The Elevated Man

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

How To Ask A Woman Out And Become Rejection Proof! (5 Lines Included Every Man MUST Try)

Do you ever fear to ask a woman out on the spot without trying to sound like a creep?

Or when you do, you always get rejected?

So you are stuck there thinking, how do you even approach or talk to a woman without her constantly rejecting you? How do you stop this? If you want to know who to talk a woman and turn those "no" into "yes" in dating, then you are in for a special treat; in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti shares expert advice on how to ask a woman out and become rejection-proof, including five essential strategies every man should try.

Apollonia knows the fear that many men face when trying to ask a woman out. She knows men don't want to be seen as creepy or disrespectful when asking a woman out.

However, Apollonia’s practical guidance on how men can approach women respectfully will help men get the woman they want and stop getting rejected. Her insights can shift your perspective on rejection and improve your dating experiences.

So, if you're struggling to ask a woman out, keep getting rejected, and want to know how to attract the women you wish, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:51 - How to start asking a woman out and become rejection-proof!
• 1:05 - What is rejection when dating?It doesn't mean you’re a failure when she doesn’t give you her number, but the fact you approach her and have the courage to talk to her is a stepping stone towards success with women.
• 2:32 - Dont let rejection stop you from dating. Many men stop trying to ask a woman out simply because of fear of rejection, but this is important to note: not all women will say yes to you, so don't let this stop you from trying to find that high-quality woman.
• 3:20 - Changing the landscape. Dating apps and social media are places where men don’t have to approach a woman in public to get her number. This is key because when you approach a woman in public, she will remember you. After all, it is not often done.
• 4:23 - Approaching in different settings. Apollonia will give you two examples: one is talking to a woman online, and the other is approaching her in person.
• 5:16 - Here’s a dating secret: a woman loves a sincere personality. When you’re talking to a woman, talk about your plans, what you did that day, something funny happened to you? Bring that up!
• 6:18 - Apollonia gives examples of what not to say to a woman.
• 6:56 - Mastering the art of asking a woman out is body language. Does she have an open posture? Or a close one? Apollonia will give examples of what to watch for in her body language.
• 8:48 - Remember success isn’t about the outcome but is the courage to take those first steps. Keep going when asking a woman out, learn from your mistakes, and try again.

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me support people like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change many men's lives!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Sign up for the 7-DayFree Trial Apollonia's VIP Membership!

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram;https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook;https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

6 Things A Woman Should Bring To The Table In 2024!

It’s a new year in 2024. Do you want to find a high-quality woman finally?

If you’re left thinking, what makes a high-quality woman? Then you are in for a special treat; in today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will discuss six essential qualities women should have in 2024.

Apollonia has worked with countless men who have trouble dating women. And sees that most of the time, men have trouble differentiating unavailable and emotionally available women.

Apollonia will explore what to anticipate from a high-quality woman, strategies for maintaining a healthy relationship with her, and how to recognize signs of dating an emotionally unavailable woman.

So, if you’re struggling to find a high-quality woman, learn how to start looking for one and attract women who want long-term relationships. This podcast episode is for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:57 - 6 Things A Woman Should Bring To The Table In 2024.
• 1:31 - Always look for an emotionally available woman. One of the critical factors is vulnerability; when a woman can be emotionally available to you, it’s a sign that she wants a long-term relationship.
• 2:39 - A high-value woman knows who to support you through an emotional time. She knows when and how to help you through your emotional struggles.
• 3:15 - Unspoken agreement of loyalty. This is critical; each person needs to trust and respect each other.
• 4:54 - No snarky comments. Of course, when a woman is frustrated with her partner, she will make some comments here and there. But not constant. Is she really emotionally available if she’s always talking to other people about you?
• 5:55 - Without communication, there is no relationship. Communication is complex, and expressing your thoughts and feelings is sometimes difficult. Apollonia will give you essential tips on overcoming a lack of communication.
• 7:54 - Apollonia will give you critical examples of how to communicate with a woman in a relationship properly. And how she should speak back to you.
• 8:12 - Intimacy and connection. For a relationship to be healthy, you need to have that emotional and physical connection; both are important, but the emotional side can not be taken for granted.
• 9:40 - Trust. Trust is everything when dating a high-quality woman; it is slow to build trust but quickly to fall if she sees any potential distrust in the relationship.
• 10:25 - Be careful when a woman wants to make you HER center of the universe. She should be working toward something or goals she wants, a sense of purpose. It doesn’t mean she needs to be career-driven, but something she is actively working towards. In the end, what you don't want is for her to be overly dependent on you.

