a nomad, reflecting on her unexpected role as a teacher and accidental leader within the community. 

 

Kristin defines money as a universally agreed-upon exchange of value, providing invaluable insights into how to make your nomadic dreams a reality without breaking the bank. She shares her expert tips for traveling on a budget, including essential research on the cost of living index and selecting countries with lower expenses. 

 

She also shares how to find affordable destinations through cost of living websites, and learn about budget-friendly transportation options that enable you to explore the world sustainably.

 

Amidst our conversation, Kristin also candidly discusses the challenges she faced while transitioning to a nomadic lifestyle and building an online business to replace her income. 

This is another eye-opening podcast interview.

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During this episode, you will learn about:

00:00:00: Introduction

00:03:11: Introduction to Kristin Wilson

00:06:39: Describe yourself as a soul

00:09:37: - Money as a universally agreed upon exchange of value and energy

00:11:13: The journey to becoming a digital nomad

00:19:59: Making the decision to move to Costa Rica

00:22:49: Money mindset shifts and financial planning to become a nomad

00:29:47: Mindset shifts around money when leaving a job and building a business as a nomad

00:34:31: Relocation services and moving countries

00:43:05: Setting up systems that allow you to travel in your business

00:50:27: Traveling with intention

00:51:06: How to get hold of Kirsten

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TravelingwithKristin

Podcast: Bad Ass Digital Nomads on Apple and Spotify

 

Notable Quotes 

• By living my truth and living my best life, I can inspire other people without forcing it, just showing examples of what's possible and letting whatever resonates with them help them on their journeys
• Humans are multifaceted and we can all have different interests and accomplish different things and seemingly unrelated areas that all fit together
• The most important shift that I made was understanding that I'm capable of generating money
• I just had to realize that I was capable of supporting myself from anywhere. And I didn't need to depend on an employer or someone to give me a salary
• Wealth creation is partly making money, but it's also partly saving money and investing money. And that's something that's a lifelong journey.

 

Check out Vangile's Interviews on Bad Ass Digital Nomads:

1. How to Make More Money Online: https://www.badassdigitalnomads.com/how-to-make-more-money-online-with-the-host-of-the-money-magic-podcast/ 
2. The Expat Lifestyle and Cost of Living in Oaxaca, Mexico: https://www.badassdigitalnomads.com/the-expat-lifestyle-and-cost-of-living-in-oaxaca-mexico/

Additional money resources:

Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 

Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount 

Book a discovery call: https://www.wealthy-money.com/discoverycall 

7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training

 

Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/ 

 

In this week's #MoneyMagic episode, Vangile interviews Amel Derragui, a business and marketing coach, speaker and the founder of Tandem Nomads (tandemnomads.com).

In this podcast Amel talks to us about various aspects of personal and business growth, focusing on themes such as adaptability, mindset shifts around money, the importance of self-awareness, and building businesses aligned with one's lifestyle.

She shares her personal journeys, emphasizing the transformative effects of living in different countries and the lessons she’s learned along the way. She also highlights the importance of embracing sales and marketing as a means of serving others and building relationships, rather than merely selling. 

She also takes us through the importance of self-love, healing past traumas, discovering one's true purpose to make a positive impact in the world and defining your zone of genius. She also emphasizes the need for clarity, consistency, and conversion in marketing strategies, while cautioning against self-shaming and overworking. 

This is yet another incredible episode.

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During this episode, you will learn about:

05:05: Feeling homeless and home full

10:06: Being a nomad was not a choice, it was my destiny

15:08: Moving into an apartment in Paris at 17

18:20: Selling encyclopedias door to door in the USA

23:01: Definition of money

26:52: Money is a multiplier of impact

30:39: What it means to be truly of service

35:32: Feeling stuck in the trauma and integrating it

39:09: How to start your expansion journey

43:56:  Marketing is not about selling, it’s about serving

48:51:  How do you craft a marketing strategy that works for you

57:12: Share three lessons that you've learned about traveling or money, marketing

58:42: Being grateful even in the hard times

01:00:53: How to get hold of Amel

01:03:17: Additional resource for your money journey

Notable Quotes 

• Leaving countries, at the end, is almost as powerful as arriving in a new one because you leave with so much more than what you came with.
• It's interesting how sometimes there's a superpower in us that is guiding our way. I don't know if it's our soul spirit or whatever, but it feels as if I had some invisible hand pushing me through a certain journey.
•  Money is also a multiplier of impact. The more money you make, the more impact you can make in the world.
• Do things, start somewhere, do something. And then the more you do, the more the answers will come to you. Don't think about it. Thinking is not going to get you the answers, but doing will.
• We can be a visionary. We can keep innovating, moving on, but let there be space of being grateful for what we achieved already.

If this podcast resonated with you, check out these resources:

• Check out the episode I did on the Tandem Nomads Podcast: https://tandemnomads.com/podcast/tn284-redefining-your-relationship-with-money-and-your-money-trauma-with-vanjile-makwakwa/
• Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 
• Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount 
• Book a discovery call: https://www.wealthy-money.com/discoverycall 
• 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training 

 

Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/ 

In this week's #MoneyMagic episode, I share my personal experience of overcoming public shaming, reclaiming my power, and healing my not-good-enough wound.