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me support people just like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Sign up for the 7-DayFree Trial Apollonia's VIP Membership!

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram;https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook;https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

How To Charm A High-Quality Woman! W/ Apollonia Ponti & Husband Alex Cormont

Do you sometimes find it challenging to find that one high-valued woman?

Do you have trouble maintaining the balance of your own life while dating a woman?

If attracting or keeping a valued woman sounds more of a challenge, then this is the podcast episode for you!

In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti is joined by her husband, Coach Alex Cormont. Together, they discuss the key factors that have contributed to their successful marriage of eight years!

Alex Cormont, a renowned love coach and author with numerous publications on love and personal development, has helped over a thousand individuals navigate difficult periods, including overcoming infidelity, boosting self-confidence, and attracting desired partners. Still, most of all, it specializes in strategies for rekindling past relationships.

Under Coach Cormont's and Apollonia's expert advice, they will delve into how they manage their relationship in the public eye of social media and balance their respective careers while providing mutual support. They explore topics such as attracting high-quality partners, maintaining a disciplined mindset, and embracing the value of a partner.

These two renowned love coaches will tell you how to maintain a disciplined mindset in their marriage while implementing those in their love life; if you're struggling with keeping the spark in your marriage and maintaining a relationship while maintaining a career, this podcast episode is for you!

Key points in this special episode:

• 3:20 - How did Apollonia and Alex meet?
• 4:37 - Alex talks about why their meeting context was important. Alex, not knowing English very well when he first met Apollonia, explains why it's essential to push through the uncertainties regarding dating.
• 6:00 - Apollonia talks about how she uses Alex's dating techniques to help inspire her to take these techniques to her guidance when coaching men.
• 8:04 - Alex dives deep into his past, his relationship with codependency, and how it impacted his dating life.
• 9:13 - What is a high-value woman? Alex explains his view on a highly valued woman, describing how setting boundaries and having a mature view can help you see if she is a highly valued woman.
• 10:19 - What can you bring to her life? When dating a highly valued woman, it's essential to ask yourself what you can get for her to help her level up, Alex Cormorts explains further.
• 11:26 - To charm a highly valued woman to be involved in your life. Apollonia explains the importance of showing her your activities and interests in your life, creating and establishing that bond.
• 12:45 - Setting your boundaries. Apollonia talks about setting limits in the relationship, remembering how Alex set his boundaries when they were dating, and setting a healthy challenge to know if she was genuinely interested.
• 14:16 - Alex explains how his ambitions and goals in life help is codenpency.
• 16:58 - Alex explains his experience dating in the US. He describes how he saw codes or rules you can or can't do when starting to date.
• 17:34 - Taking her to have coffee on the first date as a deal breaker? Apollonia and Alex explain in detail the importance of first impressions on the first date.
• 20:55 - How much of a role does social media play in relationships?

Get moreCoach Alex Cormont on:

Website; https://www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Sign up for the 7-DayFree Trial Apollonia's VIP Membership!

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram;https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook;https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

How To Create Sexual Tension With The Women! (3 Lines That You MUST Try!)

Do you want to create that sexual tension with her?

Do you feel like sometimes you try to but fail at it?

So, Suppose you want to become a pro at fostering excitement and intimacy with your partner. In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti shares invaluable insights on cultivating sexual tension with women. Discover three essential techniques that are a must-try for anyone aiming to master the art of creating a captivating connection.

Apollonia has seen patterns within her clients to spot the one mistake they often make.

Delving into polarity, Apollonia explores the dynamics between feminine and masculine energies. Feminine energies embody gentleness and nurturing, while masculine energies encompass leadership and assertiveness. Learning to channel these energies effectively at opportune moments creates a sense of security for women.

Apollonia emphasizes the significance of emotional attraction in the pursuit of sexual tension.Apollonia highlights the role of mystery in generating emotional attraction, prompting the woman to contemplate and desire your presence instantly.

So, if you're struggling with how to create that sexual tension, tap into your feminine and masculine energies at the right moment, and make her attractive to you, then this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:32 - Do you want to become a pro and create that exciting sexual tension between you and your woman?
• 1:05 -To create that sexual tension, you need to have that spark. Unfortunately, Apollonia has seen many men get friendzoned because of the lack of spark.
• 1:24 - To create that sexual tension is to create an environment where she feels safe. Women often feel skeptical about their surroundings and need that emotional reassurance of handling safely for them to be themselves.
• 2:00 -Apollonia talks about polarity. She talks about the feminine and masculine energies. Feminine energies are areas where you're gentle and nurturing, while masculine energies are leadership and assertiveness. Channeling the energies at the right time can make her feel safe.
• 3:00 -Rational and emotional attractions. You can not create that sexual tension without emotional attraction; rational attraction is looks or how much money you have. Emotional attraction is desire; mystery makes that, and she will instantly start thinking about you.
• 4:01 - Apollonia provides examples of what to say to her if you want to attract her emotionally. The Goal here is to be playful about it, banter playfully, and keep that tone light.
• 4:27 - Be a tease. Ideally, in person, if you two have established that emotional or little sexual tension, you can start touching her hand or her shoulder to know that you are interested.
• 5:09 - One easy way to keep her on her toes is nicknames. Is she picky about food? Call her Gordon Ramsay! The key here is to keep it light and not offend her. Dont use it constantly.
• 6:39 - Be playfully disagree with her. It's playful banters like a dog vs cat person or food; it's all about getting to know each other more. And able to flirt at the same time. It is creating that fun memory.
• 8:00 - Within that playful banter, throw in body language. When you two are laughing and being comfortable around each other, please give her a smirk, touch her hand and shoulder, and don't go overboard, but show the intent of what you want.

tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram;https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook;https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

Do Women Prefer Dominate Men? Assertive Men vs. Controlling Men (6 Dominate Traits She Finds HOT!)

Do you know if you're an Assertive or Controlling man?

Do you wonder if there is any difference?

If you ever thought that if an woman wants a more assertive or controlling man, you are in for a special treat. In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into women's preferences regarding assertive and controlling men. The discussion focuses on six dominant traits that women find appealing, differentiating between assertive and controlling behaviors.

Apollonia has seen the behaviors of Assertive and Controlling men. And she sees how women are attracted to assertive men.

But what is an assertive man? Assertive men emphasize the importance of direct yet sensitive communication with their partner. The Assertive man establishes clear boundaries, which he adheres to while respecting those of others.

Conversely, the controlling man resorts to manipulative tactics, such as guilt-tripping, to fulfill his desires. This dynamic creates an unhealthy scenario where the partner feels the need to constantly please the controlling individual, often at the expense of neglecting their own needs and desires.

If you want to learn the difference and become a man who can attract high-quality women, this podcast episode is for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:00 - High-value women love assertive men, not controlling ones. Apollonia will explain the difference between being assertive and controlling behaviors in the relationship.
• 1:26 - The way an assertive man communicates is direct and yet sensitive. At the core of his assertiveness are boundaries that he had set up, and he respects other people's boundaries.
• 2:23 - Decision-making isn't only for him to make but collaborating with everyone involved. An assertive man communicates his thoughts and feelings while embracing his partners.
• 3:25 - An Assertive Man respects his partner's independence. He helps her or creates that space of autonomy, gives a sense of security in the relationship, and offers support when his partner needs reassurance.
• 4:04 - In contrast to Assertive Man, a Controlling Man looks at relationships to exhibit his power and authority. He goes his way or no way.
• 5:01 - A Controlling Man will manipulate situations. Not only does it erode trust and understanding in the relationship, but it will create an unhealthy dynamic.
• 6:15 - Emotional manipulation is joint in controlling men. He does it through guilt-tripping to get the things he wants. This creates situations where his partner constantly tries to please him and disregards her needs and wants. This is toxic.
• 7:14 -There's always a vast difference between awareness and controlling behaviors. An assertive man is what women want and are attracted to.
• 7:45 - Apollonia explains why an Assertive man is highly sought after in dating.
• 9:36 - healthy relationships need to have nurture and assertiveness. They need to balance supporting each other while setting boundaries most healthily.

tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram;https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook;https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

Why You Become TOO NICE When You Like A Woman! (Then Get REJECTED)

Are you frustrated when a woman rejects you and you're just being nice?