Back in 2022, I found myself in the midst of public shaming. It was a tough time as embassies worldwide were contacted with false allegations of me being a tourism fraud, and financial services boards were sent letters tarnishing my reputation as a scam. The impact on my mental health and business was far more significant than I anticipated.

The aftermath led to months of legal battles, protection orders, and I am still waiting for the court's decision. As if that wasn't enough, I also had to navigate (still am navigating) the complexities of dealing with developers who reneged on their financing contracts in the Property Magicians Stokvel. It has been a challenging time that brought forth self-doubt, feelings of inadequacy, shame and a desire to hide and be invisible.

In the process I found immense support and love from family, friends, and even strangers, which shattered my beliefs about being alone and unloved and led me to truly understanding what it means to trust the process.

In this podcast episode, I delve into the journey of finding solace, seeking support during times of crisis, and prioritizing self-care. I share the practices that helped me regain my balance, including yoga, breathwork, EFT tapping and the #MoneyMagic meditations. 

I also share valuable insights on expansion, visibility, and revisiting the basics of the Bank Account Challenge. Despite the chaos, I managed to continue growing Wealthy Money, secure a publishing deal for my upcoming book (launching in October 2023), acquire two pieces of land, get gifted a Birkin bag, launch an Airbnb business, and initiate the rezoning of one of my properties in Cape Town to develop eight units.

Join me in this episode of the #MoneyMagic podcast as I talk about transforming poison into medicine.

 

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During this episode, you will learn about:

00:00:  Introduction

05:37: The public shaming incident and the effects on my life

11:37: Feeling unsafe and the belief that others have power over you

21:52: The experience of shame and the importance of working with triggers

27:31: The not good enough wound and the impact on my business

34:39: The need to regulate the nervous system during challenging times

37:54: Overcoming the vow of invisibility and showing up in my business

44:52: The breakthroughs I experienced during this period

47:14: The upcoming release of my book and the support I received

54:40: My experience with the bank account challenge and its impact on my finances

01:03:38: The material breakthroughs I experienced, such as receiving gifts and purchasing land

01:11:34: Trusting the process

01:16:13: Coaching offer for anyone that feels like doing one on one coaching

 

Notable Quotes 

• I've come to the conclusion that no human being actually has a substantial amount of power over another human being 
• there is a part of us no matter what happens that we can just go in there and find something that can be taken away by another person
• I literally looked at a part of myself like I said and was just like there's no way I could live through this and then making the decision that I'm going to live through this anyway 
• We will never ever be able to control another person that is a fact, but what we can do is look after ourselves when things are going bad 
• Expansion is being able to hold both the good and the bad, the upside and downside of expansion
• One of the biggest breakthroughs was I learned that it doesn't matter what is happening the work works
• The big breakthrough is that all my fears were unfounded I've lived my whole life being so scared of being visible being so scared of being publicly criticized because I thought at the end of the day I would lose love and I would be actually alone and I would have absolutely no one by my side and the major breakthrough for me has been I've lived through my worst fears and I was never alone physically and even emotionally I was fully supported

 

If this podcast resonated with you, check out these resources:

Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 

Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount 

Book a discovery call: https://www.wealthy-money.com/discoverycall 

7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training 

 

Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/ 

Often, as women, our roles start to shift as we expand, and we find ourselves mothering our mothers in very subtle ways. In our expansion, we tend to take on the role of a mother to our mothers. Sometimes, it’s not that we want it to happen, but we automatically find ourselves doing it, especially when we have the finances and the means. 

Mothering our mothers, siblings, and children leaves our inner child unnurtured, which can build up resentments. Your inner child becomes angry, and to get your attention, your inner child stops your expansion. You self-sabotage not because you don’t want to grow but because when you’re not expanding, you can genuinely say not to mothering your mother (and any added pressure) to create more time for mothering yourself and your children.

So how do we stop ourselves from self sabotage as we expand?

Join the conversation with me, your host, Vangile Makwakwa, as I share more about mothering our mothers, how it ties into vows of loyalty and how it leads to self-sabotage. Let’s talk about how to deal with the pressures and expectations that come with expansion so we can thrive.   

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During this episode, you will learn about:

[00:01] Introduction to the show 

[04:00] Today’s topic; The link between self-sabotage and mother wounds

[05:30] Vangile’s mom's behavior and how it triggers her 

[08:01] Shifts in relationships and roles that come with expansion

[10:21] Mothering our mothers and how it happens subtly

[11:04] Generational triggers of mothering our mothers and how it ties to black tax 

[12:31] Resentment that arises from mothering our mothers 

[16:01] How and why we often self-sabotage as we expand and grow 

[18:05] Breaking the vow of royalty and the guilt around mother wounds

[19:56] How to deal with the desire to mother your mother and expansion self-sabotage   

[20:54] The Vow of rebellion and loyalty and how they play out  in mother wounds 

[24:07] Ending the show and call to actions

Notable Quotes 

• More often, as black women, our relationships and roles start to shift as we expand, and we often find ourselves mothering our mothers.
• Most of us are walking around with an unmothered inner child.
• Your inner child self-sabotages in order to get your attention.
• As you expand, the mother wound can get bigger and become more triggering.
• You need to break your vows of loyalty to your mother, so you can stop emulating her behavior. 

Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa

Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wealthymoney1