Do you feel like she's drifting away, confusing you because you do everything to make her happy?

If you don't understand why she's not interested when you're just being nice to her, it might be because you might have the Nice Guy syndrome. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into 'Nice Guys' and how men give excessive niceness when expressing romantic interest in a woman, ultimately leading to rejection.

Apollonia knows how contradicting it is when a woman rejects you because you're too nice. Should I be nice to her? What does she want? Apollonia explores the underlying reasons nice guys may find themselves at a disadvantage in relationships and offers valuable insights into striking a balance between kindness and assertiveness when pursuing romantic connections.

She emphasizes the significance of understanding the concept of polarity in relationships, highlighting the crucial interplay between masculine and feminine energies and offering what you should do as a man if you want her to start attracting you.

So, if you're having trouble attracting her to you, how do you stop being the 'Nice Guy' and start dating the woman you want to be with. Then, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:31 - Why do nice guys finish last?
• 1:32 -Being too nice might be the problem. Of course, a woman wants to date a nice guy, but if you keep treating her like one of her girlfriends, it will throw her off.
• 2:15 - Apollonia will start to explain tips and tricks on balancing being a nice guy and leading with intention when trying to seduce her.
• 2:40 - Usually, nice guys finish last because they have the wrong attraction ideas. They dont embrace that masculine energy, not taking leadership when it comes to dating.
• 3:25 -The concept of polarity is important to every relationship. The balance of masculine and feminine energy is essential in the relationship. It's now about dressing 'feminine' or doing 'masculine' activities. It's about the traits.
• 4:10 -When embracing too much of your feminine energy, you signal that you want to be her friend rather than a potential partner. This is how guys get friend-zoned.
• 4:33 -It might be because you lack self-confidence in your ability to attract women. You keep her around because the idea of being her friend is better than losing her. You can't expect someone to fall in love with you when you're not being yourself.
• 5:43 -There should be a balance. Are you a people pleaser? Do you allow people to treat you wrongly? Remember, don't settle for less.
• 6:30 -Dont date someone because you're lonely. They have some self-worth when dating someone, usually nice guys, who always want to be nice to the woman they're dating because they feel they need extra work to like him. That is not all true.
• 7:11 -The right woman will be attracted to your self-worth. When she sees you have a healthy relationship with yourself, she sees you can maintain that healthiness in other relationships.
• 7:51 -Nice guys fear of setting boundaries. It's not bad. It's about giving yourself choices and setting boundaries will help you attract the woman you want to date. And you are not attracting emotionally unavailable women.

tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram;https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook;https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

The Power Of Polarity To Attract Women (Create "Seduction Loops" To Attract Her)

What is the Power of Polarity?

Have you ever heard of masculine and feminine energies?

If you heard of the concept of attraction in poetry or heard of feminine and masculine energies but are unsure what it means. Then you're in for a special treat; in today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti explains the influential dynamics of polarity in attraction, specifically focusing on creating "seduction loops" designed to captivate women.

Apollonia has worked with many clients and has seen that men have trouble balancing their masculine and feminine energies in their relationships.

However, Apollonia will delve into the nuanced concept of polarity, emphasizing the necessity of maintaining a delicate equilibrium between masculine and feminine energies within the context of a relationship. This will help you gain insights into attracting a feminine partner while preserving the essential balance of these energies within yourself.

So, suppose you're unsure about understanding the power of polarity, balancing out your masculine and feminine energy, and how to start embracing your masculine energy correctly. In that case, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:48 - What is the attraction of polarity? In other words, this effect of a masculine and feminine balance in the relationships is what you lack is what you attract.
• 1:04 -Have you noticed that you never dated someone who was just like you?
• 1:32 - Many men mistake feminine and masculine energies, reading as more girly or manly. This isn't the case.
• 2:09 - Apollonia gives an example of feminine and masculine energies in the relationship. If you both have masculine energies or too much feminine energies, it will not balance out, and the relationship will fall apart.
• 2:52 -The key to a long-term relationship is balancing or sitting between masculine and feminine energies. Apollonia will begin to explain this concept in more detail.
• 3:16 -What is a masculine energy? It is all about creating the push-and-pull effect between you and your woman, which means taking the lead, being confident and assertive, and knowing what you want.
• 3:56 -Remember, if there is the same level of masculine energy within the relationship, it will not work out. This is why many men get friend-zoned.
• 4:21 -You do need to have a feminine energy. It's all about communication, talking about your feelings, and expressing your needs and wants.
• 4:38 -Feminine energy is all about nurturing. It's about caring, being cared for, open communication, and being emotionally stable.
• 5:17 -Apollonia always tells her clients about men being 70% masculine while 20% feminine. You need that leadership role and a nurturing side to help her feel secure and safe in the relationship.
• 5:55 - In the attraction and seduction stages of the relationship, she needs to see the masculine side of being confident and assertive. But also the feminine side; again, she wants to feel safe. This is the definition of the push and pull effect.
• 6:42 - Being busy is the easiest way to create that push-and-pull effect. Be active in your life and your goals; that sets the pace of the relationship, showing her that you won't be too clingy and giving her space while letting her miss you and crave your presence.
• 8:03 - Self-awareness. Being self-aware helps you embrace your masculine and feminine sides. Start journaling and doing more self-awareness exercises; the brain is a muscle that needs training.

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram;https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook;https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

Dating A Woman With A Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style! (Make Her WANT You MORE)

Do you feel like the woman you're dating is not fully there?

Do you see that sometimes, when things get serious, she pulls away?

If you ever see her doing the push and pull, but she is not fully committed, Then you might be dating a Fearful-Avoidant, Attachment-style woman. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into the intricacies of dating a woman with a fearful-avoidant attachment style, shedding light on strategies to enhance your appeal and foster a more profound connection while dating a fearful-avoidant attachment style woman.

Apollonia has worked with many clients to see a pattern in a man dating a fearful-avoidant woman.

However, by offering insights into the dos and don'ts of navigating a relationship with a woman exhibiting fearful-avoidant attachment tendencies, Apollonia provides valuable guidance on establishing and sustaining a lasting bond. She will give you essential advice for those currently dating a woman with a fearful-avoidant attachment style, including effective communication techniques to prevent unintentionally creating distance in the relationship.

So, if you're struggling to date a woman with a fearful-avoidant attachment style, how do you know if you're dating a fearful-avoidant attachment style woman, and how do you finally open her up? Then, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:33 - Apollonia talks about the different attachment styles. But in today's podcast, she will discuss one attachment style: A fearful, Avoidant Attachment Style.
• 1:25 - A little background on the theory of Avoidant Attachment Style. John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth tested their attachment theories by analyzing babies' earlier experiences. They saw a pattern of how they would develop later in life in personal growth and relationships.
• 1:50 - People with Secure Attachments are easy to show affection and interest. They uphold their values, exclude confidence, and, most importantly, set boundaries for people around them.
• 2:06 - What is an Avoidment Attachment style? Unlike Secure Attachment, they value independence. They hate the idea of being controlled or settling; this leads to unfilling or long-lasting relationships.
• 3:02 - You might see people with an Avoidment Attachment style holding on to friendships or relationships. However, they have one foot out the door, ready to leave when things get serious.
• 4:04 -They fear emotional and physical commitment and lash out when confined. They often do things alone and would rather not seek emotional support since they don't trust people.
• 4:18 - Like Avoidant Attachment, Anoxius Avoidant has some same qualities. They lack self-confidence, suppress their emotions and don't seek help. And unlike Avoidant Attachments, who like to do things alone, they would instead be alone to avoid getting hurt.
• 5:26 -To date someone with a Fearful, Avoidant Attachment style, you must know when and how to communicate your frustrations. When she promises to call or text and still doesn't, don't get mad, and send her a fury of texts immediately. Take a deep breath, relax, and then send your text.
• 6:08 - Communicate like adults. No demanding, no controlling the situation, talk. List your needs and wants, and listen to hers.
• 7:05 -Be patient with her. It's hard to do when she keeps pushing her away and wants to be alone. But remember, she likes to be alone to ease her anxiety. She needs time to think, sometimes requiring her to withdraw a bit.
• 7:50 -Tap into your empathy, but dont try to fix her. Understand her emotions and let her name her feelings. Support her, but don't push her. If you see that she doesn't want to express her feelings or change, except her or move on to another relationship. You can't change someone to fit your needs, but you can express your desires and wants.
• 9:31 - Respect their boundaries and maintain your independence. Sometimes, trying to rush the relationships and Fearful, Avoidant Attachment may try to run away at the sight of commitment. That's why giving her space is one way to make her know you respect her boundaries while maintaining yours.
• 10:47 - The most important thing to do when dating and fearful-avoidant attachment is not to be clingy. Picture this: you have a close friend who tries to cling to you and wants to know everything you do the whole day and every day. This can be overwhelming, so give her space. And she will go to you.

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram;https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook;https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

7 Signs A Woman Is Gaslighting and Manipulating You! (EXPOSING Toxic Women)

Do you feel like you are constantly second-guessing yourself in the relationship?

Do you see that sometimes your partner is always lying and making it sound like you're the crazy one?

Suppose you constantly see a pattern of lies and distorted information in the relationship. Then you might be dating a gaslighter. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will explore recognizing signs of gaslighting and manipulation in a relationship, thereby shedding light on toxic dynamics within relationships.

Apollonia has seen men fall into the cycle of manipulation by the woman they're dating. She understands how frustrating it can be when you're trying to express your discomfort to your manipulator only to be brought down. However, with Apollonia's guidance, she will provide insights into the concept of gaslighting, defining it as a manipulation tactic that deliberately induces doubt in another's mind, causing them to question their thoughts, feelings, and actions.

These practical examples will help you know how gaslighters often distort or misrepresent situations to suit their agenda, even when the facts contradict their narrative—involving a distorted version of reality implemented on their partner's view of the world.

So, if you're struggling with dating a gaslighter, how do you know if you're being manipulated, and how do you get out of one? Then, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 0:46 - What is gaslighting in the relationship? It's a person who will make you second-guess everything you do. They also try to palpitate or twist a situation to favor themselves even though it's completely wrong and feed you with lies until you are convinced they're right.
• 1:07 -Apollonia's example of a partner trying to gaslight someone and manipulate them. The person always tells you one thing but does the other; they will try to make you feel bad even though it wasn't your fault.
• 1:55 - To know a woman is a gaslighter and manipulating you is that she's constantly lying even after being confronted with the truth. Even when confronted with evidence that she was lying, she is so confident in her lies that it makes you second guess.
• 3:00 - The gaslighter wants the upper hand. She wants control of the situation even though it's her fault.
• 3:16 -the gaslighter questions your insanity. For example, when you tell a story, she will say how the events didn't happen or comment that your memory is terrible even though it was all true. Again, a gaslighter wants the upper hand in your life.
• 4:03 -A gaslighter will lower your self-esteem and confidence. When she's constantly telling you, you're wrong and feeding you with her lies. It will make you second guess everything you do in life and friendships and drift away from family. This is dangerous.
• 4:35 - When she accuses you of behaviors that she's engaging in. If you bring up her toxic behaviors, she will flip the situation, saying that you're the one with the unhealthy behaviors.
• 5:17 -she will make you rethink your perceptions and memories. Let's say she is flirting or talking to another man; when you express your discomfort, she will blame it on you, saying that you are too flirty with women and possessive.
• 5:57 -A gaslighter and a manipulator will make you second guess everything, down to everyday activities.
• 6:38 - Her goal is to make you dependent on her. She will want you to guess everything second so you can rely on them, to the point where you ask them for advice for even the most mundane things.
• 7:19 - She will try to isolate you. Let's say you have a close friend or family member, and she will start to talk about them in a bad light, making them seem like they don't support you or are bad people. This is a way of her controlling your life.
• 8:27 -When their actions don't match their words. She is telling you what you want to hear but does nothing. She is a walking contradiction. She will make you doubt your feelings and your sense of reality.
• 9:31 -The most significant sign is when she plays on your insecurities. When you express your insecurities, she will use that as advance to control your emotions (ex., If you're insecure about your age, she will say things like, "You look good. For your age")

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram;https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook;https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.

Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti

Are All Women Emotionally Unavailable? (What EVERY Man Needs To Know)

Do you feel like you might be dating an emotionally unavailable woman?

Do you feel that most of the women you date lead to nowhere?

If you are with a woman and the relationship is heading nowhere, you might be dating an emotionally unavailable woman. But how do you know if you are dating an emotionally unavailable woman? In this podcast episode, coaches Apollonia Ponti and Coach Cynthia delve into the crucial topic of female emotional availability, providing invaluable insights for every man dating an emotionally unavailable woman.

Both Apollonia and Coach Cynthia have worked with many men who have dealt with dating an emotionally unavailable woman. They empathize with the frustration when men want to take the relationship to the next level, only to have the woman pull away.

Apollonia and Coach Cynthia will provide insights into effective communication strategies when dealing with an emotionally unavailable woman and offer guidance on navigating situations while helping you find the right emotionally available woman.

So, if you're struggling with dating an emotionally unavailable woman, how do you know if you're dating an emotionally unavailable woman, and how do you find an emotionally available woman? Then, this is the podcast episode for you!

Key points in this episode:

• 1:08 - Understand that there are a lot of emotionally available women. However, it's your job not to fix that emotionally available woman. And focus on searching for an emotionally available woman instead.
• 2:14 -A lot of men get confused about why a woman lies about wanting emotionally available men. Most of the time, a woman who constantly seeks emotionally unavailable men is, too. Because they are emotionally unavailable, you must remember to watch for her behaviors and patterns.
• 2:59 - You want to be the emotional choice. Emotionally available women base their decisions on their emotions; if you constantly bring in negative emotions everywhere you go, she will see it as someone who can't take care of her emotional needs.
• 4:35 -You might still have that hero complex. You might be very empathetic, seeing emotionally unavailable women and wanting to help them. You mentally choosing an emotionally unavailable woman, start by stopping this hero complex to see if there is a shift in your dating life.
• 6:18 - What is the concept of being emotionally unavailable? Some men are confused about the difference between her wanting to get to know you better vs. just enjoying the dating process. Is she only happy when you give her or do things for her? Or is she happy just being in your company?
• 7:18 - Many men seek only one positive thing in the relationship and let go of the negatives. Usually, when men are in denial when dating an emotionally unavailable woman, they will be sucked into the ideal fantasy of what she could be rather than seeing the reality that she might be a walking red flag.
• 7:42 -When you're dating an emotionally unavailable woman, she will do nothing but break your heart and waste your time. It's easy to date someone, but it's hard to establish a relationship with them. An emotionally unavailable woman should not be your top priority in life.
• 9:18 - Let us be honest with ourselves. Sometimes, when we are not seeking honesty within ourselves, we ignore the mixed signals and patterns she is showing in the relationship. She might be saying one thing but contradicts herself; she will be affectionate with you but stops when she leaves. This is a sign that she's an emotionally unavailable woman.
• 10:54 -Why do you always end up dating an emotionally unavailable woman? It might be because you're intentionally seeking an emotionally unavailable woman.
• 11:38 -Dont try to fix her pain. When an emotionally unstable woman is still stuck in her trauma and past pains, you can help her, but don't try to fix it for her. Let her learn from her mistakes, and let her heal.
• 13:39 - There is a plan for you already set in your life. You have to choose the best one. Treat yourself like you're the best plan, take care of yourself mentally or physically, and reconnect with your wants and needs. It is then that you will start to attract emotionally available women.

"I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men!

All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review.

Free eBook: 7 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting a Woman

Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On:

Instagram;https://www.instagram.com/apollonia_ponti/?hl=en

Facebook;https://m.facebook.com/apollonialovecoach

YouTube; https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCYqdbnuvx-jJZByotoNW-5Q

Website; https://www.apolloniaponti.com/

Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.